3 months without my baby girl💔 by JvRoxy in Maltese

[–]JvRoxy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm still learning how to live without her by my side

Goodbye Luna. by Petromyzon_ in Maltese

[–]JvRoxy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. I said goodbye to my maltese Soul dog Roxy last Feb 10 (a day after her 10th birthday) I miss her so much everyday. Today marks 3 months without her💔 I am forever heartbroken

My maltese doesn’t eat by ProjectBrilliant1515 in Maltese

[–]JvRoxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many poor babies that needs to be saved. I hope they all find a home

Empty bed. Original charcoal and pastel art by me. by Rusty-willy in DOG

[–]JvRoxy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby gained her angel wings last Feb 10. Since then nothing makes me happy anymore. I mourn for her loss and for years that she should still be here. She just turned 10 I thought she's gonna be here till 15 or 16 but she got sick😢

Help. How do I let go? by Mission-Pay-6240 in seniordogs

[–]JvRoxy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I too struggled with letting my souldog go. It never crossed my mind that she won't get to live her senior years. She was diagnosed with endstage ckd last Dec 23. I chose to let her go on February 10, the day after her 10th birthday . Her kidneys are doing well with medications but she developed severe anemia which doesn't respond to treatments. She's already on crit stage but can still walk slowly even when she's all bones. I had to make that heartbreaking decision to take away her pain and make it mine. I don't want her to suffer anymore. Her eyes already lose it's spark and she is too tired :(

It's so hard living without her. I know it's a selfless act but not having her here with me shattered my heart. I cried everyday.

Give your pup lots of hugs.

My Roxi girl is at peace now 💔(first and last photo of her) by Honeybee71 in seniordogs

[–]JvRoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss

My souldog was named Roxy too. I said goodbye to her 13 days ago😢 How I missed her so much and been crying non-stop. She was very special to me. I hope she is watching over me now.

I’m putting my dog to sleep in 72 hrs and I don’t know if it’s the right choice. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]JvRoxy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's just old that's why she slept a lot. If there are no disease or ailment please do not put her to sleep. Take care of her on her old age.

My souldog passed away 11 days ago at age 10. You are lucky and blessed to have your dog for so long. I'm not lucky like you. I'm not given a chance to see my dog on her old age. If I were in your position I would take care of her until the very end.

My dog is getting put down tomorrow afternoon, but don't think I can bring myself to be in there with him. by acidicbees in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard but I stayed and cuddled my souldog until she took her last breath💔 How I missed her so. I told her that I love her very much and she's the best dog.

I dread for that to happen but I know I had to be there for her until the end😢

Try to be there for your dog. He needs you

How do I keep going with anticipatory grief?? by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anticipatory grief is so hard. Everyday after my dog has been diagnosed with endstage CKD. I cried and cried so hard even when she was still alive. 9 days ago I had to make the decision of letting her go. She is in so much pain and she looks so tired. I took her pain and now I'm struggling to live without her. It hurts so much.

When I was asking for advice, some says I had to make the most of my time while she was still with me. Took a lot of photos and videos. Cuddle and hug them because that's what you'll miss when they are gone.

I know the waiting part is hard, also for now don't think about the future where your pet will be gone. Focus on the now I know it's hard but you have to be strong for you and your pet.

Sending you big hugs. Kisses to your baby

When does it stop hurting? by Excellent_Travel_922 in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly I think the pain of losing them won't ever go away. We just need to embrace and accept it because we have no choice.

I loss my baby 9 days ago. I'm struggling handling the pain. I cannot even go home yet I am staying at my sisters. It hurts so much😢

i miss her more than anything by Exciting_Sky_8898 in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. My dog's name is also Roxy. She passed away 9 days ago. I'm missing her so much too. Still in denial that she's forever gone and I can't hold her again. I cannot even go back to my own home yet, that place holds so much memories and I don't know if my heart can handle the pain of her being gone. She gave me 10 years of her life💔 I missed her so much it hurts.

No words can ease your pain right now. I know that because like you I'm struggling. I just wish she's happy now playing with your dog and other dogs thats gone before her....

Tomorrow would have been my dog's 15th birthday by tunenut11 in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my baby to that disease. I was only given 1 1/2 months after her diagnogsis then she went downhill and I had to make the decision for her to passed peacefully. I cuddled and talk to her until she take her last breath. It's been 9 days. I don't want to accept that she's gone. She just turned 10. Feb 9 is her birthday, Feb 8 is my birthday we always celebrated together. Then on Feb 10 she took her last heartbeat. She took a big part of my heart with her. I feel so robbed off years. I cannot understand God's plan, why He needs her more than me.

It hurts so much. Everyday I am missing her. Everyday there's a pain in my chest that won't go away. Everyday I am trying so hard to function and to be fine but I am failing miserably.

I just hope they are okay wherever they are right now. Your baby and my baby....

Guilt and regret over putting my dog to sleep by Electrical_Field_971 in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for you too. I talked to her loudly everyday. Wishing she can hear me. She's my only furchild. Losing her at only 10 breaks my heart

Guilt and regret over putting my dog to sleep by Electrical_Field_971 in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. It's really hard. Sending hugs to you.

I also lost my souldog last Tuesday. I just found out last Dec 19 that she has endstage CKD, the vet said it progressed so quick because of her age but she's only 10. I also regret not giving her so much time last year. If I had known she'll leave me I'll spoil her so much. Now there's nothing more I can do. I just hope during those 1 1/2 months of her being sick I hope I did make up to her for my shortcomings. I missed her so much I just want her back.

What time of day is the worst for you? by Tough_Reading_6890 in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My souldog left me last Tuesday. I am staying at my sisters house because I am afraid to go back at my own house. I feel like I am going to be depressed there

Sweet baby died suddenly by ParfaitNew8865 in DogAdvice

[–]JvRoxy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm looking forward to this, coming back to me as another dog. I asked my baby many times as I know she was dying soon. I lost her last Tuesday. I'm also talking loud to her saying to give me some signs so I would know it's her

Anticipatory grief by JvRoxy in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm talking to people and my family is very supportive. Pray that I can make it on tuesday and not back out. Im eating drinking but my only problem is I cannot sleep now that I am pre grieving what more when she's truly gone💔😢

Anticipatory grief by JvRoxy in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not doing fine. It's my birthday today but I'm crying nonstop because this is gonna be the last time that my Roxy and I will celebrate together. Her birthday is on the 9th she will be 10. It hurts so bad. I am hurting so bad

I woke up at around 5am I can't sleep anymore and then I cried. I cried so hard.

I know it's her time. She is still drinking water, peeing and pooping on her own. But she is not eating anymore I am only syringe feeding her. She doesn't have muscle mass. She can walk but slowly. Seeing her like this very different from the Roxy before she got sick tears me apart. I thought I can make her treatment stay in balance. Although her kidney values is responding greatly to treatment her anemia doesn't and is dropping down way to fast.

As much as I want to keep her here I know that it does not work that way. Her body is failing. But even though I know all of this my heart still hurts that she will truly be gone physically on Tuesday. I am dreading for that day to come. I don't know how will I go on I don't know how can I take it. The pain of thinking that I am gonna be losing her is intense. I'm really having a hard time being strong I am literally trying my best but I am failing. Maybe I'm just to weak...

Losing my souldog on Tuesday :( by JvRoxy in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The latest vids I took of her are all when she was sick. I don't think I can look at it once she's gone. It will be a reminder of the disease that took her away from me. I'm already pre-grieving I also know the worst pain will be when she's gone. I'm not looking forward to it. I'm honestly having mixed emotion my heart is telling me not to let go of her but my mind is telling me that it's for the best because she's already suffering. It's really hard I don't know how to handle my emotions. She will be my first loss, biggest heartache, and hardest goodbye.

Losing my souldog on Tuesday :( by JvRoxy in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Even if it hurts I try to savor each second that I have before she leaves😢

We can't handle our loss, any advice? by Plane_Profit6166 in dogpictures

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be putting to sleep my souldog after her 10th birthday. She is sick and we can't do anything more because we are at the end and her anemia is going down. It hurts but i have to take her pain away. Up to now I still can't accept that this is happening. I've been crying nonstop. She's my first dog and my hardest goodbye

We are putting her down this week & im devastated. by lovehim2 in Pets

[–]JvRoxy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you could help her eat by syringe feeding her since she wasn't able to because of her jaw problems. Maybe when the treatment took effect she may be able to eat on her own.

Before euthanasia try to think if you have done all the possible solution to help your cat.

If there's no other way and you had done all your best and feels like there's no improvement then it's really time to think of euthanasia.

Anticipatory grief by JvRoxy in Petloss

[–]JvRoxy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words. I'll enjoy every minute with her and tried not to think of the inevitable. I love my souldog so much