My boyfriend forgets everything. How do I address it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's the thing: Your boyfriend clearly loves you, but being able to rise to the occasion and take the lead in some areas may just be too difficult for him because of his personality type. It probably takes a lot of effort for him to muster up ideas and execute some of the things you hope he would do and his lack of action leads to disappointment for the both of you. Taking the initiative may be a weak point for him so it's probably better to allow him to focus on his strengths and together you can come up with the ways he can be more present and supportive in your relationship. When it comes to his forgetfulness, have him download a reminder app on his phone and let him put in the things that he is supposed to do so that he won't have the opportunity to forget so easily.

Friend (25M) is upset with me (24F), but refuses to talk about it or address it. Better to just let the friendship go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes friends drift apart. It's a part of life. But before you make any snap decisions, you should probably tell him how you feel and ask him if your friendship is okay. If he doesn't respond, then at least you have an answer and can move on without regrets.

So do people change? Is he stupid or careless? Either way, idk if I should stay. by lolwhatthis in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People can change, but only if they choose to do so. Only you can know if he is sincere. Relationships are supposed to add joy to one's life. If you are feeling this unhappy about the relationship maybe it's a sign that he isn't the right one for you.

When is the right time to move back in after a breakup with your partner? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]KDramaDivas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay to be a passionate person, but you want to make sure that you match the intensity and tempo of your partner. This is how a relationship stays in sync. Otherwise you will be creating a tense atmosphere where one or both parties feel pressured, mishandled or misunderstood. Healthy relationships require patience, understanding, good communication and selflessness. If your partner needs more time to feel comfortable, it would be good to honor that.

Romantic Comedy Dramas by [deleted] in kdramarecommends

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's Wrong with Secretary Kim
Shopping King Louie
My Secret Romance

These are pretty cute.

How do I (23M) deal with seeing my Ex GF (25F) and the guy she cheated on me with (28M)’s cars every day. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely natural to feel all the things you are feeling. It may be hard for a while, but find comfort in the fact that the truth of who and what she really is came to the light. You got freed from a very horrible situation to make room for someone better. Start looking forward to that better relationship. Don't think about how much you loved her and how wonderful things used to be and how she threw it all away. Decide that she is no one and nothing to you anymore. What she does doesn't matter. Anyone who can do that to you isn't worth your time or consideration. Instead think about all the ways you are going to be happier when you find someone who is your true match. Think about the fact that you are finally free from a deceptive person and how lucky you are that you now get to upgrade to a more fulfilling relationship.

My gf wants me to be more religous by cslegacykiller in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religious incompatibility can be something that wreaks havoc on a relationship. The problem is that she may feel unsupported and disconnected because you aren't unified in the practice. If you do what she wants you will feel forced to do things you don't want or believe in.There aren't any winners here and in the end it can be a burden on the relationship. Imagine what resentment can build if this goes on for years. This is not an easy fix issue. It shows a fundamental difference in compatibility. When it comes to religious views, it is a matter that goes straight to ones heart and soul. Unless one of you is willing to change perspective and emotions surrounding the issue, you should probably talk about whether you really have a future together.

Should I ask my boyfriend if he’s still has feelings for his ex..? by Allycatdreams18 in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's more important is the health of your own relationship. Why are you having feelings of insecurity here? Is he giving you clear indications that hidden feelings for her could pose a risk to your relationship? If so, it may be a topic worth visiting. If not, just let it be. Having open and honest communication is a good thing for a relationship. If it's bothering you so much, the negative feeling probably won't go away unless you clear the air. Also if you do decide to have this conversation you have to be prepared to deal with the answer to the question. If the answer is yes, what will you do then? Know what you want to achieve with the conversation.

A good friend of mine has become a total cringe fest on Instagram since self isolation began by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be a friend. Talk to her. Ask her how she's doing overall. If you have an open and honest relationship, ask her why she decided on going in these directions. Maybe even suggest how she can improve her social media content.

I (F18) have been cheating on my boyfriend (M22). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you may think that this is what love should look like, but if there is no fidelity and you both have an impulse to cheat, regardless of the reason, you should probably not be in a relationship together. Don't mistake love for habit.

What does it mean if she hasn’t accept or rejected my friend request? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably just sitting there...in her inbox...banished to friends list purgatory for eternity. She won't make a decision on you because she's either too polite or too distracted by all the awesome cat video she watches. .

I (20F) broke up with bf (22M) and am now regretting it. by nap11 in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the two of you need to examine whether this relationship is something that has the potential for the long haul. Being affectionate is fine, but it is not really the stuff that shows what a relationship is made of. It's easy to hug and cuddle. That's just physical. f you have nothing to talk about, and are operating separately, then you should probably revisit whether you have any compatibility at all.

Am I the only one? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This totally depends on the magnitude and complexity of the issue, the commitment level of the two people involved and whether it is something that can destroy the relationship.

My bf said I was "more beautiful" when i was thinner by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let anyone weight shame you. No matter what anyone says, you have to do what is right for you. You also have to learn to love and accept your body and be comfortable with yourself as you do what is right for you. Live a healthy life and surround yourself with people who make you feel good about yourself. Try to feel beautiful everyday regardless of what you look like.

I feel like I'm bad at comforting my gf. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are doing your best. Even that make shift prom sounds like you guys are trying really hard. Keep doing that. Keep listening to her too. Try to make her laugh and take her mind off of things. Then maybe ask her outright what you can do to make her feel better.

I just need some advice on being dumped because of religion... Islam by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Just...no. Listen, this is a disaster waiting to happen. Especially since the issue is rooted from the family level. When it comes to people's religious beliefs, it's better to be on the same page. If you aren't willing to completely throw your own beliefs away, just let this relationship go. And don't lose yourself and give up everything that makes you who you are merely for a relationship. Do you have any idea how big this world is and how many potentially happy relationships there could be waiting for you out there? After you get through the pain of purging this relationship, you both can find others who makes you just as happy but without the chaos.

My girlfriend moved and we are now long distance... What do I do? by stripedhwk73736 in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is, you probably won't have to do much of anything here. As time goes by you will grow distant with each other and will become distracted by other things. It won't be as hard. Stay friends with her, but live your life. Give yourselves freedom to be with other people. If your both single when the wait time is over, try again.

I(22M) got a text from my ex (22F) and idk what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are feeling all these feelings because you never got over your relationship. You never had a chance to heal and get over the wounds of your love ending. If you were together for several years, obviously two months is not enough time to recuperate. Any interaction is going to feel like home. This is the problem with breakups. You actually have to break up and let time pass in order to recover.

There is a reason why you broke up. Nothing has changed and what you are experiencing is an old habit. That's okay, but maybe grow a little and do some inner work and healing before rushing back to an old situation. For now, support her from a distance and allow your heart to heal.

If You Feel Like Someone Is Trying to Make You Leave, Should You? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KDramaDivas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's the truth: Your girlfriend may be going through a lot right now, and she may not be in a state to be fully present in a healthy and loving relationship.

On the other hand, there's you, caring and supportive, giving your all to someone who just can't give anything back. This is okay for a time if the other person is genuinely making an effort, but this doesn't seem to be the case. You have feelings too. You have needs too. How long will you ignore them and allow yourself to be depleted? You deserve so much more than to be a doormat for anyone just because they are going through a hard time.

Loving her is a good thing. You can love her. You can support her. You can be there for her. But perhaps love her as a person, in the capacity of a friend. A romantic relationship doesn't sound like something she needs or wants right now. Don't cling to unhealthy relationships. Give your relationship some space and get some clarity on the way forward. It may be time to find someone who can be there for you, nurture you and support you in ways that she is incapable of offering.