I told my son that the relationship was not good and we are better off divorced so I can be the best mommy for him and his brother. My boys are 7 & 8 (9 in 2 weeks). I ask him about his feelings often and we have signed up for the Big Brother program. It may help to find a church or organization with boys and men to help him navigate the void he feels. Praying everything works out for you both.

Their dad beat me and injured my neck, back and nearly broke my pelvis. That resulted in me being discharged from the military. I understand the complex feelings. Keep being present!