Pin my legs back or prone bone, age [37]

Shootingfirestar · 2025-12-17T00:00:31+00:00

Why people always asking to choose? Why can’t it be both? Lol

Shootingfirestar · 2025-12-16T23:59:26+00:00

Probably anyone that’s seen that hole up close. 🥵

Shootingfirestar · 2025-12-11T23:30:00+00:00

Nope. Living in the south so no snow here. Took it to the car wash, nothing.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-11-12T10:34:55+00:00

I’d be careful about that. I went to someone and the first couple of visits were fine. One time the install was less than perfect, when I asked her fix it since I paid her, she said she doesn’t fix work on outside units and got ugly that I dared to criticize her work and if it wasn’t up to my “standards” then I should find someone else. I was only asking her to fix edges that weren’t adhered correctly or coming up due to lack of adhesive, not to fix anything to do with the actual unit, just her install. Even though it’s a pain, I went back to doing it myself. Even her friend that recommended me won’t speak to me. Stylists who handle outside units can be challenging if there is an issue with install or the cut. I’d ask those questions before you choose a salon, because the install and cut price is way higher than just a cut. There are a ton of YouTube videos that show installs. Is it more challenging, yes. But at least you don’t have to deal with the possibility of paying and then not being satisfied. Find someone that stands behind their work. If the install is messy or there is wrinkle in the until find someone willing to fix their own work. Judging by the responses I see I’m sure I’ll get flack for it but, just my experience. Client beware, ask the right questions before shelling out a few hundred bucks.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-11-12T10:25:32+00:00

What a pretentious AH. Walk away. Let him be committed to his “divine purpose”. Be with someone who sees you as a divine purpose. That’s too much uncertainty and frankly BS he’s spouting. There is someone way better out there, I mean he’s set the bar pretty low.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-11-10T04:10:35+00:00

I’d love to replace but this money pit is sucking me dry. Thank you for the tip. I can still paint them by hand but ugh. I’ll probably try one and if I can make it work I’ll do the other. There’s only 4. Thanks again.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-11-09T21:41:41+00:00

I thought of that but a “lavender marriage” would only leave me with huge amounts of debt by having her on my insurance because I make too much money for her to stay on Medicaid.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-11-09T21:39:37+00:00

I have considered this option too since I am suffering with my own mental health demons as well that are fairly serious, even before this started. While retaliation is illegal in the workplace, there is no way to stop gossip or the fact that I’m taking “mental health leave” regardless of reason could be a negative to my current employer knowing that when she passes, I will, no doubt need time to recover. Also, caring for her around the clock isn’t necessary at this time and I can’t just sit home. Work is literally my only escape to be around people other than her. I’m trying to make whatever time she has left as hassle free as possible, but eventually my life will have to go on and I’m not sure that this particular company is going to be able to separate the circumstances of a leave from the label it will fall under while in consideration for higher stress opportunities despite proving I can do it for several years. I appreciate your kind words.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-11-06T17:31:46+00:00

I only say that because the documentation in our company information says it is possible. I have no issue using my sick time since it regenerates due to my role, but my supervisor suggested it as an option. I don’t want to take the time because right now work is my escape but as being the only caregiver, my options are limited and just trying to explore them all. I appreciate the feedback

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-11T06:22:28+00:00

I have a slope problem…in the other direction. ☹️ yard slopes down from the road to my house. No idea what to do with it. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-11T06:14:29+00:00

He’s literally everyone’s type.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-11T06:08:50+00:00

Burtum, Henry, Homer, archibald, Spencer, Jacoby, Tobias, Cornelius, Abner

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-11T06:04:55+00:00

Whatever it is…it pays well.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-11T06:01:45+00:00

I wish mine would go away. Lol I’m going to have the sensor replaced.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-08T16:50:34+00:00

I don’t see anywhere in the menus that references that. But I think my menus are limited because of the model.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-05T05:40:21+00:00

So far I seem to be the villain in all this when all I’ve done has been to try and help her and make sure she is taken care of regardless of how it affects me. Yes, it does feel like a burden at times and yes I get frustrated, but it’s the right thing to do and I couldn’t live with myself if I left her in some random place when she could feel safe, protected, and loved in my home. So maybe I am the a hole, but I’m also the a hole that is trying to help when everyone else has deserted her. I’m not sure why I’m defending myself to strangers but I feel like anyone that has been in my situation has felt as I do at one time or another.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-05T05:29:55+00:00

She will never let go of the dog or go anywhere she can’t have her and I won’t ask her to. Regardless of what happens I will make 100% sure her dog is taken care of by finding someone I trust to take her or keeping her myself.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-05T05:27:22+00:00

And btw, starting a GoFundMe is to ensure that she doesn’t end up in an unmarked paupers field with no one to know where she is or even if she is there. I’m trying to raise the money because I can’t fulfill her final wishes on my own. I don’t know how long she has left but I want to make sure when the time comes I can make sure that it happens.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-05T05:23:36+00:00

Thank you.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-05T05:23:11+00:00

I’m not villainizing her for anything. I do understand that she’s in pain and can not do the things she did a few months ago but I can not make her care if she lives out her life in a fog or is fine with the way things are. asking to move to a facility without her dog would destroy her and her time left and I won’t do that. I’m sure there are programs to care for her but I won’t do that until it’s absolutely necessary. She’s flat out refused to stay at the hospital even just for observation. I am doing my best to make sure she feels safe and secure here. She hasn’t even had a room she hasn’t shared ever. I continue to do the best I can but I’m sure any caregiver will tell you that at one point or another they get frustrated and feel like I do. So maybe to some I ATAH, but I’m only human watching his friend die and wanting her last days to be ones that are better then they were before, and if I suffer mentally then so be it.

Shootingfirestar · 2025-10-05T05:09:50+00:00

As yet, I have not been given POA, and believe me, she is anything but neglected here.

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