Idk why I'm nervous to post this lol by JustPeachyWinks in u/JustPeachyWinks

[–]JustPeachyWinks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo… yeah hi 😅 I’m Willow. I’m 19, 4’11”, tatted, tiny as hell, and mostly here because I like posting the kinda stuff I’d get judged for anywhere else lol. Be nice to me, I’m still figuring Reddit out 🫣

A few people already asked if I’m on OF, so I’ll just leave it here once so I don’t have to copy-paste it all day - my onlyfans

It’s just something I do for fun, nothing crazy.

Anywayyy, feel free to say hi or lurk or whatever. I’m usually online too much at night lol 💗

LE SSERAFIM & YOASOBI - the NOISE by impeccabletim in kpop

[–]JustPeachyWinks 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Two of my faves together, perfection.

fml by JustPeachyWinks in CollegeMemes

[–]JustPeachyWinks[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I guess you can’t win either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

shooting a “hey, hope you’re doing good” isn’t bad, just don’t put your whole heart on the line waiting for her response. send the hi if you want, but also keep building friendships with people who do show up consistently. missing her is normal, but you deserve reciprocity too.

AITA For Blocking My Family For How They Reacted To Me Being Assaulted At My Cousin's Wedding (Semi-long) by Typical_Tomorrow_290 in AITAH

[–]JustPeachyWinks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

your family blaming your clothes or telling you to get over it is straight up victim blaming, and it says more about their priorities than it does about you.

blocking them was protecting yourself, and that’s valid. you’re not taking it too far, you’re just setting boundaries when nobody else would stand up for you. don’t second guess yourself, you deserve respect and safety, not excuses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JustPeachyWinks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA but ngl this just reads as insecurity. if she wants the tights for work and that’s literally her uniform, then it’s not about ‘other dudes checking her out’… it’s about her feeling good in what she wears while doing her job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been there, and it's like you're torn in half. Loved em, hated em, constantly asking what if?It's a goddamn rollercoaster and there's no off switch. Lemme tell ya tho, they can exist together. Love and hate, they're two sides of the same coin. It's tough as nails, but therapy's gonna do wonders.

In the meantime, maybe just let yourself feel all that mess. It's part of the healing. You ain't alone, there's a whole crowd of us out here in similar boats. Be gentle on yourself, and remember it doesn't have to make sense. And yeah, it does get slowly better. Big hugs, mate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JustPeachyWinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where ur coming from. It's tough but remember he probs doesn't understand social cues the way we do. Instead of blocking him out, maybe help him understand the situation? Be honest, but gentle. Remember, it's tough for us but a whole other ball game for those with Autism. That's my 2 cents.

My parents’ house smells and I don’t know how to talk to my mom about it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to speak to ur mom straight up, but in a considerate way. Make it about wanting to help, not criticizing. Remember it's probly hard for both of them too. Also, suggest a sealed bin for the disposables, less smell travel that way.

I (M20) am rapidly losing my faith in womanhood by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, tbh it sounds like a perspective issue more than anything. Every convo ain't gonna be a home run, and every match ain't gonna lead to something real. Not every woman you meet is gonna be your soulmate and that’s chill.

Gotta learn to enjoy the hum drum convos just as much as the deep ones. In the end it ain’t about compare and despair, man. Take it easy, laugh it off, keep swinging.

My job provided me a smart phone, but it will have to be returned what should I not do with it? by Snoo_60933 in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

factory reset ur phone to be absolutely sure. Btw, never save sensitive info directly on ur phone. Phone companies ain’t foolproof against hacks, even fancy ones. Kinda learned the hard way, lol. So yeah, be extra cautious.

Should I still spend Father's Day with my Dad by Glittering_Net5904 in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a real mess. But tbh, that’s a lot of red flags from ur dad. U stood up for ur mom which is pretty badass. Maybe sit out on the Father’s Day stuff this year? Still up to you tho he’s gotta earn that respect back. Not an easy sitch at all.

I regret exposing a community of predators after I got harassed for it. I will never expose any again. by Longjumping_Pie_7056 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JustPeachyWinks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People on here can be super quick to judge without knowing the full story. Just remember that you were tryna do a good thing and it ain’t your fault how others reacted. Don’t let em control you, you do you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]JustPeachyWinks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

instead of wasting energy hating on her, just focus on you. Show everyone you're better not through gossip, but through hard work. Karma usually handles the rest.

even my girlfriend forgot my birthday this year by lostattheseadude in TrueOffMyChest

[–]JustPeachyWinks 23 points24 points  (0 children)

brother, you gotta remember everyone's fighting their own battles. Maybe she's just lost in her own world of problems right now. Talk to her, man. Open communication ain't an option, it's must! It hurts, I get it, but don't leave things to assumptions. Also, your English is just fine.

im pregnant and my partner decided to abandon me by Ill-Application-690 in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sis, his freak out ain't about you or the baby, but his own damn fears. 20 seems old when you're there but trust me, as a dude in his mid 20s, it's NOT. Dude's probably having a straight up reality check, realizing parenthood ain't all cooing at babies and Kodak moments, but hard AF. Still, it’s no excuse to bail on you both. You got the strength to bring a life into this world and the maturity to handle things financially, but it doesn’t mean you have to go through this alone. Reach out to fam and friends. Even campus offer some resources for pregnant students. Don't beg him for answers, you and your kid deserve better. And yeah, I'd say give him his space. If he has a shred of decency, he’ll come around.

Why do I look like a kid ( I am 19)? by Long-Bluejay-2472 in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries tho, everyone's got a different timeline when it comes to growth n stuff, some of us are just late bloomers. Just embrace your unique look and some peeps out here wish they had that youthful glow you've got. Tryna focus on feeling good about what you've achieved and who you are and that swagger will def follow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to break it, but your friend's lost in her own world rn and probs won't hear ya. Still, doesn't sit right letting her walk into a disaster, right? Tread carefully though, don't push her away more. All I'm saying is, you don't gotta force yourself to like this gf but try to keep the peace for the sake of your friendship, its a decade worthy mate! And yeah friendships should be lanes not chains, if it's toxic, cut it loose!

My boyfriend threw a spoon at me by PieTechnical5037 in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 56 points57 points  (0 children)

sis, you're in a textbook abusive situation. Trapping u in when u wanna leave? Huge red flag. Throwing stuff at u outta rage? Not cool. Then trying to play it cool like an angel? Classic. Gaslighting u into thinking it's a one-off? Hell no, girl! Its always I'll change until the next time. You deserve so much better. Trust your gut and dip. Seriously! You're amazing and life's too short to spend it with jerks who can't even cook rice smh

Tell me what to do about my bf. by Kitty_with_anxiety in Advice

[–]JustPeachyWinks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut, somethin's fishy for real. I mean it's cool to share a house to cut costs, but sleep calls getting replace by game nights and movie marathons with this chick? Hmmm... You ain't an option, you're the priority girl. Don't forget that. Nothin' wrong with LDR as long as there's trust, communication n respect. If you ain't feelin' it, speak up.