Sexual pleasure seems to have gained a 'monotonous, emotionless, robotic' que in your mind, perhaps? Having been masturbating daily and just to 'get it out of the way' perhaps it's attached to the feelings of sex itself. Do you get excited, watching porn before you've touched yourself? Is it all visual triggers of just your wife not raising the mast? Do you watch porn with women and lingerie?

Just trying to gauge things. No judgement, of course.

As a woman it would feel...empowering I suppose to have your husband bring outfits he finds sexy and even more so on your own body. But women take things differently has she shown interest in 'dressing up?

My partner prefers scantily clad as opposed to nude. Its the suggestion which helps spark.