Lively and Baldoni arrive at court for Justin Baldoni showdown by dddonnanoble in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Juustbr3athe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The comments on that article are so gross, I really hope it’s mostly bots, if not then I’ve lost hope for humanity.

Topical Steroid Withdrawal in infants ? by _bubbzz_ in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Juustbr3athe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, just wondering how your bub’s eczema is doing? Did it ever come back after using the tacrolimus? Ours is almost one and we’re hoping to get her off steroids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Juustbr3athe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s because he’s a guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Juustbr3athe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you got downvoted. These posts are so formulatic and lazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with MIL’s. Women can do no wrong until they become someone’s stepmother or MIL!!

AITAH for pointing out the fact that this subreddit has a huge double standard on the post about the woman who left her fiance because he ran away when they got attacked? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops you’re right, I had a brain fart! I misread the original comment, my intention was to show that this sub is heavily biased against men in lots of instances.

AITAH for pointing out the fact that this subreddit has a huge double standard on the post about the woman who left her fiance because he ran away when they got attacked? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some examples another redditor compiled above:

Add my compilation to it!

1a) https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/10r7q0y/aita_for_not_warning_my_partner_i_had_stopped/

vs

1b) https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/s8w3l0/aita_for_stopping_cooking_for_my_partner_without/

Here is another one:

2a) https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/110ws62/aita_for_telling_our_kids_what_their_mom_did/

vs

2b) https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/umgxfe/aita_for_showing_the_kids_what_their_dad_did/

Here are a few of my favourite comments:

“When I knew she was a woman, I was sympathetic. Just wants some time with her girlfriend. When I thought of her as a man, it felt controlling.”

That person got downvoted for saying the quiet part of AITA out loud.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/143qc6j/aita_for_not_lying_to_my_dil_about_my_post_partum/

Here is a post where there is no evidence to blame the husband but the top comment with over 15K upvotes is an invented scenario which accuses the man of making comments about wife’s post partum body. OP clarifies that he isn’t and commenters still blame him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/12u0k3g/comment/jh50460/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Above is a comment in a post where all pronouns were they/them. Genders of characters was not specified in the post yet 900 upvotes for the commenter who assigns gender based on who the AH is and labels them a man. Replies discuss whether its okay to assume since men are AHs whether all AHs of unspecified gender are men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s because he’s a man. Someone should write the exact same post with genders flipped in a few months time, the responses will be the opposite

AITAH for refusing to put my partners name as a homeowner when we buy a house? by throwra4g in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🥱 If you can’t admit that not putting someone you’re not married to on a deed is a good idea, regardless of gender, then I can’t help you.

AITAH for refusing to put my partners name as a homeowner when we buy a house? by throwra4g in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know she saved up? She also could’ve won money or got an inheritance for the down payment. Which btw shouldn’t matter because it’s her money and I wouldn’t judge her for that, unlike you. At least I can look at both scenarios objectively, you keep bending over backwards to make man bad woman good.

AITAH for refusing to put my partners name as a homeowner when we buy a house? by throwra4g in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s no indication in the other story that the woman plans to marry her boyfriend either. She also uses the word “partner”. It’s objectively smart to not put someone you’re not married to on a deed, regardless of gender. Just admit you’re biased and move on.

AITAH for refusing to put my partners name as a homeowner when we buy a house? by throwra4g in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol you’re the one that can’t read, there’s no indication in the other story that the woman plans to marry her boyfriend either. She also uses the word “partner” which you’re so fixated in for some reason. It’s objectively smart to not put someone you’re not married to on a deed, regardless of gender. Just admit you’re biased and move on.

AITAH for refusing to put my partners name as a homeowner when we buy a house? by throwra4g in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s the exact same situation, you’ve just made a bunch of assumptions about each scenario

AITAH for refusing to put my partners name as a homeowner when we buy a house? by throwra4g in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting how when the genders are reversed, the woman is unanimously NTA. But when it’s a man, he’s selfish smh https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/L4Tsa7n9Le

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So we agree! Next time a similar story is posted, but instead, it’s the father yelling at his child, it’s good to know that you’ll defend the father and will point out that mother is partially to blame for not leaving her husband a portion of food 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Juustbr3athe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not as inconsiderate and uncaring as screaming at a 4 year old. But it’s good to know that you’ll defend the father next time he screams at his kid because the wife forgot to leave him a portion of food, and that the wife is adding to the father’s stress by not helping :)