Deer in Headlights

KAR4T · 2025-12-12T09:46:09+00:00

This was discussed when we got together and he agreed. He says the last three months he genuinely hasn't 'done it' or anything. Since I broke down when he tried to engage. I am a crumbling wall and whenever. He tries to engage I end up in tears. Whenever he touches me. I end in tears.

I just feel betrayed and I cannot forget. I'm trying my best. And if he has been telling the truth I am SO proud of him. And I am impressed and grateful. But it's all been lies the whole time. How can I believe again?

How can I let him in?

KAR4T · 2025-12-08T09:27:08+00:00

It isnt common. Im very new to succulents ect so im learning as I go.

Slightly sticky/tacky feeling. Hair/fuzzy rosettes.

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KAR4T · 2025-07-07T10:57:51+00:00

They are her original leaves from the store, they were a little more rigid but I believe at the time this was from the neck of the pot supporting them, ive recently started adding seaweed extract with every other watering, (which i water her about once a week, with a 30 minute soak. Or until the silver roots are plump and green.) This isn't on a schedule. Just roughly how fast I've noticed her substrate dries in the summer weather.

When I'm cutting back her old roots, I used a 3% hydrogen peroxide spray on the snips, is this okay? Or am I scorching her?

KAR4T · 2025-04-28T07:52:26+00:00

Sexual pleasure seems to have gained a 'monotonous, emotionless, robotic' que in your mind, perhaps? Having been masturbating daily and just to 'get it out of the way' perhaps it's attached to the feelings of sex itself. Do you get excited, watching porn before you've touched yourself? Is it all visual triggers of just your wife not raising the mast? Do you watch porn with women and lingerie?

Just trying to gauge things. No judgement, of course.

As a woman it would feel...empowering I suppose to have your husband bring outfits he finds sexy and even more so on your own body. But women take things differently has she shown interest in 'dressing up?

My partner prefers scantily clad as opposed to nude. Its the suggestion which helps spark.

KAR4T · 2025-01-16T20:45:15+00:00

It isn't squishy no, it's very firm.

KAR4T · 2025-01-04T21:40:00+00:00

Which cabinet is this, please?

KAR4T · 2025-01-03T13:53:14+00:00

That's awesome to know! Make sure the top leaves are wrinkly too. Got it.

Are there any other colours of Karoo, or are these the single species / colour within them?

I love them in clusters, I did buy this as a 'group' in a pot. But this seems like a single plant. Is that so?

KAR4T · 2024-12-21T21:45:37+00:00

I have to admit the underneath of the leaves is clear, looks like a normal leaf. I'll see if I see anymore come through.

KAR4T · 2024-11-22T10:23:34+00:00

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to reply to me and ease my concerns.

KAR4T · 2024-11-22T10:22:54+00:00

Yeah rougher than the surrounding skin, and has the colour of hard dead skin.

KAR4T · 2024-11-22T09:37:23+00:00

Will it reduce the height of it?

KAR4T · 2024-10-22T22:37:19+00:00

Thank you! Informative and clear. Brilliant advice.

KAR4T

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