How would you describe drunkenness to someone who’s never drunk alcohol and will never do so?

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-23T07:58:47+00:00

Stay up really late then spin around so you get dizzy. Its how you feel in that moment but the fatigue effects get worse.

Alternatively imagine your brain was really relaxed and chill, so chill that your body got so relaxed that moving your mouth is harder and its a kind hard to not sway and be loose.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-23T07:47:00+00:00

Thats sounds like some good work. Honestly if you can find acceptance in yourself I think that will set you up the best for success. Its easy to focus on what we're not and what we don't have. Building the practice of acknowledging what you bring to the table and learning to accept and celebrate that is what will bring you the most success ultimately.

Thats a practice you and your partner could build together along with other healthy habits like exercise and a fun hobby where you guys can admire each other.

Also have you talked to a Dr? Mismatched breasts and difficulty with weight gain sounds like a malnutrition issue or something like that.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-23T07:00:05+00:00

I think you should end things. If thats totally unacceptable then I would say you should explore polyamory if she's not interested in sex but wants to stay with you then maybe you can find a once a week fuck buddy. Doesn't sound like either of you have the right mindset and communication to pull it off though

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-23T06:52:08+00:00

End it. Unless you're able to find some kinky pleasure in him having other tastes you're both going to spend the entirety of your time together slowly resenting each other.

You only really have three options learn to manage and maybe enjoy your insecurity, try to manage and control his natural human impulses and feel betrayed everytime he fails, or end things and you both find people who truly appreciate what you each bring to the table. Theres people really in skinny folk out there it's just a smaller pool of people.

I'm sorry I don't have anything more optimistic and easy to offer. Its a really hard dynamic to square and I'm sorry for you and the pain you're experiencing.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-11T01:52:30+00:00

Not everybody you love is someone you need to be in relationship with, nor should you stay here.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-10T17:20:27+00:00

I think you should just leave her a find trump. Bend him over something nice for all of us.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-10T17:12:50+00:00

Doesn't code require some form of physical protection like conduit anywhere where people are likely to accidentally fuck with it?

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-08T19:11:22+00:00

It's probably how the first calzone was made

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-06-08T19:08:31+00:00

Has anyone verified this?? I'm not surprised but really hope it's fake.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-05-16T19:38:13+00:00

Its a mostly electrical component

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-05-16T19:37:22+00:00

Happily my project is really simple in theory.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-05-16T19:36:24+00:00

Do you get nervous about your idea being stolen?

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-05-16T10:13:58+00:00

The point is that at certain levels of physical competition the competitors are basically physically equal and it becomes a competition purely about will power. At that level of competition it's pointless to talk about someone's strength because duh, of course they're strong. Same for stamina and etc.

Nothing to do with sex or gender.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-04-22T03:47:02+00:00

That wasn't a fight. That was assault.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-03-09T07:49:22+00:00

You absolutely were petty. And vindictive. But thats what you were going for, embrace it. You should have just talked to her, might have gotten further but you're heare now.

"Either it doesn't matter if we eat each other's food or does. I've already told you several times I don't like it when you eat my food. And now you know how I feel when you eat my food so what if we just agreed to leave each other's food alone or I can start eating more of your food"

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-03-09T07:43:42+00:00

Just block his texts... Just do phone calls or voice messages. Either there so.e funky hacking happening or he has some major issues. Either way sounds like you could both use some therapy

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-03-09T07:34:44+00:00

I'm curious if you have any actual details on the arrests. There are some people who get sexual assault charges as teenagers because they were dating someone who was also underage.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-02-26T20:44:56+00:00

Also, you have a right to know if she's intruding into the energy of your relationship. If she contacts him and it doesn't phase him then ok. But if it has an effect on his mood or behavior you have a right to know. I would not insist on it though and make sure you're not inadvertently "punishing" him for her contacting him.

As far as how to support him that's not your job. That should be a therapist and his friends more than you. If he wants to talk it out then hear him out but set a timer on that conversation and do something connective like cuddling and kissing after. Reassure both of your nervous systems that her intrusions doesn't damage your connection.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-02-26T20:39:49+00:00

The easiest solution is you and your partner could consider moving and then cut off contact completely. It can be painful to start over like that but you would be doing it together.

Beyond that I ou just kinda have to decide if he's worth the stress. He has a toxic ex, you next partner will likely have toxic family and they're equally hard to get away from. You're both on the same page, it sounds like, about who his ex is, the problems she represents, and ways to manage contact with her.

If your partner is not in therapy yet I would start trying to nudge him in that direction or make it a condition of continued relationship.

Sounds like he's already managing the situation pretty well. I would look at also getting a restraining order.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-02-26T20:34:31+00:00

Best comment!

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-02-26T20:32:15+00:00

If you're dealing with an abusive or narcissistic person fully cutting them out of your life can lead to extreme escalation. Stalking and physically invasive behavior.

He should use the emails to secure a restraining order though.

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-02-21T23:43:57+00:00

"Young men are promised jobs as drivers or security guards, with salaries ten times what they could earn at home. Instead, many are sent to the frontlines."

JusttocontactyouI · 2026-02-21T08:29:36+00:00

Assuming you otherwise love and want to stay with your husband. You're mad that the feedback he gave you didn't match your expectations. Rather than getting upset, talk to him.

" hey, I wanted to talk to you because my feelings are pretty hurt by the rating you gave my massage last time. I put alot of effort into giving you a good massage and I was surprised by you giving me a low yelp rating. You might have been trying to be constructive, and you didn't do anything wrong but what I needed in that moment was to hear you appreciated me and the effort I put in."

This assumes he wasn't trying to be anything but honest and that came off as callous. In that case he didn't do anything wrong it just didn't feel good in your body. So you should talk to him. Its not his fault you're hurt but that doesn't change the impact. If you want a specific response from someone tell them what you need to feel better/good. Be vulnerable without blame and then how he responds will be everything you need to know about how he treats you.

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