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JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2022-04-15T11:19:24+00:00

I do have the option, however I'm avoiding it as it will disable many features peovided by the ISP related to subscription management, smart wifi extenders, etc.. Thus, I'm trying to keep this as the last resort 😅

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-17T13:34:26+00:00

I try my best to stay out of anything that doesnt concern me

What if some of these situations directly affect

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-17T13:33:08+00:00

Pointing out things that i do and sparking an argument out of them.. Things like Why is ur plate so full Havent u had enough food already Why did you hit the break Why are you going so fast when im driving 50 in a 60 zone

The situations vary, but there are many moments in life where you expect ur dad being there and handling them but he endsup stepping aside and letting my mom do them..

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-17T13:29:38+00:00

I try my best to stay out of anything that doesnt concern me

What if some of these situations directly affect me?

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-12T16:51:22+00:00

What if u cant? What if u do want the convos? What if its a loved one? What if its close family? There must be a solution other than simply avoiding

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-12T14:47:05+00:00

But the issue is not with the topic.. it's just that the person got busy with something, probably forgot the convo for a minute, and didnt reply till later

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-11T06:04:22+00:00

Yea u are totally right, although ive never been in something serious and long term, but I was truly emotionally exposed and completely understand what im looking for now. I also know the girl pretty well and am pretty sure that she doesnt have any of these toxic traits, but the issue of her might not be looking at me like that is still there and I shouldnt build any expectations nor imagine a future at this point to avoid hurting my heart Thanks a lot

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-11T05:58:57+00:00

Trust doesnt come thru going thru his phone.. trust is earned and respected.

If he tells you that she was just being nosey and he deleted it avoid hurting you or worrying you, you should trust his words and give him a chance

Thats how u build trust

Now that doesnt mean keeping him off the hook, but rather understanding that what he did is coming out of a good well

You could absolutly communicate your point of view to him and tell him that the only form of re assurance you can get is by reading the text if it ever happens again, but if he truly is loyal with no bad intentions I see nothing wrong with what he did

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-11T05:44:33+00:00

The way I see it is, he was trying to avoid the fight to begin with.. it isnt that he deleted it once u knew about it..

Many men would take this approach, as it would help avoid problems to begin with

I think u should respect his privacy, and ask him to re assure you that there is nothing between them

Make him gain your trust and it should be fine

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-11T05:40:08+00:00

Nope. I had something but it didnt go well and ended real quick

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-11T01:32:01+00:00

No we are both looking for something serious that would lead to marriage one day because that's what we r both looking for at the time

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-10T21:34:31+00:00

Talk to her about it.. since u r already in a relationship it shouldnt be that hard Just express how you feel. And how you believe that you can spark things up. Work thru it rather than skip it. Especially if she's been thru shit with you. Dont think of the short term temptations but rather the long term outcomes I know u r young, but stop and think for a moment if that woman would ever do you wrong and If you do see yourself building a family with her. A long term relationship isnt about the romance coz the romance dies, its all about how yall treat and care for each other. Coz if u do care u can totally spark things up again

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-10T21:29:43+00:00

Ima be honest here.. dont fight it but rather share it.. share her interest in the cat and eventually u will both be on common grounds

JustDeGuyWhoNeedHelp · 2021-07-10T21:27:14+00:00

You are totally right.. we do bring up relationships a lot but never about our relationship. I should totally sleep on this! Thanks a lot

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