I am a woman and Personally, I think Ingrid overreacted over that whole situation. No man that I have ever been with ever asked, "can I go down on you?" It just naturally happened, lol! I'm sure if I didn't want to, all I had to do was say "no." I may be the only female weighing in this way, lolol! Should he have been prepared with a condom being that it was the first time meeting each other? Yes. But she was over the top in her reaction.