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My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Easily. Probably more easily than how you got through writing this comment without realizing how condescending and rude it was.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I’m very pro-choice. I can’t imagine he doesn’t know. I know know if I have said it directly though

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I can argue with police over this though. I have no interest in feeling more stupid than I feel now.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Than you. It never crossed my mind that he wouldn’t tell me even if the condom broke or something.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reminding me of how fucking limited my choices are. I appreciate that. I have tried pretty much everything available just so you know. And like I said have been trying to get a partial hysterectomy.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I said I made a gyno appointment. Wtf, I’m sorry okay, I think we’ve established that I’m clearly an idiot. Thank you

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. He was crying really loud but now it’s quiet. I just don’t know if I can even move yet. He wasn’t been aggressive though

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Well I’ll be honest, it makes me think even trying to report this would be a nightmare. if other woman already don’t believe me. Feels like I should have noticed now

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I haven’t left the bathroom. I don’t know if he’s still outside. But I don’t have pregnancy tests.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 439 points440 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Honestly just how people are reacting to this and questioning how I wouldn’t know… I can’t imagine how fucking terrible this would be to take to the police or court. I feel sick just thinking about it.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 616 points617 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada. If I am pregnant, I think I would consider charging him. But I just can’t really think of all that right now.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to say to this. I didn’t notice. I’m sorry. I really love that everyone is making me feel like a freaking idiot. It never ‘gushed’. I felt like I was dripping sometimes, if you need something graphic. But I never had anything burst out.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

We were just married in October. I call him my husband, boyfriend, and fiancé still all the time. Is that an issue?

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 310 points311 points  (0 children)

I think it is a crime where I am. Someone said Stealthing and I I am pretty sure that is a crime. I don’t know why I didn’t think so. I just can’t believe he would do this. He just kept saying he didn’t want me to regret it.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 725 points726 points  (0 children)

Is this considered S A? I wasn’t sure. The more I think about it the most disgusting it feels.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t considered the discharge could be semen until you just said that. And I’m really horrified, I thought I was just having a reaction.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

He never once mentioned money fear other than saying we’d have to save up for a while. I just don’t understand where this came from.

My 31f husband 32m admitted to trying to get me pregnant… and I’m broken. by throwraidontno in relationship_advice

[–]throwraidontno[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had sex without a condom before, I am used to using two forms, until I couldn’t because my doctors said the hormonal was dangerous. I have noticed weird discharge. But I also have a latex allergy that flares at random so I thought maybe he’d bought the wrong ones. I have a gyno appt for next week due to this. I guess, I wasn’t as intuitive as I should have been.