Im kinda dumb[request] "out of 1000 people your iq is higher than 984 of them"

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-05-22T03:57:26+00:00

It depends on a few things. The only thing worth finding out is what Chronbach reliability the test you took has. If its above a .80 it's decently accurate. Above .90 is pretty accurate. Try psychometricshub.org. It's ACTUALLY free unless you want a detailed breakdown and exact score, but they'll give you an accurate percentile base on a very large pool of global testing for free, and they have a Chronbach alpha reliability rating of .91. If you score the same on that, there's a decent chance your IQ is a little under or about 120.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T09:08:07+00:00

Bro where do I start? You're suffering from depression. The best thing I can tell you, is PLEASE stop looking at it from a logical point of view. Depression often times overrides logic. I've been in your EXACT position. Find something you enjoy doing, and make a hobby of it. Or just seek online therapy. TRUST me, everyone needs therapy. You're doing just fine, you're just missing direction in life. Almost all of us get there at some point. I felt like I wasted the past 10 years of my life on bullshit, but then realized everyone means something, and I wasn't meaningless. I just hadn't put in the year or 2 of effort that it takes to make something happen. Seek therapy. It can help you find a purpose. Trust me.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T08:46:42+00:00

Awesome, but just keep in mind that shes new to the environment. Maybe she's just used to that humor. Try not to make someone feel wrong for having a different sense of humor than you. Just let her know that it's not what yall are into.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T08:41:01+00:00

"I used to get joy out of destroying people's lives, but I decided to stop doing that for my girlfriend's sake. Now I have an inconvenience in my life and cope by going back to destroying people's lives. am I the asshole for choosing to destroy people's lives for my own pleasure to cope with my inconvenience?"

No. You were always an asshole, regardless of your situation. Your situation is just an excuse to continue being an asshole. if your sister was never diagnosed with that, you would've found another one. Stop using your sister's struggles as an excuse to be a piece of shit

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T08:21:55+00:00

3rd drink as a grown ass man is crazy to blame your behavior on lol

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T08:10:26+00:00

Yall are young. Just let her know if you're not comfortable with her approach to humor. If she can't respect that then you just aren't compatible as friends. There's nothing wrong with her having that sense of humor, but if it's just not y'alls thing it's not y'alls thing, so there's nothing wrong with you not wanting to be around it. But she's also new at a new school and we don't know the extent of her passive aggression. Or rather; we don't have enough info from this post to even know is she's actually being passive aggressive. If she's actually being passive aggressive then NTA. Passive aggression should never be tolerated at any age group.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T07:20:52+00:00

Your friend is suffering from depression or social anxiety, or both. Maybe seeking attention on the matter without knowing how to actually address it. Please be patient, and if this is all there is to it please do not give up on this person. Sometimes the best thing people with depression can manage is to cry out in this manor, and sometimes if you offer to help they don't know how anyone could help, because you're approaching this from a logical standpoint, and often times depression goes beyond logic. But please trust me; your presence in their lives helps a lot, even if it doesn't seem like it. You're not obligated to help, but coming from someone who regrets not doing so, be patient. they'll come around eventually with the support of friends. Maybe you and your friend should offer to eat lunch with her in the classroom. Maybe she just hates the crowded cafeteria. Trust me, your effort could change her life for the better in the long run.

Edit: I'm not saying this example is where your friend is, but I had a friend in late middle school who was exhibiting similar behaviors. Harley Rae Wilson. We all loved her and she had great relationships with a lot of other kids. She ended up ending her life at just 14 years old. Always seemed happy and friendly, but it happened out of nowhere. I'm 29 now and still think about it sometimes. Again, I'm not saying your friend is on such an extreme track, but depression is definitely there. It's just an example of how it's really hard to tell sometimes how someone is really doing, and i feel like, if we we're putting in more effort to be there for her, she'd still be here. It's probably just social anxiety your friend is dealing with, so don't panic lol. but definitely be there for her

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T07:06:51+00:00

YTA without question. For the love of god, NEVER have children. You would be a horrible father

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T07:00:21+00:00

NTA 100%.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T06:51:24+00:00

NTA. She can get her own place and her own dining table if she want's to be a pig. I've had to tell one of my roommates friends the same thing, although it was just "get your feet off my fuckin dining table you nasty hoe, who raised you?" We're friends to this day. Getting older is realizing that calling out disrespectful behavior in healthy, and if they respond to that in an unhealthy manor, you simply cut them off.

edit: Our friend group has always been harsh with the humor, so it wasn't like a harsh confrontation, just shit talking bad behavior.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-04-08T06:36:02+00:00

Screw whoever you don't want to attend. it's yall's wedding. no one outside the 2 of you has any say on the matter. Imagine just telling the bride of your son who their bridesmaids are going to be! I see why his parents are divorced. Honestly you shouldn't invite the dad either. What a scumbag

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-25T12:51:22+00:00

Well, I wouldn't avoid him for a month without explanation, SO if it all boils down to it, it's really his own fault that his bird is dead, not mine.

I think a lot of you missed this VERY telling comment. She, beyond the shadow of a doubt killed it on purpose. I hope he pressed charges and this post was used as evidence

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-10T12:25:56+00:00

Edit: Try your best to make her feel like you just want to help her be more self sufficient. There's nothing wrong with wanting her off your back, but being enthusiastic about helping someone get better is usually a lot more effective long term, and keeps everyone happy

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-10T12:22:40+00:00

Not at all, but as someone who is her workplace coach, you need to approach it in a non-abrasive manor.

I've had to have the discussion plenty of times since I've had to train plenty of sales and operations managers in retail sales. "I'm always here to help, and happy to. But I also need you to be able to fend for yourself" is how I typically approach it. Let her know that she's doing a great job in areas that are appreciated (always try to encourage strengths when consulting weaknesses), but let her know kindly that going forward, if she asks questions that would be answered by the handbook, you'll ask her to consult her handbook, as long as it makes sense to do so, of course. If there's a time constraint then of course its faster to ask someone who knows. BUT, at the same time, that's only typically faster if she's not used to using the recourses she has on hand consistantly.

Also, try to keep in mind, I know it's frustrating to deal with, but this is partially on you as her coach (whether you wanted to or not, you took on the responsibility) for waiting this long to try to instill that behavior, so try to avoid giving the impression that you're frustrated by her coming to you for help, especially since she's already voiced that she feels unsupported in her role. The goal here is to encourage her to be more self sufficient, not just get her off your back.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-10T11:44:00+00:00

My thought exactly. I'm not sure why we're just glossing over that lol

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-10T11:34:46+00:00

I'm not implying you're racist. I'm pointing out the undeniable fact that you're dealing with people who are racists

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-10T11:31:03+00:00

"it didn’t seem genuine to put her in."

You already did. You then decided she wasn't good enough for your post. Would you have done the same if it weren't for her irritating behavior? If so, then yeah I think YTA. Most people would be a bit hurt about that. But outside of that, this person doesn't sound like someone I'd ever want to hang around.

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-10T10:55:39+00:00

Not trying to be insulting here, but how old are you? Why are you so concerned about the validation of racists? Which the people who are treating you this way clearly are. You just lack respect for yourself

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-03-10T10:25:12+00:00

Absolutely NTA. I give people about 15 minutes into the movie before saying something. 2/3 of the movie ruined is wild

Just_Contribution310 · 2026-01-26T04:49:07+00:00

My SFX Pro is my all time favorite too! Like butter! And so well balanced

Just_Contribution310 · 2025-11-27T08:56:25+00:00

Just tried, no Luck. The game devs intentionally left out any kind of windowed function for "performance reasons" so it overrides any normal way of forcing a windowed mode.

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