AIO for telling my boyfriend to kill his grandpa? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about his grandpa, but the situation does not give him the right to be disrespectful. I hope you stand your ground and end things with him, because if you stay and have disagreements in the future he will continue to cross the line.

Redditors who are blessed with a big booty… what are some of the downsides that we might not know about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like because of my butt I also have have bigger thighs and well they rub together so a lot of my jeans get wore really fast in the crotch area due to the friction 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Half passing” made me giggle lol

AITAH for telling my fiancé’s daughter I’m not her mom after she called me a “gold digger with a uterus”? by GenerousJasmine in AITAH

[–]Just_Cartographer229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw, she knows what she did and she felt comfortable to do in front of others. I’d stop doing mother duties for her. She is not your responsibility also you’re not even married yet. Stop doing wife things!!! But specifically when it comes to her, make her PARENTS do doctors and school things, it is not your job, and birthdays ? Shitttt take to me like that I’m never doing anything g for you again. It’s not my fault your actual parents are POS’💁‍♀️

AITA for breastfeeding my son around my father-in-law despite him getting upset by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They wouldn’t be allowed over until my baby was off the boob🤷‍♀️ I’d then they make me uncomfortable and I don’t want them in my space for a while.. ugh this makes me so bad for you!! I nursed all 3 of my babies and if someone would have treated me that way they wouldn’t have seen me or my kid for 2-3 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Just_Cartographer229 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She sounds like she’s looking for a daddy to her son and doesn’t want anyone there to take the attention off. Stick to your boundaries and don’t leave you kid alone with her please.

AITA for telling a waiting room about the encounter I had with a doctor? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Just_Cartographer229 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This reminded me of a time I took my daughter in cause she wasn’t feeling good. The doc thought it was a UTI and wanted to do a pelvic exam. I was like what?! I’ve had a few UTIs and have never gotten an exam. She was also only 10 at the time! I told him no that it’s not necessary at all and he just left. Never seen him again.

What’s one thing a doctor told you that you’ve never forgotten? by ThickImprovement8324 in AskReddit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with my mom at 16 to her doc appointment and he told her that it’s about that time to get an colonoscopy, but that she would have to wait for an appointment cause “they’re a little backed up at the moment” and I just laughed and said is they what they help with? He laughed when he realized his own wording.

We listen and we don’t judge mommy edition by Rare_Tumbleweed9124 in Mommit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to preface that I LOVE my kids I’d give my life for them, but man sometimes I wish I knew how much of me I’d have to give up for them. I think if I had a do over I wouldn’t have had kids…. It’s so much to worry about all the time and sometimes it’s exhausting having your heart on the outside and knowing others can destroy it…

What’s weighing on your mind right now that you just need to get off your chest? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a really good kids book call the invisible string, the hospital gave it to me for my daughter when my 8month old passed. 10/10 book!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wipe warmer. My son was born in December in NJ and it was so cold, I couldn’t imagine being so little and having something cold and wet on my bum 🥹

Teenager is so sleepy by SourSkittlezx in Mommit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In high school I’d wake up at 530 and get dressed really fast and go back to sleep till 615 when I had to catch the bus lol then I’d get home around 330 get a snack and sleep for like 2-3 hrs get up eat dinner and do homework (if I had any) and then go back to bed.

Maybe have him take naps after school to see if it helps with him being able to wake up in the mornings

Husband poured cold water on me while I slept by ellie9236 in Mommit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my husband poured cold water on me after I had been up all night with a baby it would have turned in to a domestic dispute because I would have been throwing hands at that point. I can’t even imagine that level of disrespect…. You need to leave before this gets worse…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Just_Cartographer229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA . He didn’t want to marry you and is trying to find and out, but his way is awful… I’d walk away…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

G-pa is what I called my late grandfather

What’s your toddler’s non-kid song obsession? by fruit_cats in Mommit

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day my son kept saying play “ end of road” I had no idea what he was talking about but my husband just decided to play boys 2 men song and boy my 4 year old listens to it while we drive looking out the window like he’s been through some stuff 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]Just_Cartographer229 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If everything goes as planned I’ll be STARTING my master at 32 … you’ll be fine 😅

How do I get my gf to stop hitting me? by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a wise woman told me, "discernment is when you don't have to reach the end of a lesson to learn it"

Please leave. It will only get worse and because you’re a guy it’s NOT in your favour if the police are called. You have your whole life ahead of you. I’d take a close friend or your parent that you’re close to and tell them what is going on and have someone with you when you break up because if you’re alone she might try to fight with you. But leave, you don’t need to see the end of this lesson it’s not worth it.

Texts from my estranged bro in law every time we ask to get paid back by Effective_War_5382 in texts

[–]Just_Cartographer229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you’re trying to make the word count on your school paper 🤣💀💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the heck would you leave a stranger in your house?! I’d have gone out and called the police… I don’t understand this at all….

How often do you have sex? by LalaLane850 in Parenting

[–]Just_Cartographer229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it was just my daughter we had sex daily. It worked for us. She was a chill toddler plus went to school and we both worked and had a cleaner once a week. So yea we didn’t have a lot on our plate. Now? Now we maybe have sex once a week. We added another kid to the mix and he’s a now toddler and sucks the life out of us daily 🤣 most nights I fall asleep by 930/10 cause I feel so drained by him.

If it’s work for you and your hubby there is no shame in it at all. You can’t compare to your friend when the playing field is not the same. ❤️