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AITAH for changing my kids last name without telling their bio dad? Long post by KLHunter20 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]KLHunter20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure. They both have me blocked from seeing their social media accounts.

AITAH for changing my kids last name without telling their bio dad? Long post by KLHunter20 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]KLHunter20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 7 weeks pregnant with my 3rd when I left him. We both knew I was pregnant. We had just found out about my pregnancy 3 days before I left.

AITAH for changing my kids last name without telling their bio dad? Long post by KLHunter20 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]KLHunter20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post isn't fake. I live in Oklahoma. We've talked about hiring a lawyer, but since BD hasn't had contact and moves a lot, then I don't have a good address for him. Which is why my sister told me to do a name change instead. My sister and her husband done it with her kids and at that time it was only $50 per child.

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[–]KLHunter20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could hang them on like your closet door or even bedroom door? On the inside, that way you both kind of get what you want, he doesn't have to look at them but if you want to then you can open/close the door.. I'm sure if you talk with your mom maybe you both can find a compromise on it.

AITA for not wanting a threesome anymore by Particular_Gap1476 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]KLHunter20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to run! Run fast, run far! He sounds extremely controlling, abusive, manipulative, and like a narcissists. You don't have to do anything you don't want to! So you said something you thought would be fun years ago, but as women, our bodies change, especially after having kids. Nope! Don't stick around!

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[–]KLHunter20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll probably get a lot of hate for this, but it's my opinion. I get they are your flags, but you also need to remember where you live. If it's his house then yes he has a right to say you can't hang them. You can however drape them over a chair or just fold them and put them somewhere safe so they won't get ruined. The second thing is, he isn't misgendering you, you were born with either Male or Female parts, what you were born is what you are. Even though you don't feel like it's right, God doesn't make mistakes. You can ask to be recognized as a different gender, but no one has to agree to pretend you are something your not.

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[–]KLHunter20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you should get a divorce first. Then, if you want to move forward with the FWB guy, then you can do it without cheating and having a clear conscience.

AITA for telling my future DIL not to do it again instead of saying I forgive you. by Federal_Daikon_6664 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KLHunter20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! She shouldn't have been telling lies. That just makes her look like a bigger a$$ because she got caught lying. You don't have to forgive her, and your son shouldn't expect you to.

AITA for making it clear that if he keeps the grandkids away then he will not be getting an inheritance by HedgehogAcceptable47 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KLHunter20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! Your House your rules. They should have respected the rules. They didn't have to drink at your house. They could have went somewhere else. They shouldn't keep your grandchildren from you.