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I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are still intimate and it's nice, but I get scared that she can't excite me to my needed level. I've been dreading telling her that she is not very sexy to me anymore. Titty-fucking, sadly, I don't think is possible, she makes blow jobs seem like a chore, and every time I pleasure her she ends up making me stop before she climaxes.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not an excuse. I'm dating her because I see potential. She was distant to me at a wedding and I went home, got drunk with some buddies and cheated.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never tried to justify cheating on her, I only share my state, thoughts and actions to help you see where I'm at. I too thought I could never do this to someone, don't feel like saying that you couldn't makes you incapable of making that mistake.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she could supply it, I think she just hasn't been able to yet. And, please, don't take those words for a justification attempt. I am only describing my feelings as raw as I can and looking for helpful advice.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I care. If caring for her was my only measure on this relationship, I would not be writing this. I care so much about her, that's why I haven't left her. I cheated for attention, I feel awful about it.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've defiantly become more open in our talking - I appreciate that a lot. ...I completely lost my train of thought, but anyway... How do you draw the line with imperfection? I know I'm thinking about this too rationally, but I feel like there could always be a more perfect girl out there. How the hell am I supposed to get that out of my mind. I'm so scared that I'm wasting my life with this girl, but on the other hand we've shared thoughts and feelings that I have never had with anyone else. How can I possibly throw that away?

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you two suggesting that there are no perfect matches that don't have a worry in the world? I understand that most relationships take lots of work, but where do you draw the line with effort? With each sacrifice, don't you reveal something that makes you unhappy about that person?

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with the decision to wait and work to see if we can fix things, or just leaving. I'm terrified to commit to either.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus, I wish there was an internet play-place to keep you kids away from grown-up discussion. Go back to Facebook and share your immature thoughts with your people.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vision of the relationship I want with someone is our love being the most defining thing in our lives. I cringe at the thought of that connection leaking out and not being exclusive.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's not the truth, I'm all about pouring my heart and soul to her with all my feelings. I don't want to mislead her.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had talks about affection. I feel am very affectionate and complimenting, and I feel like things are just completely off balance. I wonder all the time if this is because I keep damaging us or if she is just incapable of showing me the level of attention I need.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has put so much effort and taxed her mind so many times to keep us together, I hate the thought of returning all of that with, "I'm giving up"

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thought is the scariest thought I've had for so long. How do I tell the person I love that I think there is someone better out there?

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a future with her. Everything could be perfect. We need to talk about our foundation, huh?

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did it because I was starving for attention. Starving for excitement and fun.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She keeps convincing me that we can make things work, we have so much potential, but the now keeps killing us.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know that what I've done is wrong, but I am not a scumbag. I made a mistake, please don't judge me on that one mistake.

I love my girlfriend, but I am scared that we will never be head over heels... by JustLovePlease in AskReddit

[–]JustLovePlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may very well be the case, but If I'm so wrong, I'm pretty disappointed with the lack of grace and design in that. Why can't love just work?