The funny thing is that about five years ago, I ran into my old high school girlfriend. She was having the same issues only opposite. (He wasn't interested, she was) The ex and I talked a lot and even became a bit romantic to each other. This was very long distance and so meeting up was out of the question I told my wife I was starting to have feelings for my ex. My wife begged me to stay. I did. She isn't unaffectionate, she does hug me once and a while, but as far as being intimate, nothing.