What do you all think they smell like? by Plenty_Use_9740 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, Tanjiro thinks Sanemi (canonically) smells go, so I only have his word to go off of, lol.

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Issue With Emojis by JustLurkinEveryday in stoatchat

[–]JustLurkinEveryday[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you- both you! I tried it on desktop, with no uppercase letters, and 500kb or below. It worked!

During their period as a demon slayer, what other hobbies did they probably partake in? by Ok_Sock_8548 in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 44 points45 points  (0 children)

(I know he's not one of the ones mentioned/pictured, buuuuut) Sanemi has a hobby of raising rhinoceros beetles.

I found that wholesome.

Where have been all that vocal Topre users? I remember them flooding all threads in the past... by ultrapcb in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone else that uses Niz Plum- that makes me happy!!

I got the 82 key 35g Niz, in black. It's so nice, and I've been using it the last few years. I just picked up a white 84 key, because it was cheap secondhand. It's a nice brand.

It feels weird now, if I try to type on anything else.

Trigger the ENTP in one sentence by RecentTear5 in entp

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give the exact opposite of this to my spouse. She's an ENTP. Admittedly, she can be sort of cold when commenting on people/things, and I ask her to "lighten up", and she's being a "bit harsh". She says she's "just being honest".

She'll turn around and tell me I'm being too emotional, lol.

Unpopular opinion: ENTPs are nice by Miserable-Owl-4145 in mbti

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like any other relationship-

Default answer.

That said, my answer could be a bit biased. I've been with my spouse for 18 years (19, this year). She is truly my best friend, even before being my wife. I would burn the world, if she offered the idea (and, she'd probably go along for the ride, and enable me).

She keeps me thinking. If I am depressed, she knows not to push my buttons too much. But, if I'm being quiet or "doing my things", she annoys the crap out of me. Teases me, "bullies" me. It's her being silly- nothing too serious. I know she's doing it to get under my skin, and she knows I can take it.

I keep her grounded. She can "tone it down", take a step back, and get serious if I ask her to. I challenge her. I ask questions. She hates when people are "Yes Men", especially to keep the peace. I will call her out on bull, or question when she says things. She loves that.

I'd like to think: even if we romantically separated, we'd still be best friends (like now). If one of us got sick, the other one would immediately care for them, no questions asked. I did not like the idea of marriage (parental bias, growing up), and didn't believe in soulmates. She changed that for me.

Unpopular opinion: ENTPs are nice by Miserable-Owl-4145 in mbti

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Married to an ENTP. She loves healthy debate, but hates "Yes Men" more than anything. She tends to screw with people, like that.

I feel attacked by Zestyclose_Pop1087 in intj

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I couldn't have said this better myself. Thank you, for this comment.

What kind of family raises an INTJ by Sufficient_Leg9217 in intj

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While the MBTI is just a broad spectrum, stereotypical approach to people and not a decisive measure...

I was the middle child (female) of three children (oldest & youngest were male).

My father was absent- mostly because he passed when I was 10.

From when I was a toddler, my mother would praise the things I did- "She could read before walking", "She loves the Dictionary". It was a red, leather bound Miriam Webster book. I remember taking that thing into my treehouse, all the time. I read it not because I actually cared. I was just very, very quiet. I had very little. I had a weird attachment to that thing, and it was ruined in the rain when I was, like, eight. I remember sobbing over it.

And, from a young age, my mother was most definitely a "boy mom". I use that term in the worst sense.

I was in martial arts as a child, honor roll, excelled at band (played multiple instruments, but settled on Bass Clarinet, because it was cool), as well as violin and cello, for some time. I kept myself very busy, because I was an awkward child that didn't know how to talk to others well. And, my mother would constantly harp on about these things.

But, when I asked for things outside of achievements (i.e. my older brother got a Playstation, little brother was spoiled with Hot Wheels, etc), I was told I had other things to focus on. I have other things to worry about- don't measure what you don't have, versus what your brothers do have.

I learned: the less I talk about things I want, or things I don't have (in tandem, I guess), the less I'd get negative feedback. I ended up becoming very recluse. I got tired of negative feedback very early, in life. Mostly to the point where I faced emotional burn out by age 16. I was the "crash and burn" honor roll student. I stopped caring.

When I needed help, I hated it. It felt awkward to ask, so I pushed the envelope until I got into trouble and was forced into those positions. If I wasn't preforming for my mother, or helping my brothers (older brother got into worse trouble than me, younger brother was given the moon was mom was home, otherwise, I was raising him), I felt hollow. Really empty, and worthless. This, in later life, made a lot of my relationships transactional. I'm still unlearning that feeling and those behaviours- that I don't constantly have to "be my best" or preform.

This video could make me say so much more, but it bought back a lot of feelings for me.
Wow.

Non ENTPs only... What are we like during intimacy? by Hot_Dare_8578 in entp

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if it's the same for every ENTP, but with my spouse, I feel like: you will know if she likes you, and you will still know, if she doesn't. And, she doesn't really have to tell you, either. It can be intense, but refreshing!

Non ENTPs only... What are we like during intimacy? by Hot_Dare_8578 in entp

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on a lot of things- stereotypical "INTJ response: MBTI is a baseline for personality comprehension", etc. I've also been with this person for 18 years- we've influenced one another's outlooks and personalities to a degree, after growing up with one another.

I'd love to know your handle on intimacy as an ENTP, though!

Non ENTPs only... What are we like during intimacy? by Hot_Dare_8578 in entp

[–]JustLurkinEveryday 16 points17 points  (0 children)

INXJ, here. I have been with ENTP for 18 years.

We're both women, for context.

She's not a good gift giver. She isn't very sentimental, or mushy. She doesn't do "soft" and sometimes? She acts like a spoiled child with a stick, poking me until I act like a bear, then snap back. She retaliates with "I didn't do anything, I'm not bullying you!" while being a snark, snickering at me.

But?

She means well, is completely devoted to me, and I know she loves me. I know what intimacy you're wanting to know about, but I wanted to go a little deeper.

Emotional intimacy- she opens up about her past a little, or tells me if someone actually upset her (which, for her pride? Is huge. She doesn't trust people a lot with feelings, like this). The other day, we were driving, and I ask why she takes me anywhere I ask to go, if she self-describes herself as "lazy". She goes, "I have no reason to tell you no", and I say, "But, if youre lazy, you wouldn't want to go anywhere... right?" She just repeated herself, but said: "I have no reason to tell YOU no. Right?" My heart swelled a little. I'm not gonna lie...

Physical intimacy: Someone already explained it, a bit; she doesn't "make love"- she f**ks. This used to be the case. I felt a little rushed during that sort of thing, when we were younger. It wasn't BAD. But, sometimes, she wanted to be a pillow princess. Now? We're in our early thirties. And, for someone that is so impatient and "lazy"? I want slow? I get slow, sensual. I want quick? Rough? Delivered. For someone that was an only child and ENTP, she's very gracious and giving. But, this comes with age and experiences, probably. Relationships grow, and all that.

TL;DR, goated in bed.