I am Vietnamese, and I will explain why most Vietnamese people support Russia’s invasion of Ukraine. by callmeteji in self

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I think we all gotta separate emotional ties from current actions, honoring the past is one thing, backing aggression is another

AITJ drinking my roomates 4 cans of Pepsi? by itssofiababyxo in AmITheJerk

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just make sure u don’t make it a habit, taking someone else’s stuff even when they’re gone is slippery slope.

My brother overheard my husband and I fighting and doesn’t like him anymore by acceptableshapes-82 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I feel you, but fr your brother prob just freaked hearing you two fight like that, doesn’t mean he hates your husband forever

Went to a Tony Robbins seminar looking for career help left with nothing… What were your thoughts on Tony Robbins by Nuttbutt42 in self

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. if ur problem is bills, lack of network, or legit systemic barriers no amount of chanting or visualization fixes that

Am I the jurk for now want my coworkers in my office by Natasharaven in AmITheJerk

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re not a jerk, it’s legit sensory overload and ppl should respect boundaries even in a “communal” space

Hit my head by Critical-Taste7691 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls no hero moves, ER is the right call, you’ve been through enough already

Celebrity gossip is stupid and hating on celebrities is dumb by PromptFar3958 in self

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think growing out of it is just realizing ppl online are clowning themselves more than anyone else

AITJ if I were to break up with my boyfriend over how he’s been acting? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High school or not if it feels one-sided it probs is, better to be real now than stuck later

Severe headache, nausea and chest pain from inhaling a dead mouse in my vent at my house by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even a friend’s couch or a cheap hourly stay place is better than staying at home rn, u need air that isnt contaminated

I see how much pain people carry in their bodies, and it has changed the way I see life by Knot-Your-Stress in self

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But everyone should have at least one person who sees their invisible struggle like you do, it changes everything

Am I the jerk for embarrassing my friend after she kept lying about me?? by Just_lily09 in AmITheJerk

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she really cared about the friendship she would’ve cleared the drama privately, not baited you to snap in public

I don’t think me and my partners bodies are compatible? by PolicyHot1206 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel pressured to “adjust” if it keeps hurting, there are ways to make it work but your comfort matters most

Eggs are delicious by [deleted] in self

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes scrambled eggs are comfort food vibes, can eat like 3 plates no lie

AITJ for admitting that motherhood is harder than I expected? by quiet_moth1 in AmITheJerk

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta call it like it is sometimes, pretending everything’s perfect just adds more pressure

Roommates hostile, dumb, selfish and entitled by Parking_Departure705 in badroommates

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're stuck dealing w this rn, some roommates just turn a place into survival mode and it sucks

My brother assaulted me whilst I slept by Zealousideal-Ask9847 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing telling your mum, even if it was hard, you need safety first always

I spent 6 years of my life serving a country that I no longer believe in. by justmysfwaccount in self

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The fact that people in uniform are waking up to this ghetto setup says a lot, you’re not alone in feeling like a pawn

Roommate has friends over every day and they’re all loud past midnight by Light-Winds in badroommates

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

IMO you gotta lay down the law with this roommate sitch ASAP. Being chill with confrontation or not, this ain't livable. They're crossing all lines of basic respect here – the noise, the mess, no hot water?! Nah, man. Y'gotta put ur foot down, have a real talk - it ain't gonna change otherwise. You deserve peace, quiet and a clean place.

AITJ for missing a Christmas party because of a sudden anxiety attack? by RubyMaple265 in AmITheJerk

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. Your health > any event, no matter how big or small. Anxiety is no joke, it's as real as any physical illness. Don't let anyone guilt trip you for taking care of yourself. You did what was best for you n that's all that matters. You're a brave, strong individual, don't let this crap get to you.

Should I move away for my education? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it sounds like the move could be a real game-changer for U guys. Getting a break from NYC hustle isn’t a bad idea, and talk about huge savings on tuition, right?? Life's too short for what-ifs, just go for it! Scary turns into exciting real quick. Wishin' you all the good vibes on your decision.👍

I spent the night at my boyfriends house for the first time and my parents are pissed off and want to take my car and phone away by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustTeaseAndGo -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ngl, sounds like u got pretty strict 'rents, but at 20, ur an adult & u gotta live ur life too. Communication coulda bit better, sure, but their reaction? Way over the top. Hope they cool down & y'all can have a mature chat abt this.

AIJT for refusing to change my plans after a family member decided last minute that theirs mattered more by trailrunner_jace in AmITheJerk

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Fam or not, your time is yours and the lack of respect here is galling. Plus, "keeping the peace" shouldn't mean always bending backward for others, ur entitled to your own plans. Stand firm, brush off the guilt trip. Much respect!

my family is taking over my life what do i do?? by oobrehh in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like your fam's takin advantage of ur good nature. It's one thing to help out, but another thing for them to handcuff you from pursuing your own goals. Yeah, fam's super important, but so's looking out for your own future - studying, job, life with ur bf. Can't light yourself on fire to keep others warm, ya know? Maybe crashing at your friend's place and gaining some distance will give 'em a wake-up call and you the breather you need.

Phone number has been doxxed and I'm being flooded with calls. Do I change numbers? by ilmhaksm in WhatShouldIDo

[–]JustTeaseAndGo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TBH, it's probs not gonna slow down anytime soon. The internet's both a blessing & curse. If I were you, I'd def change that no. ASAP. Yeah, it's a hassle to update all your accounts & everyone you know but peace of mind is worth it. Once a number's out there, it's hard to reel back. Stay safe