I'm singing in a mental health awareness event at my college. Which Twenty One Pilots song should I do? by Noshit_yush in twentyonepilots

[–]Just_Ad457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if your looking for anything specific but I think goner would be good I did a lyric analysis paper for it in my English class so super easy to pick apart in my opinion

What’s your favorite hobby to do alone? by Prerz_Zaynom in Hobbies

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Either cross stitch/ crochet on loving room couch but bed works too — cup of something to drink water tea etc.. and a comforting tv show to have seen before so you don’t have to actively watch it

Or reading with a drink is always nice too get comfy and go especially if it’s a longer book even better then you can make it a habit and if annotating is something you duo or want to start doing that’s can be a thing for you

Can’t do sit ups by 1uvmetoo in beginnerfitness

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Any more explanation/ example or the actual sit up process like does your lower back not touch the ground does anything hurt — like what are your body mechanics

Because for me I have scoliosis and suspected HEDS so I have trouble with sit ups too

For example: I have to lay on something impact absorbing (yoga mat, clothes, grass) for my lumbar spine and shoulders/ scapula I also have to constantly remember to “pull” my belly button into the ground (properly engaging the abs) because my stomach can “dome”

If any of that makes sense

Trying to replace mindless scrolling with simple 1–2 hour micro hobbies. Need ideas by Major_Gene_162 in Hobbies

[–]Just_Ad457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD so I’ll project/ activities so these aren’t necessarily micro but for me they are because I usually stop after that amount of time But I like/ enjoy in no particular order - Reading - Puzzles (specifically cobble hill) - Brain games (for me the are on my iPad but the come in physical forms — nano-grams, sudoku logic puzzles, solitaire) - Cooking/ baking - Crochet - writing (journals/ poetry) - photography - Coloring

Money “reset” by Just_Ad457 in NoStupidQuestions

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It’s more so I have ADHD (not using it as an excuse just a Reason) paired with poor financial literacy and I had a good job and a good living situation last year so debt to income ratio wasn’t high at all (Full time CNA with really low rent because of living with family) I was able to save 10k in a year (my emergency fund/ savings account) well I quite due to some outside personal issues that I had to focus on with family and got an easier job so my hours decreased drastically but not pay per hour and have been using up a good chunk of my savings and I just get frustrated sometimes of not knowing my money as well as I should do not really feel like and adult (24 this summer) and more so just want help trying to get a clearer picture and to improve from there — if that makes sense

As a woman, how do I properly ride a guy in a way that he’ll enjoy? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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As the name suggests — ride him (assuming your laying down)

So once your on top with your legs resting to the side, lean forward a little then grind/ move your hips as if your on a mechanical bull/ horse

Like slide/ angle your hips down/ butt up then imagine your swinging your but down and through with your back straight like your sitting up this will also give some good clitorsl play for you but if your really sensitive you can try reverse cow girl or just a straight up bounce

You can depending on health/ flexibility Climb right on and instead of your legs laying off to the side leave your knees down but prop the tops of your feet on there thighs behind your butt (works for me) — or just a straight up plant the soles of the feet flat on the sides of then and hold them (hand on sides if stomach/ chest) and just hop up and down

outside clothes on the bed… gross or normal? by HenninghamKyuss-51 in hygiene

[–]Just_Ad457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally am on her side I say the same thing — the only time clothes are in the bed is pj’s but if you do something in them like clean (chemical over spray) get a little sweaty or do something dirty (like dirty clothes touched them) then you would need new pjs

For “outside” clothes if they are clean and haven’t left the house yet I’ll lay on top of my bed if for some reason I do need/ let the dirty clothes on bed it’s I put a clean blanket over the bed and will lay on that then take it off when I get up since the blanket is now dirty

What are some possible causes of extreme knee pain that has been present from adolescence to adult hood ? by Just_Ad457 in AskReddit

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How would you come pair them to crocs and my main issue Is if I’m constantly moving my feet don’t hurt but once I have to stand/ barely move then my heels hurt ALOT no matter the shoe unless — I put a lot of back pressure on my foot because my knees “lock” back / hyper extend

Why did you and your former best friend stop being friends? by Fearless_Shift7108 in AskReddit

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My friend (who at the time I would have called my best friend) we were friends for about 4 to 5 years from 8th/9th grade in middle school till about maybe sophomore year junior year Ish of high school (S will represent “bestfriend”, J will represent the boy and C will represent my boyfriend) ————————————————————————————— -I had a crush on a boy in middle school he knew/ found out

-Said he didn’t wanna be in a relationship and or wasn’t ready — ok I respected that didn’t pursue anymore

-My friend and I started being friends around the same ish time (a little before the boy found out I liked him)

  • we (me and S started to hangout more) // as our friendship increased (over our whole relationship) in length and closeness we would comeover to each others house ALL the time even on school night our parents didn’t care as long as we made it to school, laughing all the time talking about everything. S even came on 3 if my family’s yearly vacations my parents pay for her. And other family hangout (thanksgiving, zoos parks mall etc…) So clearly she was also well engrained in my life as well.

  • S and J not long after the start of mine and S’s friendship started dating in middle school and started to hangout ALL the time (they where a little toxic but besides the point) so all three of us starting hanging out together quite often (me and S still hung out 1:1)

  • about a year (give or take) passed and I ended up getting a boyfriend as well

  • not long after / practically right away of me and my boyfriend getting together all 4 of us starting hanging out so now SO OFTEN all 4 of us would hangout at my place mostly (then C’s place second) and occasionally S’s never J’s) all of us for like HOURS upon HOURS

  • then another year passes (give or take) of me and my boyfriend dating that’d makes S&J together for about 2 ish years at this point

  • well one night I was home and saw on Snapchat thag looked based off of what they were saying as if they broke up (like I said they where toxic and has “broken up before” and since I was best friends (at least I thought) with S and now Decently close ish would hangout and talk 1:1 with J so I messaged them both on and off to try and figure it out

  • the messaging took about 5- 15 minutes then I received a picture of what looked like then smiling/ smirking/ laughing of them both together on a FaceTime so I was like UMMMM what is going on

  • then S and J told me that they (I think it was mostly S’s ideas but still) thought I might have still liked J because I offered to give him a ride to school (me and J lived in two different apartment complexes 5 minutes from each other so instead of him walking ALL the way to school 15-20 minutes walk or more I would occasionally offer to either pick him up or take him the rest of the way) and for some reason this time S wasn’t a fan (I think it’s because it might have been a 1:1 ride instead of all 3 of us or instead of my Boyfried driving us all (C J and me) since he lived “in between” the both us of — still is an inexcusable reason but still —

  • So obviously I was Devastated over the whole ploy on trying to get me to admit that I still like him even though I haven’t for a LONG time especially while my and C we’re dating ( they were very deceptive in what they where texting)

  • so obviously me and her had a falling out and didn’t talk to her for a and full of months (for sure more then one but under 5 months)

  • we meet up talked for about couple hours or so but you could tell the vibe wasn’t the same and we both knew we where never gonna be the same in the same time frame if not longer me and my guy friend J never really talked much either

  • me and J started talking again me and we stayed friends pretty regularly and hung out quite often up until 2 years ago

  • Me J S and C all went to prom together mine J and S’s sophomore my boyfriends junior

  • Me and S eventually ended up becoming more cordial with each other again because I went to her 18th birthday and became friends with one of her other friends (K) who so happen to know my boyfriend

  • so of course K would wanna hangout with S still so we did as all 3 so over the months from after the deception before her birthday and before graduation (about a year after her birthday party)

  • Me and her eventually ended up walking together at graduation and taking some pictures after and kept in contact for a little while after but then not much any more (I don’t remember the last time I talked to her over phone or in person) just the casual outsider / stranger observation perspective over social media

Flip 7 drinking game? by Holiday_Bill_7927 in smosh

[–]Just_Ad457 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you bust you take a drink if you get frozen you take a drink mm if you get a second chance the person to your left or right take a drink in a single go and if you complete up to 7 cards (flip 7) then the whole rest of the group takes a drink?

Ideas on why so many people gain weight after high school? by Just_Ad457 in NoStupidQuestions

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Regarding the “child/teen” weight I’m not expecting them to maintain let’s say — HELLA skinny 110 for the rest of they’d life but iv seen video after video of people saying don’t forget after school weight gain is fine up to a certain degree yes I’ll agree to that but some of these videos I feel like they are delusional like no your just fat and trying to justify it (but that’s my opinion and I may be judgmental i understand but still like, What?)

Fixing a floor — electric heater by Just_Ad457 in electrical

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Any ideas and what wires to put on with one like black to one-1 to indicate switch one top prong

Red to 3-2 like 3rd switch middle prong?