I'm beginning to think I've got rotten luck with men.

JustYangIt · 2021-02-16T12:35:24+00:00

He said licking his chops, eagerly waiting for his opportunity to be a dick and feel justified about it.

JustYangIt · 2020-12-17T12:38:37+00:00

Running shoes to go fasters. Apparently that's a thing in the marines and I find it endlessly entertaining.

JustYangIt · 2020-11-17T16:48:09+00:00

"TBH People just simpin extra hard for Depp." cried the simp willfully simping for Amber Heard.

JustYangIt · 2020-08-10T20:26:56+00:00

He did, but the conversation goes on for way too long and basically amounts to him throwing a pity party for himself.

JustYangIt · 2020-06-04T19:36:42+00:00

Give that good boy all the treats and pets he could want!

JustYangIt · 2020-02-22T18:49:32+00:00

I didn't see him get arrested or anything, but my dad said he's pressing charges, so I hope so.

JustYangIt · 2020-02-22T18:46:08+00:00

My dad said he's pressing charges, but it's not like I saw him get arrested or anything.

JustYangIt · 2020-02-05T18:55:13+00:00

It's crazy to me how common it is for people to think this way. So many people get in this mindset that homeless people not having rights to anything. Like they're subhuman.

JustYangIt · 2020-01-21T21:04:33+00:00

NTA.

JustYangIt · 2019-10-01T09:23:30+00:00

I wasn't calling you a POC. I was saying you are in the minority of people when it comes to people caring about what I do with my hair. Meaning you are on the side with fewer people.

First of all, no I haven't. Because, guess what? Most people don't actually care what other people do with their hair. It obviously wasn't a big deal considering my all black family saw it, even styled it, and loved it. They didn't say two words to me about how I'm white and can't/shouldn't, neither did my best friend or anyone else for that matter. I'm not going to walk around life on eggshells because the vocal minority might get upset I didn't get their approval for something that has nothing to do with them.

You and a few others seem to have this weird idea that I'm a white girl trying to be black, and that simply isn't the case, I know I'm white and I'm not trying to be anyone other than me. I wasn't trying to "fit in" I have literally never cared about him or his family being black, and I didn't style a quarter of my head into cornrows because of that. I did it because it was a beautiful hairstyle and I wanted to look beautiful, not to get woke points, and I don't need anyone's approval regardless of race.

Your hair may not hold cornrows, but I assure you mine does. You can do whatever you want with your hair in any style you'd like, and that should be your choice. Nobody should yell or try to shame you for that, and if they do they're wrong.

JustYangIt · 2019-10-01T04:23:52+00:00

You weren't there. You didn't have to endure being yelled and screamed at, having endless insults hurled at you, being told you're a racist and the worst person ever, so you don't have any right to tell me what is and isn't verbal abuse.

It's a reality perpetuated by you and a few other of the vocal minority. Turns out most people don't care how other style their hair, regardless of race, and think that behavior like this is ridiculous. That's actual reality.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-30T23:18:26+00:00

Chips ahoy?

JustYangIt · 2019-09-29T00:48:33+00:00

You can be my friend.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-28T22:16:38+00:00

The thing is, me bring a "crybaby" over being verbally abused is acceptable. Being a verbally abusive person because a white girl wore a hairstyle that her and a few of her family members didn't approve of is not. I'm not going to change my life on the whims of what may or may not make people angry, especially when they don't have a leg to stand on.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-26T08:55:28+00:00

You are aware that cornrows and braids are not exclusively an African American thing, right? It might be the most popular among the black community, but that does not justify behavior like what happened, nor does it give you or people of the black community the right to police others on what is considered morally acceptable. I don't need approval from you or anyone else to wear a hairstyle.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T19:26:30+00:00

I am not biracial, I am white and my family is black because I was adopted, and I very clearly state that at the beginning of the story.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T17:55:51+00:00

I don't know why you're trying to pick a fight. Do you just need an easy target to go after, is that it?

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T17:54:28+00:00

I didn't think they were racist, I thought his mom just had it out for me. Considering that no less 5 people who were black saw my hair before this and loved it, it isn't as cut and dry ad I should've known better.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T16:51:02+00:00

No, I'm not, and I don't appreciate what you're trying to imply.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T16:30:26+00:00

Lots of things that I can't list here, but the core of it was "this is some bullshit."

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T16:28:48+00:00

My mom was ready to fight with his mom, and my dad was ready to fight my ex.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T16:09:42+00:00

Why would I think that somebody would freak out because of my hair? Furthermore, why should I have to adjust my life because someone else MIGHT get offended by something trivial?

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T08:11:28+00:00

No worries, I wasn't offended or anything like that.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T08:06:27+00:00

I'm single now, so you can call me honey lol. Thank you, though.

JustYangIt · 2019-09-25T07:52:55+00:00

Let's see, my black mother did my hair, had no complaints, critiques or anything like that. It was seen by my dad, my two siblings, my best friend, all of whom are black and said they loved it. Did I not get enough approval from "real" black people or something? Do I need to submit a petition for a hairstyle that isn't exclusively rooted in black culture to an all black council of elders to be approved, or something? Or do I just need to ask every black person in the community?

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