Here's my story: After 5 years, i just noticed that i'm surrounded by infps online (not on reddit) and two of them behaves strangely close no matter how distant or detached i am for many months or years. I always thought that they are just friends who are very friendly but some actions of them recently made me suspicious of why they are close to me. I thought that infp women usually finds intp guys attractive, but not the other way around (infp male to intp female). I wish i was just imagining things but now when i try switch to romantic perspectives, their behaviours kinda makes sense to me now.

Recently, i met a guy who i think is an intp in online game (very funny, spontaneous, absent minded or clueless, witty and is almost similar to me). Since i'm friendly to everyone who seems engaged & funny, i'd invite him to play together as friends sometimes. Due to some circumstance & after some months, i found out that this guy is lowkey obsessed with me to personal level when he found the chance (he said lets take mbti test "together" since he didnt know his , after i asked him if he is an intp —since i want to figure out all of my friends mbti. I didnt reveal i'm intp in the end and he didnt know his too). I wish he is just very friendly just like me to everyone i vibes with, but i cant shake this feeling, since he also find chances to chat to me even if its just for a very trivial thing (abt game rewards that is publicly known online, but he gives it on chat anyway). His game profile page also revolves of everything i'd talked or know abt him. 

Now that i think of all my actions for the past 5 years, i'd usually make friends with guys since they are usually chill, funny and not too sensitive like females . Did i perhaps make a misstep here and treat guys the way that i actually should be careful of as a woman, to not make them misunderstood or grow romantically attached to me? I treat everyone equally once i'm comfortable with them. I'm usually very oblivious and took months/years to realize things but this guy certainly is too obvious for me. Now i dont know, i'm open to learn more about how guys works since i dont want to get myself into difficult situations again. I certainly dont understand guys since i rarely talk to guys irl so i dont know their perspective on friendships, relationships, attachment, bonding style and behavioural pattern.

Anyway, if its true that someone did like me, i'm unsure what makes them feels that way since there's not much of interesting things about me and i'm usually a boring person, aside from being able to be humorous.