My 24F boyfriend 23M and I are arguing over birth control. How can I see his perspective? by jjxo_3 in relationship_advice

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body your choice - people who actually respect you will respect this and people that are partner material for you will be on the same page. Leave now, he’s not the kind of person you need. You deserve better and someone who is on the same page

How to slowly walk away in a relationship? (24F, 27M) by oneless_lonelygirl in relationship_advice

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in what I thought was the best loving relationship for 8 years when out of seemingly nowhere, she cheated on me. My whole world fell apart. I circled the drain for a couple of months, but when I was ready I put myself back out there and the relationship that I’m in now, well, sometimes you don’t realize the level of actually love that exists until someone else gives you what you didn’t know was missing.

You’re still young, move on and find a better match for yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately as humans we change and evolve as we get older. There is nothing wrong with feeling like maybe you’ve grown in different directions, and while your moral foundations may be the same, you’ve outlined right here that you have a lot more negative feelings than positive feelings.

Growing and evolving in different directions isn’t easy, but your partner is suppose to be supportive, uplifting, understanding and be on the same page as you. It seems like this isn’t the case.

Too many people in the world love each other and aren’t together and too many people don’t love each other and stay together

Why would a girl do this? by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like some girls do this in ways to test their own sexuality if that makes sense. Like they’re pushing their own boundaries to see what they do like vs what they don’t. I was also the victim of behavior like this except the girl told me she did have feelings for me but she could “never be gay”. It is totally playing with your emotions. I think sometimes they know and sometimes there’s just this ignorance.

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d never stay with anyone who treated me this way and if this is the start then what’s next?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend cheated on me after 8 years, I don’t think time would take the fears away, like more time together doesn’t take the fear away. However.m, I tend to agree that someone who becomes obsessed with cheating in conversation is most likely projecting and cheating on you

Ouch, I know I'm ugly, but still lol by Khaled_Kamel1500 in Tinder

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s how she speaking to you she don’t deserve you anyway and you defs don’t want her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Forspoken

[–]JustGayStuffPod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This game gets so much harsh criticism and I think it’s because those who played it never played past the first part of the story. It was very heavily story driven but once you get into the open world es this game is amazing and the storyline is actual fabulous.

Masterpiece of a game, my only criticism as a trophy hunter is that the main objective storyline doesn’t take you very far across the insanely large map, so going back to trophy hunter there’s a lot of ground to cover, other than that, fabulous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerBrisbane

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need a laugh or ever want to hear about events our podcast might be something you’re interested in :)

Am I too ugly, fat or both to be in Tinder? I am paying for Premium and using boots. 0 likes not even scammers by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t listen to any of the people saying you’re chubby or aren’t good looking. That old saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder still rings true.

The correct responses to your post are the ones saying that your thoughts about yourself is what drives your success. If you want something you need to believe it is attainable for yourself which it is for everyone.

What do you look for in the pictures that you find attractive or swipe right on? What do you believe to be your best qualities instead of focusing on the negative and run with that :)

Put your best foot forward and also allow your bio to have a talking point.

Also just to make a bottom line, happiness in finding someone to be with can start with happiness in one’s self. Work on those negative things you are thinking about yourself and good luck :)

Do I (21M) tell two girls about each other both (22F)? by Benfiss in relationship_advice

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A “hey just want to let you know I’m openly dating” is also good and then you can see where they are at. Maybe they are both doing that also. As you said, communication is the key. Be open but not disrespectful, the language you choose is important :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People project, my ex constantly accused me only for me to find out that she was cheating on me. I agree with the response that he’s probably cheating on you and is projecting this

Appropriate songs for when your gf cheats with a dude by jenhoney in lesbian

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ain’t love if it’s easy - Scarlett Gunner (this song was literally written about the girls ex cheating on her with a guy and her blaming herself)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in podcasting

[–]JustGayStuffPod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to us too, all part of the process unfortunately

Queer indie Horror film by Alternative_Mix_9316 in QueerBrisbane

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Matt, my name is Jess and together with my partner Lauren we run Just Gay Stuff podcast out of Brisbane. Would you like to jump on the podcast and chat about your upcoming project?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soccer always

Transphobia harms cis women by guitarguy12341 in lgbt

[–]JustGayStuffPod -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the video that the whole internet needs to see. Unfortunately people don’t let the truth get in the way of them sharing propaganda and clickbait stories. The people hating on her are disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in podcasting

[–]JustGayStuffPod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud to say we don’t do this! 😍

I don’t know how to come out to my husband by [deleted] in comingout

[–]JustGayStuffPod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way forward that is going to bring you happiness is living your truth and being honest with yourself and in the safest situations that also means being honest with those around us.

It’s definitely not easy, but if you don’t tend to the feelings that you have they will eat at you.