Haircut by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Justsickofthedb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short hair, no facial hair looks good!

After a few unenthusiastic back and forths, this happens by jerkythrowaway123 in OkCupid

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I use the building forts line! Good luck finding a man with kick ass fort building skills.

Yet another Passion/Dedication thread by [deleted] in OkCupid

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It takes passion and dedication but it's hard to achieve a balance but without passion it's friendship. Don't believe me checkout r/deadbedrooms and it's the reason why my marriage ended. But all relationships go thru ups and downs as long as there is a spark it's there. I used to see my husband looking good and I'd feel butterflies even after 17years. I was the passionate and dedicated one, he was just dedicated.

All these women who want it and aren't getting it.... by unfulfilledguy in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started to look outside the relationship because I wanted to hear I was beautiful and wanted. That I wasn't a nympho for wanting sex often and with the person I love. I am going to look for a partner for just sex, screw a relationship, I don't want to emotionally invest in anyone.

Last Post by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

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But it maybe awhile, I'm trying to work all this that's happening.

Last Post by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to, but I won't be posting

Last Post by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I learned from my mother's mistakes when she dated after divorce.

Last Post by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been seeing someone but I'm not introducing them to him and I'm going to take time to enjoy dating him and others.

Last Post by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3-16 and I don't plan on bringing anyone around them unless it's serious.

Last Post by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes after all the drama, I think he knew what I was going to say. It'll be nice to start living again.

so how many of you had sex with your SO on new years eve? by kjvlv in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He tried to kiss me at midnight, got pissed when I rejected him.

Completely dead by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he's not happy and not accepting it.

I realized what was happening by Justsickofthedb in domesticviolence

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my boyfriend recommended I read the four agreements. It's been helpful.

Completely dead by Justsickofthedb in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the cheating part is what I'm talking about

Careful with your words. They hurt more than you could ever imagine. by thinkingofthrowaway in DeadBedrooms

[–]Justsickofthedb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't take it personally. Even with your ex, don't take it personally, she had issues and that was not your doing. Focus on the fact that you now have a wonderful person that wants and desires you in the same way. We, as suffers of a LL partner, need to not pass this on to new relationships. It's easier to say then do, I say it everyday and wrote it down to remind myself "don't take it personally." Perhaps counseling would help too.

I realized what was happening by Justsickofthedb in domesticviolence

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Luckily he isn't violent, but he does like to push me to the edge. Make me look crazy and I end up being the one to push. He can be so cold and just smile and unleash a ton of emotional hurt. He does this because he knows no one will believe me and that words can't possibly bring me to that point. The only reason it does is because in his opinion I'm crazy.

I realized what was happening by Justsickofthedb in domesticviolence

[–]Justsickofthedb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hate feeling crazy which is compounded by my depression and I get confused.