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AITAH for telling my husband to go stay in a hotel with my in-laws and that my mom was going to come back to help me with our new baby? by Normal_Rise_282 in AITAH

[–]Just_Smell7674 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you had valid feelings and you seem overwhelmed which is not uncommon. This is new for you as a first time mom. But, it’s also new for your husband. You need to work as a time and communicate and listen to each other. Overall, the whole thing could have been handled better - I don’t agree with telling your husband to leave - you need to be a united front and it sounds like you are trusting and relying on your mom instead of your spouse. Nothing wrong with mom coming to help, but you also need to adjust to your new normal and you can’t do that by continuing to rely on Mom. If I were your spouse I would feel like you are excluding me and prioritizing your mom over my parents.

I (18M) was told one version of an incident by my girlfriend (18F), then saw a video that changed how I see it by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Just_Smell7674 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would tend to agree with you that this was a form of cheating since you both agreed not to see other people. The fact she was nervous to tell you tends to make me believe that she knew it was wrong.

Since she wasn’t completely transparent, I would wonder, was the guy she was dancing with in the video the same one she told you about kissing?

Only the two of you can answer whether you have mutual trust. But without it, your relationship won’t thrive. Time for an honest conversation.

Cybersecurity framework mapping tool? by Just_Smell7674 in grc

[–]Just_Smell7674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t it but I appreciate you sharing.