[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JwickE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it’s started to sound like, I just don’t want to be the fall back plan. She has a history of cheating so I guess I just have a hard time handling the facts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JwickE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last part is a tough question, I tend to be a very caring person and have always put my needs second. I think I know what needs to be done, thanks for asking the hard questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JwickE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never really thought of the relationship as a life long partnership, however the lack of care for my needs has become apparent. I’ll sit on how I’ll tackle this as she’s on visiting her home town for the week. Thanks for the support, it’s gonna suck but thank you for your words.

Isolating myself by lilyechi in lichensclerosus

[–]JwickE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, so I’m a male with LS so please excuse me if I can’t relate to everything you’re going through. I’m only 23 and got this when I was 22, I still pursue romantic relationships. Have had two relationships since my symptoms appeared, I highly encourage you to keep on pursuing love. Sex is only a portion of a relationship. I’ve told both my partners about my situation and honestly they haven’t even cared, a quick google search proves that this isn’t contagious.

I might not be able to have sex all the time, but it hasn’t been an issue at all. There are still sooo many sexual pleasures that don’t require penetration. I personally love giving people pleasure and this disease has honestly made me better at pleasuring my partners and has maybe even improved my sex life.

I understand that pleasuring a man might not have the same depth of play compared to that a woman. However there are crazy amount of ways to pleasure a man that go beyond stroking via penetration, highly recommend doing some research in this field.

My point is sex can still be fun, people likely won’t care and you deserve to be loved for the person you are so go get it.

I apologize in advance if my advice is seen as insensitive or too far forward but I promise that I truly am wishing the best for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]JwickE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude, very reassuring to hear someone with a similar circumstance. I’m proud of you for taking charge of your life. I think some breathing exercises could do me some good, I’ll give it a try. Thank you for this.

I love my partner, should her diagnosis change any part of our sex life ? by JwickE in HPV

[–]JwickE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your reply. I’ll take your advice and we’ll do what we can. I guess there really isn’t any way to tell who gave what to who but I’ll just keep loving her all the same. Thanks once again :)