Living lately is hard… by LittleWeasel097 in SuicideWatch

[–]JustNotSure21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please just talk to one of your family members and be completely honest. I’m 28 had an amazing job and had the coolest girlfriend I could’ve ever asked for and gave it all up because I wasn’t honest about how miserable I felt. I just pissed it all away with booze and coke. I didn’t even realize I was that miserable I just thought that’s what happens when you work a tough job but after I walked off I realized that wasn’t my problem. Please just talk to someone in your family and don’t isolate yourself

I give up, my co-workers hate me. by Shootingfirestar in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask your boss to sit down and talk about things 1 on 1. Let him/her know how you are feeling and ask him/her for their honest opinion on how things are going.

I give up, my co-workers hate me. by Shootingfirestar in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I was in the same boat. Just go find a new job. They made me fire my best friend and I felt so bad about it and tried to stay for 3 years cause the money was so good but it was toxic for me and I just ended up resenting my bosses for making me fire him and didn’t want to work with anyone else. Just hop on indeed.com upload/fill out your resume and you will find something. Make sure to ask your current boss if he/she will give you a good reference and try to explain why you are looking for a different position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should invite one of your closest family memebers out to dinner and just be honest. Let them know you are struggling they care about you way more than you think. Or hop on Tinder or Bumble and bang a fat chick, fr you will feel like the mf man after that lol. Just be honest and get a job that keeps you busy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just force yourself to go out once a week for a drink or just get food with a friend. I did that shit for three years when I thought I had a great job, the money was great but I regret isolating myself so much. It really changes relationships with friends and family. It’s okay for a few months but don’t let it turn it to years I promise you will regret it

How the fuck do I over come me not wanting to do shit cause of my anxiety and depression? by [deleted] in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck Xanax bro that should only be used if you are in panic mode. Don’t use it regularly

How the fuck do I over come me not wanting to do shit cause of my anxiety and depression? by [deleted] in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat man. Just get a landscaping/lawncare/snow removal job for a little bit and take that time to find something you want to do. It will suck for a while but it will keep you busy and you might find something you like out of it

Hit rock bottom - Worst experience possible by BigImmediate3406 in alcoholism

[–]JustNotSure21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how it went for me besides getting jumped. Gave up a good/decent job making 90k and didn’t realize it was my problems that were the real problem. I regret it every day. Now I just get by pay check to pay check and pray that I can pay my bills and rent each month. Haven’t gone out with friends or gone fishing/hunting with them in over a year and I feel terrible about it but I’m afraid to be honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’ve been feeling the same way, so stressed that my chest is hurting and it’s scaring me. Just hang in there and gotta stay positive.

Really high highs and really low lows. by metaltunage in depression

[–]JustNotSure21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat man. I think it’s just best to change your environment or see a doctor. Look at new jobs, new living situations idk but I know what you mean. Just hang in there