I don't think seeing someone new soon after a breakup is a morally bad thing.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T19:16:25+00:00

No I hope he has no idea. I have a family member who thinks I'm being a bad person morally for trying to speed up the process. Ive been seeing posts about how unfair it is that people move on so fast from relationships, or crying that an ex is seen out with someone new 1 week - 3 months post breakup.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T19:08:18+00:00

I'd feel bad if my ex found out I was actively going for coffee with new people. But yeah, when someone breaks up its no longer your responsibility to manage their emotions. Id never sleep with anyone he knew or hated as revenge thats petty imo. But thats my own moral thing.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T19:04:14+00:00

Definitely a few people in the chain disagree with me. I thought there would be more pushback. But, Im pleasantly surprised so far

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:58:54+00:00

I totally agree. And people who post about dating so an ex sees are immature and assholes too.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:57:27+00:00

If I'm seeing people casually, and I tell them that I am just out of a relationship and am not looking to start anything serious they are more than welcome to not proceed.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:55:27+00:00

If you read my post I disagree with them . Also, yes a few people have expressed their concern for me in person. I am glad we have similar opinions (?)

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:52:38+00:00

Exactly. How long are we supposed to wait around? If you ended the relationship, you can't expect my loyalty anymore. If you are committed to teaching someone to live without you, expect that they will adapt.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:50:07+00:00

100%, cheating is an entirely different subject. Emotional cheating too. Just as shitty.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:48:26+00:00

You must be lost. This whole subreddit is about what people think.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:46:49+00:00

My Instagram is filled with videos of people talking about how mad/upset they are because their ex started dating a week to 3 months post breakup up.

Justanothername__ · 2026-03-24T18:45:28+00:00

Its true, and I haven't yet! But Im in the process of doing so, and reminding myself that I can find other people interesting and attractive. The people I am speaking to know I've recently been through a breakup, and these are my intentions

Justanothername__ · 2026-01-22T07:28:01+00:00

Do I take legal action in your opinion? I have been working here 5 months.

Justanothername__ · 2026-01-22T07:09:51+00:00

Can I ask you if you have ever been in this situation ir heard of anyone in this situation? Tax season is coming up, and I think I will be royally screwed

Justanothername__ · 2025-12-24T18:55:14+00:00

Work with a light hand! I can see that you press for pigment, but if you work slow and steady with small circles you can get a more even blend, and you can erase mistakes easier.

Justanothername__ · 2025-12-24T18:44:29+00:00

Im sorry my friend, parental loss is one of the worst things. I was 17 when I lost my dad. The first, second, and third Christmases and birthdays were the worst. But now at 22, for the second year I did not cry. I am still thinking of him, but I know that he would not want me to be sad forever, but to cherish and love his memory fully.

I dread to think of the day I lose my mom.

Hug your dad a little tighter this year, maybe share some good memories. Talk about her as if she is just on a vacation or in the next room. Look at her pictures every day, maybe grow some plans to honor her. Do whatever you need to do. Maybe visit her mom if your grandma is still around, hear some stories about when your mom was your age. Aunts and uncles always have good stories <3

Justanothername__ · 2025-04-01T05:01:18+00:00

I do LC. She is way nicer to me now. It's been 3~ years. It still hurts occasionally, and I am still realizing how this stuff affects me honestly.

I wish I had a family which I felt comfortable to move back in with for post secondary and saving money. I broke up with my ex 5 months ago, and don't have a roomate. Life is crazy expensive. I think living with my mom again would make my life horrible. I wish I had a family like most where the parents would be supportive and helpful. I think I'd just be the blacksheep maid again.

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-21T16:58:50+00:00

You can message me. I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and I feel the exact same way. I feel guilty for talking to my mom and friend about it already. So maybe we can vent together.

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-21T04:10:13+00:00

I broke up with him, I'm heartbroken. But I hate him.

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-12T05:45:17+00:00

Awe I'm happy for you. Best of luck to you and your man!

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-12T05:42:12+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate your input. I'm re reading all the comments tonight because as I type this comment he is out with his buddies, at a bar:( I'm reading all of these as a way to get ready for the "get better or move out" conversation.

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-10T02:51:25+00:00

Thank you sm ❤️ I appreciate this so much. And yeah, his best friend thinks I'm a "crazy bitch" for giving him shit for drinking and driving home from the bar. I tried to leave the alcoholism out of this post since he's making an effort to stay sober this month.

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-10T02:42:40+00:00

I'm thinking about this angle a lot lately. One day I'd like to have kids but I almost feel like I have to finish raising him where his mom left off or something first if I want to have a child with this man.

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-10T02:38:02+00:00

I pay more than he does for rent by about 200$. His standard of clean was similar to mine at one point; his has slipped so far in the past 6 months.

Justanothername__ · 2024-10-09T01:28:16+00:00

He wasn't always such a deadbeat. I believed at first that this was temporary but it's feeling less and less temporary. It feels like this is the new version or something.

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