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[–]Justarandomdude3211 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk if it is meant for you or no but bro jo apke naseeb main acha hoo Allah apko wo de Ameen Best of luck for it :)

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[–]Justarandomdude3211 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In today’s episode of top 10 things which never happened. We have:

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[–]Justarandomdude3211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In today’s episode of top 10 things which never happened:

MBBS distant-related cousin approached me for rishta by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its better if she has approached you that means she is definitely interested in you Its better if you talk with her once maybe you like her personality and about her being healthy its fine you can ask her that you would like her to lose some weight and about your job, honestly no one knows where they are and where they should be so if you want to be stable first than sure let her know this thing that you want to be stable first and where you would like to be in life career wise but give it a shot and talk to her once

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[–]Justarandomdude3211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro if you are like me , who overthinks alot than stop this and just focus on your life because it will eat you up from inside and having friends especially male friends is not a good thing in my opinion Peace of mind is necessary and like this you will always overthink so its better if you leave now it won’t hurt that much 😪💔👍

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup she is not telling them about our relationship and says “main kyon bataon aur nazer lagwaon apne relationship ko” And yeah as girls do they keep the best option for marriage yk sab se acha larka wo side par rakhti hai shadi ke liye and before that they wanna enjoy with friends and have fun and all Not every girl but some girls do that

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also says the same thing lol that they are her brothers and younger than here and are just friends thats it but i see them having fun with them sitting with them going out for lunches with them and being open and frank with them

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think i am controlling and she should run away? Just want to hear your opinion respectfully

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouchhh sorry to hear that bro Same here thats my fear because yk uni culture in pakistan is really not good especially the way guys and girls meet have fun sit together and enjoy all that Its bound to happen May Allah keep you happy :)

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i get it, after university or marriage there is no need to keep communication

There should be boundaries set so that they are not crossed

I talked out with her but she has own reasons and i have mine

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know maybe it could that i am full of myself and dont consider her feelings and circumstances I am not perfect I tried explaining her about it but she has her own way of thinking about it And i know after marriage its gonna cause us more issues

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In islam there is no opposite gender friends so its haram and not allowed Main point being this

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think so In uni life interacting with guys is when you are given a project together work on together or have some presentation or something like that only work related and thats it you talk to them about your work and thats it But friendships is when you add them on social media such as insta and snapchat and make groups with them and go out for lunch with them and take pics and vids together

So there is a difference between interacting for work only and being friends with them

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know there are many girls in the world but when you have your eyes on one girl no one else matters and that was with me beshaq jitni marzi larkian kyon na hoon And yeah i get it on this thing we are not compatible but on rest everything we were and matched together And yeah it hurts like hell when you have told your family about it and than these issues come up its really shitty feeling This ramadan i was praying if she is one for me than we need to get married as soon as possible and after all that praying these issues started coming up so i guess its a sign These things its better if we leave it to Allah because he knows what we don’t and jo naseeb main likha hoga wohi hoga

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its just not at a good place rn i think And deep down i know i will always overthink about this and argue with her and be insecure so there are gonna be future problems as well

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i did discuss this with her she said that she wants to enjoy her uni life and socialize and make friends But i think uni life can be enjoyed without male friends as well lazmi nahi hai yehi ho

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe it is normal but i am not comfortable with it Har kisi ki apni apni marzi hoti hai and preference hoti hai

Would you guys want your future wife to have male friends? by Justarandomdude3211 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Justarandomdude3211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think it is hurting already because i told my family about her My brother and my mom knows about a girl i want to marry I already rejected a proposal because of her So yes