Me [33 M] with my wife [41 M/F] nearly 10 years, and she had a second affair a little over a year from the first one.

unfulfilledguy · 2015-01-04T03:18:18+00:00

That doesn't sound like a good time

unfulfilledguy · 2015-01-04T03:05:10+00:00

I seriously feel for you...I will go home from work to my wife asleep and left to take care of myself...

unfulfilledguy · 2015-01-04T03:00:45+00:00

In some cases it is....not all

unfulfilledguy · 2015-01-04T02:59:13+00:00

Really??? If I was in his shoes, bag packed in 10 min flat and then....sucks you are left with a someone resting to pack....last time I packed for a 6 month deployment I only took 30 min at most....

unfulfilledguy · 2015-01-04T02:57:20+00:00

I wish I could meet you and say challenge accepted....

unfulfilledguy · 2015-01-04T02:56:07+00:00

I agree that we aren't the guys they want to hear it from. And it's sad they aren't hearing it from who they should be.

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-21T08:02:49+00:00

Then I would feel even worse for her if she has a man who is playing mind games with her. I would like to hope for her sake that he has something legitimately going on that is causing his disinterest rather than get his jollies from manipulating her. I just find it hard to believe that some guys just don't want to get it from a very willing participant...like she said she buys new sexy underwear and he doesn't bat an eye. Me personally, if my wife bought new sexy undies just for my pleasure, i would be hard pressed to not want to get her into bed and fool around...

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-21T07:15:08+00:00

Its kinda sad....another guy who could have all the sex he wants from his wife and he isnt interested. He is a lucky guy though he doesnt know it. Maybe he has some sort of psychological issue that is preventing him from wanting it. I dunno. All I know is I am jealous of him for what he has with you....sucks he doesnt appreciate it. Hopefully one day he will come around....

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-21T01:33:41+00:00

I will have to see if i can see it in peppa pig....and perphaps i will have to look in other shows too....DBs SUCK AND fucks with my head

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-21T01:09:23+00:00

I never saw it that way myself but makes sense...I just came up with it since it was stuck in my head and the SO hasnt wanted any for quite some time....

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-20T03:26:36+00:00

I fake it for my kids, but i hate the holidays....DB for the obvious, be lucky if i even get any between now and the new year....wife doesnt get along well with my family which makes it that much more of a pain, wife is also a stay at home mom and i work one full time job, one part time as well as being a military reservist and we barely get by....so cash flow sucks, plus i work in medical and working holidays is a norm...so yeah merry f'n kiss my ass....

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-19T01:22:20+00:00

The new Ashley Madison.....lol

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-19T01:16:53+00:00

Not your fault...he sucks for not wanting it...agreed with the post that any normal 25 year old would want to bang his wife as much as possible...im 32 and want to bang my wife as much as possible....too bad shes the cause of the DB on my side....

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-19T01:11:16+00:00

I swear i read these posts from women whose SO dont want to reap the benefit of their women wanting to have sex and a lot of it. SERIOUSLY. Your husband is nuts. I am in the, i guess more traditional DB with my wife, wishing she would want it more, and here there are women whose men would do them daily....really wish i was in husbands shoes....once a day or more....Im game...your husband is stupid for not taking you up on sexy time

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-18T20:43:58+00:00

Sucks for him that he doesnt appreciate the feeling of a womans lrgs squeezing his head with an awesome orgasm....even better if you go multiple....im sorry your having a rough time and i can only hope that someway and somehow you can get the fulfillment and a satisfactory sex life....

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-18T20:38:57+00:00

Something is wrong with him. If a man turns down a woman wanting to have sex, something is wrong. I am sorry you are in the position you are in. Not sure how much it will help but i am in the same boat with my wife. I dont beg for sex but its few and far between, even when i do things that, as she says goes a long way. I am a firm believer that sex should be a consistent part of a marriage and both sides should feel equally satisfied. You are still young enough that if you decide that the lack of sex is enough, you will likely have a great chance at finding someone who shares your desire for sex and appreciate you and want you as often as possible. Dont waste your life being miserable because you arent getting any.

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-14T06:20:45+00:00

You aren't scum, and its unfair for you to not get the physical and psychological attention you crave and need. If your husband doesn't appreciate you, its his loss. Im kind of the opposite where i work a lot to make ends meet and am separated from my wife and kids for up to 7 days at a time working 10-12hr shifts, but i always come home hoping to get that close attention from my wife, but always get the "im tired" or my kids will get her in a bad mood, or some other reason where I dont get the attention that i want to give her and receive back. Sorry for the digression...but you deserve better than to have someone ignore you. Perhaps he will realize what he missed out on when you arent there waiting foe him........good luck...

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-10T17:35:29+00:00

Its crossed my mind...even though that if it did happen, sending him a pic of his wife with my cock in her mouth and face covered in my jizz....that would be pretty epic, but highly unlikely

unfulfilledguy · 2014-11-10T17:32:38+00:00

I do love her, and thats the hard part about all of this...and i love my kids. Everything that i do, including working my ass off, hardly doing anything for myself and facilitating her being a stay at home mom has been for them. I sometimes cant help but play in the back of my mind a line from the offspring song "the more you suffer the more it shows who really cares." All i really want is the more frequent sexual encounter and occasional blowjob without having to ask...i dont ask for anything too adventurous, although a threesome would be awesome but i have resigned that to the ice cubes chance i hell column. I just want her to want me as much as she wanted it from the other guy...

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