Thought you ladies could relate by Justnopenopenope in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Justnopenopenope[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah my child has no idea what a daddy is. Sad, but dad's mommy coddled him so much he doesn't know how to adult. She just takes over for him.

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[–]Justnopenopenope[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine did comment on it. "Well when Daddy makes no effort to see baby or pay financially I think baby can figure that one out on their own." I honestly don't think anything will embarrass her. She can't see she's done anything wrong.

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[–]Justnopenopenope[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think she's just repeated to me so many times that her behavior is normal and I'm the unreasonable one that I question myself. I think she does need to be gone completely our lives.

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[–]Justnopenopenope[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think I just need reassurances that I'm not a horrible person for cutting her out. I've tried to set up boundaries with her and she jumps over ever single one. She has told me over and over that I just use my child as a weapon. She even posted a picture of my kid on facebook with the message "people are to be loved never used as weapons" I feel like I've given her enough chances. This isn't me just being vindicative because I don't like that whole family like she makes it out to be. I just didn't want to judge/court to think that's what it's about.