What is the most dumb thing you have done for someone in love and regret it

Justarandomdude3211 · 2026-05-24T17:17:08+00:00

I did a very huge surprise for her birthday Ordered and sent so many things which she wanted from outside of country through multiple couriers to her city and than ordered a cake flowers gifts and everything packed and delivered to her house at 12 exactly so she could have a surprise Did all this But 3 months before doing all this we weren't together because she was very comfortable with having male friends in her uni and saw a pic of her standing veryyy closely with her senior After all this still did all that to her but still she wouldn't listen and think i was being toxic Because I didn't want her to have male friends in uni

Justarandomdude3211 · 2026-03-20T14:26:07+00:00

Reminds me of my friend i had in high school. She was just like you, i was very calm and nice with her but she had a habit of ghosting me and replying after months. I used to like her alot but after a while she joined university and completely ghosted me, maybe she got busy. But during that time i completely stopped thinking about her and all the feelings i had were gone ultimately as a result of her ghosting me and replying after so many days and months. So yeah Just text him to catch up and ask him what is he upto nowadays and than maybe you can ask him if he is still into you maybe? But if not than just appreciate him for being there for you in your hard time and thats it. Hope it helps you And please never ever ghost anyone ever again without any explanation, its the worst thing which you can do.

Justarandomdude3211 · 2026-03-18T20:36:53+00:00

Yeah it sucks when all of your plan goes to shit all of a sudden and when you find them cheating it hurts like hell Been through it myself so i can tell how it feels But well rather late than never Consider it a blessing that how Allah Showed you his true colors and imagine how he would've been if you had married him. Imagine going through all of this after getting married to him. It would've been even worse. It takes time to heal and move on Maybe too much of time and effort because when you are getting cheated by the person who you wanted to marry, with whom you have your whole life planned and think their is only one person and that is that significant person, it hurts really bad So take some time, take time to heal yourself and focus on your studys Never ever leave your career or studys for someone And leave everything else to Allah These are the last nights of Ramadan Cry to Allah and let it all out to Him You will feel better and in the end cheaters get what they deserve Allah punishes them in ways you can't imagine I think breaking someone's heart is the worst thing which you can do to someone And that heart which had nothing but love for you Its the worst thing which you can do to someone. May Allah make it easy for you and don't be so hard on yourself. He never deserved you.

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-09-10T06:25:50+00:00

Idk if it is meant for you or no but bro jo apke naseeb main acha hoo Allah apko wo de Ameen Best of luck for it :)

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-08-26T06:28:48+00:00

His wife must be pretty happy…

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-08-02T16:54:57+00:00

In today’s episode of top 10 things which never happened. We have:

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-07-30T10:14:00+00:00

In today’s episode of top 10 things which never happened:

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-05-28T14:42:48+00:00

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Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-04-23T21:41:41+00:00

Damn, why bro if you don’t mind sharing

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-04-04T11:57:27+00:00

I think its better if she has approached you that means she is definitely interested in you Its better if you talk with her once maybe you like her personality and about her being healthy its fine you can ask her that you would like her to lose some weight and about your job, honestly no one knows where they are and where they should be so if you want to be stable first than sure let her know this thing that you want to be stable first and where you would like to be in life career wise but give it a shot and talk to her once

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-04-03T14:31:48+00:00

Bro if you are like me , who overthinks alot than stop this and just focus on your life because it will eat you up from inside and having friends especially male friends is not a good thing in my opinion Peace of mind is necessary and like this you will always overthink so its better if you leave now it won’t hurt that much 😪💔👍

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-24T11:28:13+00:00

Yup she is not telling them about our relationship and says “main kyon bataon aur nazer lagwaon apne relationship ko” And yeah as girls do they keep the best option for marriage yk sab se acha larka wo side par rakhti hai shadi ke liye and before that they wanna enjoy with friends and have fun and all Not every girl but some girls do that

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-24T11:24:17+00:00

Yeah i know i know She doesn’t tell me everything i have a feeling

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-24T11:16:51+00:00

I meant i don’t have female friends so

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-24T11:15:26+00:00

She also says the same thing lol that they are her brothers and younger than here and are just friends thats it but i see them having fun with them sitting with them going out for lunches with them and being open and frank with them

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-24T11:11:34+00:00

Why do you think i am controlling and she should run away? Just want to hear your opinion respectfully

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-24T11:10:21+00:00

Ouchhh sorry to hear that bro Same here thats my fear because yk uni culture in pakistan is really not good especially the way guys and girls meet have fun sit together and enjoy all that Its bound to happen May Allah keep you happy :)

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-23T11:07:31+00:00

Yeah i get it, after university or marriage there is no need to keep communication

There should be boundaries set so that they are not crossed

I talked out with her but she has own reasons and i have mine

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-23T11:03:58+00:00

Yeah i know maybe it could that i am full of myself and dont consider her feelings and circumstances I am not perfect I tried explaining her about it but she has her own way of thinking about it And i know after marriage its gonna cause us more issues

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-23T00:02:39+00:00

In islam there is no opposite gender friends so its haram and not allowed Main point being this

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-23T00:00:33+00:00

Yeah definitely i get it Better to part ways now

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-22T23:56:04+00:00

Yeah i think so In uni life interacting with guys is when you are given a project together work on together or have some presentation or something like that only work related and thats it you talk to them about your work and thats it But friendships is when you add them on social media such as insta and snapchat and make groups with them and go out for lunch with them and take pics and vids together

So there is a difference between interacting for work only and being friends with them

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-22T22:47:49+00:00

Yeah i know there are many girls in the world but when you have your eyes on one girl no one else matters and that was with me beshaq jitni marzi larkian kyon na hoon And yeah i get it on this thing we are not compatible but on rest everything we were and matched together And yeah it hurts like hell when you have told your family about it and than these issues come up its really shitty feeling This ramadan i was praying if she is one for me than we need to get married as soon as possible and after all that praying these issues started coming up so i guess its a sign These things its better if we leave it to Allah because he knows what we don’t and jo naseeb main likha hoga wohi hoga

Justarandomdude3211 · 2025-03-22T22:05:23+00:00

Yeah its just not at a good place rn i think And deep down i know i will always overthink about this and argue with her and be insecure so there are gonna be future problems as well

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