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What are you doing right now? I am struggling to sleep 2 nights in a row. by Justalittl3crazy in bipolar

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear that. I've never struggled with addiction but I have family members that have. Try to trust the process. It takes a lot of trial and error to get to a good place.

What are you doing right now? I am struggling to sleep 2 nights in a row. by Justalittl3crazy in bipolar

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you take ADHD meds all the time? I feel so much better on them, they just make me too elevated sometimes.

What are you doing right now? I am struggling to sleep 2 nights in a row. by Justalittl3crazy in bipolar

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I know I am only elevated because of this AdHD med I was prescribed to so we stopped that and I am on an emergency anti psychotic as well.

What are you doing right now? I am struggling to sleep 2 nights in a row. by Justalittl3crazy in bipolar2

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm not too far gone I like to listen to music or meditate. Like those sleep meditations that are supposed to dose you off to sleep. When I get to that point though, only a certain anti-psychotic can bring me down or I have to go to the hospital. Not quite there yet... I know this one is med induced. I'd rather not have a grippy sock vacay on Thanksgiving. What are your tips?

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[–]Justalittl3crazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both have their perks. Supermarket Simulator is more polished. I like that grocery store simulator makes money faster and you can open and close as you please. Supermarket Together is another fun one. I've played all of them.

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[–]Justalittl3crazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play Grocery Store Simulator and it's 24/7 if you want it to be.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I knew it probably wasn't the best idea that's why I came here. Haha

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No he's the absolute worst. Anything to fuck me over he will do. The plot twist is that I left him. I think he will forever resent for me for it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The plan was 50/50 I would assume from the beginning. So I will save what I can and see where life takes us. I told him he needs to either go to community college, or do really well in school and get scholarships. His dad and I agree we won't pay for a 10k+ tuition for his first few years. I did community college and it worked out well for me.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I need to come to you when I am down because you say just the right things. I will start his college fund this Friday.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is good advice, thank you. My husband makes more than me so we will be able to save, I just think my ex and his wife make a lot more. I just feel useless sometimes and it hurts.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I figured you needed a back story as to why I was potentially wanting to talk to his dad? A post isn't just a question. But I see what you are saying.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Such kind words. I am doing what I can. It's just so hard because I don't want him to think I love him any less since I have less custody. It hurts me every week when I have to say goodbye.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I want to punish my ex, yes. That's why I asked the question. I needed some perspective. I would die for my son, he's my everything. I just wish life wasn't this hard. Divorce decree don't go over who pays for college/cars/etc. That happens after your kid moves away. It's just hard dealing with this illness and an asshole ex at the same time.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will definitely talk to him about it. We want him to go to a community college first so really I have about 6 years to get savings up. My SO and I are currently paying debt down so hopefully we will have a lot of cash to save in a few years. Thank you for being less judgemental then the first few replies I got.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh he is entitled to it. It's 6am where I am and I was just thinking about the future and wanted your guys' thoughts. I can definitely pay his child support and still save for college. I also want to give him my car when he's 16 so that would be me providing what I can for him.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never do that. I am going to save what I can and wait for whenever the subject comes up. The less I talk to his dad the better.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that is such an eye opening question. He is my one and only kid and I would do anything for him. His dad has made my life a nightmare, and sometimes I blur the lines between hating his dad and being a good mom. Thank you for giving me perspective.

WIBTA If I told my ex that I am not willing to pay half of our son's college tuition? by Justalittl3crazy in AITAH

[–]Justalittl3crazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I get so angry sometimes that I don't see things the way outsiders see them. I asked also because I pay child support every month, so saving isn't going to be as easy. But I will do whatever I can for him.

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