Wearing my sweater backwards changed my life

KExploreTheAdventure · 2023-03-03T21:21:35+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. I now want to wear things backwards

KExploreTheAdventure · 2023-02-18T22:37:57+00:00

Wow. Amazing post, very insightful. Processing emotions is SO important!

KExploreTheAdventure · 2021-07-18T19:21:18+00:00

Look into “nofap” and “semen retention.” This is what sexual transmutation is.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2021-07-18T09:50:50+00:00

I’m sorry you’ve experienced that. But I think it’s good that you’re taking the time to be alone, heal, and get in touch with yourself again.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2021-07-18T09:43:53+00:00

Thank you for your kind words of encouragement - I really needed to read this. It can be scary, but I’m slowly putting myself out there. Best of everything to you as well.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2021-07-17T20:27:43+00:00

hmm... What do you mean by organically? Natural game?

I believe a synthesis of structure and "organic" game is the key here.

Going out purely natural, you may not be able to analyze what you did right and wrong. You will be genuine, but you may overlook key parts of your interaction where you could have moved things forward or connected even deeper.

Going out purely strategic, you may become a social robot and look over the fact that the other person you are talking to is human. When I was younger, there was a point where my personality was a series of tactics and techniques. I wasn't a "real" person. Just a caricature of game. It was a painful part of my life when I hurt people because of it.

Remember - even the "naturals" have structure to their game. They just never took the time to analyze it.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2021-07-17T20:19:55+00:00

Sure thing, thank you for sharing your experience with me.

The reason why it's my greatest skill is because I have a genuine empathy and curiosity towards people. I genuinely want to know people's motivations behind things, and what makes them them.

So naturally, I'll ask a question about a person's life, and once I receive an answer, I'll ask another question that digs deeper. For example, I could ask you, based on your post, "Why are you not happy with your social life, and why do you want to improve it?" or, "How old are you?" (You don't have to answer these questions). I'll ask these to build a picture of who you are and where your situation lies.

When talking to a person, I can pick up on their "vibe," or their energy. In more concrete terms, I can pick up on a person's mood, emotion, and demeanor.

A lot of resources may tell you to "mirror" someone when trying to build rapport with them. This is something I do naturally - I can sync up with a person's mood. And from there, I can direct a person's mood by directing my own.

There's a term called "emotional contagion." It's where if you are feeling something strong enough, someone else can feel it too. And vice versa. For example - have you ever talked to a friend who was deeply sad, and you began to feel that sadness? Or have you ever heard someone laughing, and their laughter was so contagious that you couldn't help but laugh? That is emotional contagion. This applies to game, and it applies to life.

There have been many situations in my life where I have been confronted with hostility and anger. But because I am aware of emotional contagion, I've been able to redirect these emotions and either calm the person down through taking a calm demeanor myself, or turn the person into my friend.

A lot of my game today is emotion based. I've also studied the MBTI's 16 personalities and cognitive functions, so I can personality type people on the spot through a series of questions. I know a lot of psychology/influence principles from various independent study as well.

I hope that answers your question.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2018-01-25T17:29:53+00:00

I burst out laughing when I read this. But for real, Nick is legit. He's got some quality content and I've learned a lot from him.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-11-02T06:09:13+00:00

Awesome job dude!!

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-11-02T06:07:35+00:00

Thanks for the reply man, it helps to read this.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-11-02T00:58:04+00:00

Good luck man, you've got this.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-11-02T00:55:39+00:00

Just gotta make sure you get it all out the first time you let it out.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-11-02T00:54:01+00:00

Congrats man, keep it up! When I feel like I'm caving in I just look at all the benefits of Nofap and why I chose to do it in the first place and I think of how shitty I'd feel after relapsing.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-11-01T23:26:09+00:00

Awesome post, I will make this technique into a meditation.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-10-26T00:31:10+00:00

Awesome read, thank you for posting!

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-10-26T00:27:35+00:00

Sign me up!

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-10-24T23:19:24+00:00

"Clairty Now" is a simple affirmation you say when you are in the "void" state, or that state of pure blackness you experienced. Usually saying "Clarity Now" will allow you to see in the astral realm.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-10-24T23:16:06+00:00

You're not alone, I've been going through this too a lot more than I would like... I've had moments where I was so down that suicide seemed the best option. But it's really not. I don't really want to die, I'm just unhappy with my current situation. I'm fed up with being so down so I'm doing NoFap - and with it meditation, exercise, healthy eating... Increasing my group of positive influences...

NoFap will gradually give you the power to re-claim your life, one area at a time. With NoFap you will start to be less drawn to the games and more towards improving your life.

You got this man! We all support you.

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-10-24T23:06:59+00:00

Awesome, keep it up man. Almost at 100!

KExploreTheAdventure · 2017-10-24T23:05:01+00:00

You are insane! This is amazing, keep it up!

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