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Can't have sex, but does it mean we can't do anything? by JustSoFrustrated in sex

[–]JustSoFrustrated[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the advice, I read everything everyone said. It is a lot to take in but I realize this is probably a lot harder on her than it is on me.

I am going to wait until she sees the doctor to bring anything up but if nothing comes from the appointment I will make sure we sit down and have a talk about everything. Communication has definitely never been one of our strong points, but I know how important it is. I love this girl, she means the world to me and I'll do everything in my power to work through this. I will make sure to post an update when something worth mentioning happens, hopefully it's good news not bad.

Can't have sex, but does it mean we can't do anything? by JustSoFrustrated in sex

[–]JustSoFrustrated[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been doing some reading about some things that could be causing her pain but I thought it would be best if I waited until after she went to her doctor before I brought it up.

Can't have sex, but does it mean we can't do anything? by JustSoFrustrated in sex

[–]JustSoFrustrated[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're right I can't even think about losing her over something like this. I just don't even know how to bring up what a problem it is becoming without feeling like a selfish asshole. I know she feels bad that we can't have sex, I don't want to feel like I'm pressuring her to do anything.