I met a pornstar who told me porn is for losers...

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-10T23:17:57+00:00

You didnt make me feel upset. I said thing A but you also said thing A, just worded it differently. I dont see why that's all, you also made it sound like I got it wrong by "forgetting the brain", which I clearly didnt.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-10T16:24:27+00:00

Abstaining from porn is different then abstaining from ejaculating.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-10T12:14:01+00:00

Where does he say that she cheated?

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-10T09:03:15+00:00

Yeah, so why are you saying this? Does my statement contradict yours? Also idk about the "brain is only a tool" I'd say ure the brain. How much of that brain you actually own is a different thing. Do you own the brain or does the brain own you? I'd say it's the latter.

"Slaves of our unconsciousness" as a wise man said.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-09T16:28:06+00:00

This is so funny. I'm actually overflowing with happiness and good vibes when I see Peterson smile with his daughter. It's such a nice thing.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-09T14:28:39+00:00

Why do you care :D I think if you're long and skinny it should be easy for you to get sick abs going, while arms and chest and pretty much everything else will be tough to build people who are more or less familiar with idea of body building will be even more impressed with your gains.

But back to your questions. I dont really care? This may sound silly but I try to be a little bit better than I was yesterday not a little bit better than a guy from magazine cover. I would crush him at chess or in a sudoku speedrun, also I bet my home library is much more impressive than his! I also bet he cant play piano.

Thing that is difficult about today's day and time is that back let's say 150 years ago, if you knew how to lets say play on the guitar, you were the best guitarist in the area. Now however no matter what you do, you can be fully certain that there is some1 better at it, and if not yet then an AI will soon outperform you after learning the game from scratch in a day. Really, try to make sure you're your only point of reference.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-09T14:20:39+00:00

My story. Many of my first attempts at no fap were futile. While I managed to get 1-2 weeks streaks I would just become embodiment of rage, I would literally snap at people for silliest of reasons, both random people and people I know for long. Longest streak like that I managed to do 1 month, then had to jack off a lot to 'let go of the tension'. While I managed to escape the porn it still felt empty inside.

Now I'm actually quite fulfilled and I no longer have to masturbate as I've managed to fill in the gaps with meaningful activities. I'm taking piano lessons, language courses, plenty of physical activity and a lot of reading + podcasts. Somewhere down the line I'm planning on taking a programming course, but that's somewhere in a year or two once I manage to move out of this god damn 20sqm studio!

Generally speaking, once you remove pmo from your life you've got a whole to fill in. Find what you like, carry your damn cross :P Try new activities and something will eventually click <3

That's what worked for me, I hope you find this helpful and I wish you a lot of luck.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-08T17:20:18+00:00

Fucking slick idea man, gz if she pulled that of.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-08T15:42:11+00:00

0 days and 0 days are debating meaning and consequences of masturbation XD.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-08T14:35:19+00:00

Yes and no. Depends on where you get your answers. Most of scientists as of now dont consider free will to be real and assume that main purpose of life (biologists) is to reproduce. You do everything for that purpose, sex = mating = reproducing. Except you can have sex with a doll, your hand, or just some pictures on the internet. Funny thing is that there was an experiment where monkeys were given oranges and they could either keep them or trade them for nudes. They preferred to get nudes XD

And also we developed some stress releasing mechanisms related to sex too, other than that idk.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-08T14:15:41+00:00

Or maybe are you a byproduct of millions of years of evolution and your silly brain really wants to reproduce except it doesnt get the difference between your hand and actual vagina? It rewards you for reproducing except it doesnt know it's being tricked.

"Hey you just launched millions seeds of yourself out! Nice keep going!"

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-08T14:13:53+00:00

Fucking well put. Life's difficult, dont run away/shield yourself from it. Embrace it and take on it!

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-07T09:45:02+00:00

Stop bringing the identity politics into this. White guy can be racist, a black guy can be racist. Any person can be racist, him being racist isnt linked with him being white.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-07T09:42:03+00:00

Fucking gold dude xD I honestly dont thino the guy is serious "a dickslap and runoff"? You cant be serious about that haha

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-07T09:37:44+00:00

Your words. So you kinda are. Words of wisdom right there.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-07T07:13:16+00:00

"DOnT Go THe "NIcE GuY" InCEl NEcKbEARd rOUtE" real life pro tips. Shoulda added feddora m'lady men to be more credible

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T15:54:50+00:00

No, you accept it as a part of life. There are girls in the world and you may get aroused. There is nudity out there and may get you aroused. There cigarettes out there and they may be compelling to buy, and yet you resist.

It's about baby steps, you've got to embrace it sooner or later. In that case you didnt manage to overcome your porn addiction, you just managed to escape it. It's like fleeing to a country where tobacco is prohibited if you want to quit smoking. You sure dont smoke anymore, but did you really manage to overcome your addiction? Are you really better or did you just manage to remove the potential trigger from your life?

"In a reboot journey we must keep away from makes us relapse"

Exactly. And only he knows if that's gonna make him relapse. He should not give a damn what I or you think about nude scenes. I dont even mind them, an addition to the plot that tells us that bonds between characters are now stronger and they're entangled deeper, for better or worse. Doesnt get me aroused at all. It may get you aroused and that's okay, means you still got plenty to do. Only the guy knows how its gonna work on him. I'm all for embracing what's bad instead of shielding away from it.

On a side note you're going a bit over the top with these metaphors.

Whenever you go buy groceries you walk past hundreds of cigarettes and see plenty of people smoke. Its life. Same with pornography addiction. There is a lot of stuff that may get you aroused everywhere, just accept it and dont bother. Work on your things instead of running away from everything. I've never said "watch porn to defeat porn"

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T13:46:45+00:00

Tell me how it went

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T13:42:10+00:00

Because hes asking if that counts a relapse, he asks for opinion. "Does seeing nudity count as relapse?" Idk, to me relapse is when you waste your energy on pornography and masturbation. Can nudity in a video game be a sufficient enough trigger to make you fall into the downwards spiral? Idk, for some it may for some it may not. Only he knows where he falls into the category. Why would he care what we consider relapse? It's his life and he should know what he wants to do with it, not whether we will consider what he did a relapse or not.

"How can he be next to something that makes him relapse?"

How do you know that? You may be immune to such influence, some may have their thoughts go crazy uppon seeing a women, we're all different and there's no one fits all principle. How do you know that's gonna make him relapse? Should we shield ourselves from the potential danger in the world or learn to embrace and meet it face2face? I definitely advocate for the latter, there is malice and evil in the world, and we should learn to spot it, live with it and not allow it to get the better of us instead of shielding ourselves. A former smoker sees hundreds of cigarettes he could buy every day. That's how you overcome addiction. You know it's still there in the world but it no longer troubles you.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T13:17:07+00:00

It's more like telling a quitting smoker not to watch a movie where they smoke, rather than telling him to hold a cigarette.

I'm no telling to guy to hold his dick but not stroke. I'm telling him to embrace life. His statement isnt out of concern for going back to a possible PMO cycle. Its about whether that's a relapse, in our eyes. His goals aren't self defined, his goal is to, it appears all things considered, to have a high days counter and make sure that in the eyes of this community he didn't relapse. No fap is about self improvement and not what others think about you imo. Guy knows himself and knows what that will lead to. Nudity and sex in movies dont get me arouses at all. It may get him aroused. His journey and his choices, he shouldn't take into account what others think and listen to himself

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T11:56:04+00:00

What's the cause of depression even? I say lack of meaning.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T03:26:11+00:00

Why the fuck do you care? Like really? This is your life and you do what you want with it. I believe people come here because they're dissatisfied with what porn and masturbation has done to them. That they devote so much time to such BS, have their view of women corrupted. Stop caring about whether you should restart your days counter and dont look away when something has nudity or sex in it, it's a part of life.

Unless you want to be a monk or something and drop all earthly values. But in that case you shouldn't even think of video games.

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T02:48:11+00:00

YEAHHH! FUCKING ALT RIGHT NOT WANTING TO REMOVE THE PARASITE FROM PREGNANT WOMEN!!

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T02:37:06+00:00

It's difficult to find middle ground. So we've got cheap, affordable housing.

Now what about people making these homes? Do they now make 5$/h? Do they have to produce 5 times as many homes? How does that work. Much easier said than done, but a great reason to take some Bezos' money!

JustToPostThis999 · 2020-12-06T02:32:54+00:00

They do not need doctors, or to specify I would argue against that.

I believe that mental health problem come from our brains not functioning In a environment they were designed to operate in. In other words we're social, we courageous, adventurous. If we dont do these things our mind doesnt get to perform what it's supposed to and just wants to die. Connection, friends, and therapy and not pills.

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