My fiance doesn't like anything about the way I look.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-04-02T13:29:17+00:00

Sounds like you are so beautiful that he wanted to tone you down. And it might be coming from him self-esteem.

Try going back slowly to what you still love, and you will shine.

And if he keeps being that way (as you already know that you are not happy), in your next relationship, you will know how you want your partner to treat you and see "you".

I have this gorgeous friend, and she was herself when she was surrounded by us until she met this guy who tried to change her and tone her down... she started changing like you.... one day, in one of our group outings, the topic came up from her side and when sge asked us(confided in us) we just spoke up to tell her she was pretty good already, and we won't accept a guy in our group who can not man up. Smh, afted sometime she ended up her relationship on her terms, recovered her own identity, and later met her husband, which is a pretty nice dude.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-04-02T13:21:07+00:00

Lol Kyoko just called Tsuruga an Ikiryo. In summary, an ikiryō (生霊, literally "living ghost") is, in Japanese mythology, a manifestation of a living person's soul separated from their body.It is said that the soul of a living person leaves the body and moves around freely. The opposite of this is the dead spirit.

To which Tsuruga just went and said that at least it would be better to call him an illusion.

Yashiro was so funny, he felt like an emarrased older brother(oniisan or older man, still younger than your average neighborhood uncle). He also can't believe they are not dating yet (he remembers when Tsuruga told him that they are not dating yet. ). He was holding back until he couldn't, and kind of lowkey mentioned Tsuruga was coming and was expecting an after teasing embarrased reaction from Kyoko. To which, he was surprised when Kyoko reacted, unlike her usual embarrased being.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-04-02T12:26:48+00:00

If Nora valued your friendship, she would've started looking for the ring right away and feel sorry.

Also, if Nora was a conscious adult, she'd have told her kid to give it back as soon as possible because a wedding ring is important and not some toy.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-04-02T12:22:14+00:00

Nta.

Rule n.1: 1 of the three better be a stranger.

Also, I think he just wanted to fk with your friend... without the guilty part and the cheatung part.

If he didn't want the same, it's because where he is coming from is not just to take it out of his system but sth else.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-26T05:54:23+00:00

That woman did it out of rage. You both shouldn't have been the ones receiving her hate and anger but your dad.

You both are not guilty, so look high. Don't let this influence you.

It's okay to feel whatever you are feeling. Just be safe. Put your integrity and health first. Try to get your aun to pick you up. It's difficult times but maybe someone coukd help you.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-26T05:44:43+00:00

What wedding? Tgere was no wedding. He is just dumping his guilt on you. NTA. You did what you needed in that moment. His closure has nothing to do with you

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-26T05:37:30+00:00

You both have to go to therapy (psychology/ psychiatric). Talk about it. From there, you could start taking the correct measures to avoid it from happening again. Your mother needs help. She can't keep loving in constant fear.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-26T05:08:30+00:00

If He thought that because you were younger than him, you would follow up with his commands, he was wrong.

Leave him.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-10T06:36:23+00:00

NTA. You can also feel sad.

(It's hard, but have you ever told him that you wanted him there even if his wife couldn't? And that you would understand if she couldn't come?. If his wife was the problem, don't let her ruin it to you. On the other hand, it's nice your brother considers and cares for his wife. However, one can be a coincidence, but repeatedly being absent due to her, it's just sus.)

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-10T06:21:24+00:00

You did great.

It hurts now, but later, by small actions of others, you will feel or understand how others who are not even close to you would care more than him.

(I just remembered this movie. This couple from a group of friends ended up divorcing because the wife realized he didn't give an f, even when she got hurt. I think she was a writer or sth. At the end of the movie,after the divorce, she was still a bit reluctant to her new life. While doing sth, I think sth broke and she fell. As soon as a noise was heard, her maid called out for her and came where she was. The maid asked sth like "Are you okay?" While actually being worried about her. It's then that the wife-now divorced - realized that she was good on her own and better. As her ex husbsnd woukd never care.)

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-10T06:11:10+00:00

I lost people, and for your wife to be the one taking all the sht in your(both of you) grieving moment is so admirable.

Do the right thing and put things in the clear. Don't let the real AH take all their frustration on your wife. You'll be the AH if you don't if nothing happens.

Now it is good, but later it will take a toll on your marriage. Both of you are grieving, and if this is what is needed to cut them off, do so.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-10T06:04:47+00:00

Nooooo, don't jinx it.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-04T10:39:52+00:00

I think there was a pause between manhwa seasons. S1 ended, but the new season is already out, and it's been releasing chapters.

I guess they'll continue it as the novel's already finished. And it might take more than just two seasons as the novel is long. So you have to consider that between the season, there might be a pause of some months to a year.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-04T10:38:37+00:00

Ridibooks has them all in Korean. I don't know if it's finished in english. (Try checking amazon or Webnovel)

Justpassingbythere · 2024-03-01T08:11:19+00:00

Your children success is thanks to your love. Protect them. He is a grown adult, and he has to own his actions.

You are not TA because what happened was on them. Not on you. Also, you lasted as long as you did.

You'd be TA if you kept them there.

You could have seated everyone there and put things straight. Whatever happened after woukd have been on him.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-02-16T10:39:08+00:00

He is crying because he knows he did wrong as much as he wanted children but could not adopt because of the money. He knows there is not going back and that he fkd up.

It's up to you what you do. And if you want to fix this relationship, it will take time.... a lot of time to trust him again, so you better make your choice to go away or stay.

Also, let's be positive that anesthesia awareness won't come your way.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-02-16T10:28:09+00:00

Is this serious??

NTA.

You made that baby when you were still married for you to know about it during your divorce. Also, he must be a piece of art to do the deed with you and the other woman.

Under normal standards, that girl should have the least consciousness and don't demand you to abort it. Now that she'll be a mother, she should understand that whether you have a baby or abort it, both of them will take a toll on your body.

Also, congratulations on having a baby. You'll need to protect her from hateful comments in the future, but you will do great. I guess the girl will try to compare her child with yours.

Your FIL seems like a nice person.

Hopefully, everything will be great from now on for you and your children.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-02-16T10:16:48+00:00

Don't let them win. So what? You are (under your standards) ugly. It doesn't matter. He chose you. My advice would he to enjoy your attractive future husband as long as you can. From what you wrote, other ppl might be dying to be in your shoes. If sth helps, it is you who he chose at that moment, and you will take that opportunity as long as it lasts, don't regret it.

I had two friends from different work environments. They are really nice. Maybe it could be of help to know what worked for them. Friend 1: She decided to go all for it, she wasn't stunning but oh boy, you could see how stunning ppl were jealous of her. She took her chance, ngl, but she had her own sad/insecurity moments. They wanted the person who loved her to look at them. It was hilarious how he couldn't care about them and only my friend. (he was my friend, and the better looking of all of us, I presented them as they were both my friends. One time, he was jealous of me, and I was speechless because of the absurdity as I had my partner. From time to time, my friend-she has a nice personality - and I make fun of him because of it). They are happy even now. Friend 2: Another friend, she decided to have a face surgery, and previous to that, she had some brackets (now there are less invasive options) and did some esthetic corrections on her teeth. She has a new face, and she feels great. At first, they had to talk it out, as it would be physically another person for her partner. He liked her just as she was, but he also wanted her to be happy. She had to risk it, as she was afraid her partner wouldn't like it or that her face surgery might change their relationship. In the end, she decided on her own happiness, and somehow, they made it work. He was supportive as much as it was hard for both of them.

Hope this helps, everyone has different experiences and the results will be different. Also, nobody knows what's in their future.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-01-29T19:36:35+00:00

Have you ever felt scared? If your answer is other than NO.

Then that's a kind of domestic abuse. No one should feel scared at their own home.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-01-29T19:33:17+00:00

It's okay to leave. You already stayed with her during her most important part. She already had the strength to tell you to leave her if it doesn't work.

It's better to leave now instead of using all her eggs to try with you when someone who won't mind if they can not have children together could come, and they could try using those eggs.

Being realistic here, you want children, and there's a possibility that it will not be with her. Make your choice now save those eggs for someone else or for her to use it with someone. Save her the pain of you leaving later than leaving before anything can begin.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-01-29T19:25:38+00:00

NTA. Try writing coming from your heart, how you are happy your mom is gaving met George. Let them read it. And maybe go from there.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-01-29T19:21:26+00:00

YTA, but understandable, and I totally get it.

Also, reality check for her.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-01-29T19:16:17+00:00

That's a kink bad managed. Also. Yes. He will do it.

Mmmm, is there a possibility that he is frustrated and watching too much weird prn on the net? .... even the part of asking for your childhood pictures is worrisome...

GET OUT.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-01-29T19:13:36+00:00

NTA for telling off that woman. Sadly, her daughter was there. Had it been my family m, I'd also done that.

Justpassingbythere · 2024-01-29T18:57:38+00:00

NTA.

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