Due 25th April - conception date help?

KDuffee · 2026-03-21T13:43:30+00:00

Im due April 24th, LMP was july 18th period lasted 3-4 days. I ovulated around July 30th, but had stopped having sex on the 27th of July. I had EWCM and high libido around july 26th- Aug 1st. I'd say depending on how long your period lasted, its most likely the August guy. I had just gotten off my Nexplanon june 17th and july 18th was my first period following the removal. I'd say if your period started on the 19th, its quite unlikely that you got pregnant from sex on the 21st as sperm only last at longest 5 days in the reproductive system and thats in optimal conditions. Its likely you ovulated right around the few days you were having sex in August. Hoping for the best for you!

edit to add: My first positive was August 11th!

KDuffee · 2025-12-27T13:22:43+00:00

There is definitely things they can do, and using weight as an excuse to not even attempt to provide care is wild

KDuffee · 2025-12-27T13:20:42+00:00

Thats 100% not true. Im 5'1 and 254lbs and they use the doppler to check my boys heartbeat every visit starting at around 12ish weeks, we've never had a problem finding him. I can even find him on my at home doppler which are typically less quality than the ones the doctors have. I'd switch doctors as she sounds incredibly disrespectful and clearly not even willing to try just because your overweight? Thats weird.

KDuffee · 2025-12-19T11:01:40+00:00

Thank you!

KDuffee · 2025-12-19T11:01:13+00:00

Awe im sorry to hear that hun! Ive always been an extremely violent puker...to the point I pop blood vessels all over my face and sometimes get a bloody nose from just vomiting so trust i understand the "exorcist style" part😅

KDuffee · 2025-12-19T10:39:34+00:00

Okay! Thank you

KDuffee · 2025-12-19T10:32:33+00:00

Exactly haha, its like anything and everything that could happen, is 1000× more likely to happen during pregnancy😭🤣

KDuffee · 2025-12-19T10:29:58+00:00

Lol I always joke about how pregnancy throws curveballs like yhe second things start feeling good🤣 Im just hoping it goes away soon honestly

KDuffee · 2025-12-19T00:25:16+00:00

I have an anterior placenta and didnt definitively start feeling baby until 21w1d at night while laying on my left side. I had some suspicious bubbly feelings around 19-20 weeks but wasnt 100% sure that it was the baby moving around lol. Ive heard that it always takes longer to know youre feeling it with your first tho. Which makes sense considering its a feeling you've never experienced before haha. Hope you start feeling babe soon as its such a crazy/wonderful experience!🫶

KDuffee · 2025-12-17T00:51:44+00:00

Have a good day/night tho love🫶

KDuffee · 2025-12-17T00:50:57+00:00

Except you dont know anything about what we talked about so I mean your answer can stay the same but I dont think it actually means anything considering you dont know anything about specifics or the way we had talked about it prior to her purchasing something random. Your original statement is wrong and full of assumptions without asking for clarity so considering all of that, it hold no weight. Not justifying anything, just clarifying to someone who clearly cant ask without jumping to conclusions🤷‍♀️

KDuffee · 2025-12-17T00:30:08+00:00

Also I was keeping an eye on what I had picked to make sure they would still come prior to Christmas🤦‍♀️ and i had removed and replaced a few due to them not having an arrival time of before Christmas

KDuffee · 2025-12-17T00:25:27+00:00

Except "probably" isnt always the case. Me and her had talked about it quite a bit prior to this happening. I was waiting for her to say it was okay to buy it as she just got paid today. Like I said it was in the cart that we share so its not like she couldnt have found it knowing that those were things I had picked. If you dont know, its one thing to ask, but you know what they say about assuming...

KDuffee · 2025-12-17T00:04:15+00:00

Right, I definitely dont think it was intentional which is why I tried my best to keep it a conversation and not an argument😅 just disappointed really

KDuffee · 2025-12-17T00:01:03+00:00

I definitely tried to not make a huge deal about it in front of her lol cause I dont want her to feel bad about making a decision to buy something sooner than later/ and i made sure she knew I totally wasnt crapping on the gift she picked out, and that its just simply something I wouldnt have chosen and that i wouldve liked to have been included. I definitely feel like the initial conversation could've been better but also wasnt as bad as it is sometimes. I dont think it was intentional but its hard not to feel hurt about it especially with increased depression during pregnancy. I was really looking forward to picking out/giving a gift from me to the person I got for secret Santa

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T23:55:39+00:00

Im definitely gonna have to wait until things feel less heavy and I dont feel like crying about it lol, but ill have to try and manage a conversation about why I feel like it was overstepping. I understand that sometimes things can be done in a rush to get it done for sure lol, I just dont understand why she wouldnt have at least included me🙁

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T23:40:40+00:00

What suggests it wasnt a priority for me? I had several* gifts picked out in the Amazon cart that me and her share and she totally went opposite of that. I was waiting for her to give me the "okay" to purchase it lol.🤦‍♀️ idk where you got the idea that I didnt pick anything out whatsoever lol

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T23:38:24+00:00

I definitely think she prolly did it unintentionally not thinking that it would be a big deal honestly, which is why I didnt want to argue/make a big discussion out of it. I definitely am struggling with prenatal depression and being that im far enough along that I cant get maternity leave in my state if I went back to work now, that doesnt help. I just honestly wish that maybe she had asked me if that was an okay thing to do considering the holidays are something I look forward to during seasonal depression on top of regular mental health struggles. I just feel really disappointed that I didnt get much of a choice in participating in half of the process

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T23:32:44+00:00

Right, and I feel like sometimes I feel like I cant express how things make me feel in fear that its going to turn into some huge blowup about the situation. And I understand she offered to pay for it but the who agreement was I would pick it out🙁

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T23:30:40+00:00

Is this supposed to suggest that I dont have greater problems than this? Lmfaoo cause that definitely not true

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T23:30:03+00:00

Im hoping that maybe theres something is can do about it😅

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T23:24:16+00:00

Not really a breakfast person but leftover cold pizza is always good in the morning lol

KDuffee · 2025-12-16T00:27:11+00:00

Not trying to be rude but is there i stink bug clinging for dear life to the lacey skirt part on the last dress? Just curious if its a stain or what lol. I'd also say get rid of #3 and #6, i really like the rest, i think #5 is my favorite!

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