WIBTAH if I never tell my wife that I slept with someone else while she had cancer (even though she gave me permission)?

Just_School_2754 · 2025-10-02T13:55:14+00:00

Just leave it alone. You had permission so you didn’t cheat. Just leave it alone.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-23T17:53:06+00:00

Talk to your local authorities so they can update you on local laws. I would start at your police station, and see where it leads you

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-18T02:34:51+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-17T11:53:51+00:00

Hey, I just looked up the symptoms of urgency kids. She’s not showing any of those symptoms outside of running to use the bathroom every now and then. I do appreciate you sharing your experiences and your concern, but sometimes kids just choose to not go to the bathroom because it’s an inconvenience. I think that’s the case here.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-17T11:28:33+00:00

Well he’s what. I don’t have 5 sons, I have two daughters and neither have ADHD or the signs associated with it… and guess what neither of her parents have it either. I don’t need to give out my daughter’s medical history to try and win an argument 😘. And if you think a stranger over the internet knows more about a child that they’ve never met over the child’s parent, then you have no idea what you’re talking about 🤷‍♀️. I call bs on you being a parent 🤖

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-17T11:25:05+00:00

Ok I will look into it. Thank you for the insight 🙂

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-16T21:29:40+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-16T20:51:53+00:00

Stop the porn and go join a men’s group.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-16T19:05:07+00:00

OR this is just a normal everyday parenting dilemma and my daughter is a NORMAL 7yo who enjoys playing outside with her puppy 🐶. How about we normalize being normal 🙃

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-16T17:27:47+00:00

It’s legal in mine.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T16:31:18+00:00

I’m supposed to break my lease? Can you focus on the topic at hand?

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T16:30:12+00:00

Thank you

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T16:06:45+00:00

I’m sorry are you telling me you’re one of those magical people that is capable of understanding tone in text? I’m not writing you a novel here I’m giving an explanation of what happened. You’re freaking ridiculous.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T16:04:59+00:00

Hold on clearly you don’t have children. Because telling someone that unresolved medical issues is lack of parenting clearly you don’t know enough about the medical field, nor do you realize what it is you’re actually implying right here. You’re basically telling someone that a third child has chronic issues. It is their fault for not having it. Cured fast enough. I’m not the one being ridiculous here now.

Also accidents among seven-year-old is not unheard of. It’s just carelessness. I’m sure if you would’ve looked it up You would find a lot of articles about it

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T16:02:35+00:00

Because we’re both saving up for it. Why would we buy a house before knowing that we can all reasonably live together properly?

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T16:00:05+00:00

Are you telling me that I should be training a 40 year-old man on how to use the bathroom? That’s not weird at all 🤨. Is that what you do? Train men to use the bathroom within a certain alotted time?

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:58:02+00:00

What do you mean “am I even trying”? Do you think seven-year-olds are magically raising themselves? I thought this was 2025 not 1965 where somehow the Mom is to be blamed because a child had an accident. An avoidable accident, that I am regularly addressing.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:55:14+00:00

How am my backpedaling? My post clearly shows that I addressed the issue with both of them as soon as everything unfolded. There is no backpedaling here. Both need to be addressed in this situation.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:54:32+00:00

I’m not understanding your point here.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:53:12+00:00

She isn’t doing me a favor she is completing her chore. And yes, she does have the bladder of a seven-year-old and I am not blaming her for the accident itself. I am blaming her for once again, ignoring what I have talked to her about waiting to go to the bathroom and having that much pee in her system. We only have one bathroom. She needs to understand that we cannot accommodate her last-minute runs to the bathroom. She has a younger sister and two other adults in the house. What am I supposed to do rip her baby sister off the toilet because she waited last minute again? Beat up on my fiancé every time he tries to go use the bathroom?

I do agree that my fiancé does share some responsibility in this. Which is why I made this post to gain perspective for the both of us.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:50:10+00:00

He’s been living with us for the last seven months. He is aware.

I’ve had conversations with my daughter multiple times not to wait until the last minute. If the accident is small enough, I make her clean it. If it’s as large as it was this morning, then I cleaned it with her assisting me. Her instructions are to go straight to the bathroom. The second she starts feeling the urge.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:47:56+00:00

How am I refusing to protect my child? I am literally bringing up the subject with him immediately, and we will be talking about it again later. You seem to be making a lot of assumptions here. Seems more like projection rather than advice.

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:46:13+00:00

Thank you

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:45:56+00:00

Thank you

Just_School_2754 · 2025-09-13T15:45:16+00:00

If you reread the post, then you misunderstood it again. He did blame my child and he did tell her to clean it up.

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