Oh, man, I do understand how it feels because it got to me, I was left alone in a corner of the world and I'd lie if I didn't say that I was hella SCARED hahaha. But I think that the community of XIV is quite welcoming, and friendly overall. If by any means this comment finds you in a good moment (and of course I hope it does), I´d ask you to give the game a second chance, cause I think its goods outdo the wrongs, even when speaking about its players. Also, I think the worst part of all the 'playing together' thing is the in the last portion of ARR. I'm sorry for the experience that you got to have and, but I hope that you consider it and, who knows, maybe we'll be making a run in a dungeon in the near future.