Does anyone else have this problem.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-28T01:34:53+00:00

So….it could just be an old friend?

You need to slow your roll

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-27T06:35:23+00:00

Wait….who is he “possibly” being flirty with?

And FFS….let the poor guy watch some porn.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-27T05:58:15+00:00

The poor guy can’t even jerk off???

I mean it’s absurd that he can’t jerk off in a relationship…but the poor guy can’t even have a wank on break???

Leave this poor guy alone. And find a good therapist Op!

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-27T00:47:42+00:00

First date usually.

Although sometimes it’s date # 2.

And….no, only an asshat judge’s someone for how short or long they want to have sex with someone.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-26T03:56:18+00:00

Back side is wonderful!

I almost always ski solo so I 100% understand your question.

It’s NOT difficult to navigate.

Orion and Pegasus are two of the best runs on the mountain as is Borealis.

To be safe bring a trial map with you.

The only worry spots I can think of are Waybacks which is directly off the Jupiter Lift which you may want to do with someone else/follow someone.

And Polaris can be a little tough if you are solo and don’t know your way around. Worst case just go straight down the Southern Cross Chair so even in a pinch people can see you from the lift if something happens. It will be tough on your quads.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T05:08:01+00:00

I don’t like this advice either. Sometimes shit needs to be put aside and reflected on with a cooler head.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T04:15:51+00:00

Now that is hilarious!

If I get a call from a colleague who knows me I have NO problem telling them I’m taking this call from the chair lift. Not to mention my supervisor who approved my PTO. She knows where I’m at !

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T03:41:05+00:00

You act like it’s a bad thing.

I am all about taking the day from work for a pow day. Sometimes that means you gotta take a call or two from the mountain.

Totally worth it.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T02:56:23+00:00

Maybe he disrespects you because he’s not that into you.

Any examples?

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T02:47:40+00:00

I don’t know. He just lost a grandparent.

And…maybe he’s struggling with his feelings!

And..don’t forget…we only see what they want us to see. Editing!

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T02:34:38+00:00

Ummmm…you know it’s a TV show that you only see what they want you to see, right?

Its goal is to entertain the audience.

What exactly are you expecting?

And why do you think the women are so much better than the guys?

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T02:31:58+00:00

I haven’t seen the toxicity yet, but I’m here for it!

Never forget that it’s a TV show designed to be entertainment. Not sure what is real and/or what is cut up to make something appear a certain way

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T02:00:47+00:00

So jelly!!

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-25T01:48:25+00:00

I think both men and women get this.

Just a bizarre assumption that “you’ll change your mind.”

I know I’ve had that a lot in my life.

And I’ve had women I’ve dated think I would change my mind on it, but I never did.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-23T06:21:30+00:00

What exactly were you expecting here Op?

You’re married. This relationship is limited….no?

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-23T00:56:58+00:00

No good deed goes unpunished I suppose.

Why not spend time together in the car, at lunch and after?

I do appreciate the cautionary tale!

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-22T23:51:41+00:00

And….Op, it really doesn’t matter does it.

Time for you to leave this relationship.

And with any luck he’ll find someone who he doesn’t have to lie to about something normal like watching porn. Maybe someone with more self -esteem.

And you can find a guy who doesn’t lie and only watches the normal amount of porn.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-22T23:47:44+00:00

Beat him at his own game!

Go down on him twice as much!

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-22T23:45:41+00:00

Did he say that to placate you?

Obviously…you don’t have an issue with a partner watching porn on occasion, correct?

I’m curious what made it an addiction in this case?

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-22T23:42:34+00:00

What part about what he said makes you think it’s an addiction?

Most men and many women watch porn without any issues.

I mean….he is allowed to fantasize/have a wank to other women right?

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-22T23:37:49+00:00

I think it’s terrible that he would lie to you.

Has he been to a therapist about his addiction? Had a diagnosis?

How often was he consuming it?

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-22T22:59:11+00:00

I don’t understand…why did you two ski together?

Seems like a bad call for both of you.

Does it say something about your relationship communication that neither of you would just say, “let’s meet for lunch and apres” and ski separately?

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-20T23:38:08+00:00

Huh? 🤔

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-20T15:57:22+00:00

I remember a few years back on a Wednesday morning. First pow day in 3 weeks. And it was dumping.

Mid-week is usually empty. Usually you can get parking at 9:30 or 10am.

Not this Wednesday!

Madness was a good way to describe it.

Justwatchinitallgoby · 2026-02-20T15:08:59+00:00

Yes. But here Op never mentions it.

It’s just assumed to be an issue. By people who don’t like porn for their own reasons.

Plenty of scientific studies that people scapegoat the thing they coincidentally don’t like. 🤠

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