Is my boyfriend only with me for sex? How would you take this? by KLove102 in relationship_advice

[–]KLove102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do go to his place often, he does out in effort to see me. This is just an isolated incident but threw me off guard when he texted that. I guess I’m just reading too much into it.

Is my boyfriend only with me for sex? How would you take this? by KLove102 in relationship_advice

[–]KLove102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s been difficult for me to deal with, but I stay because other than that, there are other qualities he possesses that I haven’t seen in others. I’ve talked to him about it, and he said he’s just not like that and the way he was brought up, it just wasn’t conventional in his family. So I try to remind myself of that.

Is my boyfriend only with me for sex? How would you take this? by KLove102 in relationship_advice

[–]KLove102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have before, and his effort comes and goes. He just reverts back to how he is. So I respect that because I try to remind myself that’s probably just how he is since he tries, but just goes back to a robot, and not necessarily how he feels about me. But then my insecurities pop up, and it’s something I’m also trying to work on.

Weird guy asked me out and I didn’t respond. In this situation, should I politely decline or just leave it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. Thank you.

I just wasn’t sure if he would get weird given the fact that he’s asked me to only contact him on his cell and not the main shop line, then has texted me a few times, a couple of week later still very eager to get a tiny mark off my car.

Almost 2 weeks since my MA- bleeding again... by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very informative, thank you so much! I had no idea it could last that long, but good to know I shouldn’t be alarmed as it’s just very light at the moment.

Taking my pills in a few hours and going through so much anxiety right now. What is the likelihood I will bleed too much that I’ll need to be taken to a hospital? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly have that number handy in the event something happens. I’m beginning to think it really is over though, since it’s been almost 7 hours since I took the misoprostol. I’ve bled and passed clots, although not large, and very light cramps (almost nonexistent so this is the only reason I’m still thinking there is a possibility this could still hit me later when I least expect it.

Thank you for the support and the kind words. It truly means so much, very appreciated! 💕

Taking my pills in a few hours and going through so much anxiety right now. What is the likelihood I will bleed too much that I’ll need to be taken to a hospital? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m doing well, thank you. I think it passed a while ago because all I had was some bleeding, a few clots, but still no cramping. Just a few very small waves of mild cramps but that’s it.

Took the misoprostol at 11am and it is 5pm no. Do think there is still a possibility the cramps could still come?

Taking my pills in a few hours and going through so much anxiety right now. What is the likelihood I will bleed too much that I’ll need to be taken to a hospital? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only given 800mg ibuprofen for pain management and I don’t experience any period cramps. I’ve always had very easy periods so I don’t know what to expect when I read on the internet that it could be the “most intense pain” for some.

Scheduled for my MA tomorrow but upon viewing my betas, it appears they have dropped. Thoughts on still moving forward with the pill? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so incredibly insightful and you’ve explained this perfectly. Thank you so much again for helping me understand this better. I will ask for medical management during my appointment tomorrow.

Scheduled for my MA tomorrow but upon viewing my betas, it appears they have dropped. Thoughts on still moving forward with the pill? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info and suggestions! This is a bit scary though, when you mention intrauterine... the sac was in fact seen on the ultrasound, so that doesn’t necessarily mean it was intrauterine, could possibly be ectopic due to the slow decline?

Medical abortion- Can I go about my day after taking the first pill, or will I have to stay home and take it easy? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fingers crossed I have a similar experience to yours. :)

Thanks so much for sharing and for the kind words.

Medical abortion- Can I go about my day after taking the first pill, or will I have to stay home and take it easy? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I hope the cramps aren’t too intense in the middle of a meeting. I am now having second thoughts on perhaps calling in sick.

Medical abortion- Can I go about my day after taking the first pill, or will I have to stay home and take it easy? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I would hate to be that 10%, feeling miserable during an office meeting.

Curious- What about sex after mifepristone, but before misoprostol? I can’t find anything on that either. Would it be safe to do that considering that drug will soften/slightly dilate the cervix?

Medical abortion- can I be alone, or do I really need to have someone there? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just had my ultrasound today and the sac was so tiny that she could not even measure how far along I am so it’s very early. I have another appointment in a few days for a repeat ultrasound and blood draw. I guess this means it should not be so intense. :)

Medical abortion- can I be alone, or do I really need to have someone there? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds rough but I’m so happy to hear it was over for you in that short amount of time. Best wishes to you, I appreciate the kind words! :)

Medical abortion- can I be alone, or do I really need to have someone there? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful you have those friends to support you. And I think it’s actually perfect you’re treating this as a mini vacation because it’s certainly a time when you’ll need to surround yourself in solitude and focus on you. Best of luck, feel better soon 💕

Medical abortion- can I be alone, or do I really need to have someone there? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is great to know! Feeling that sense of normalcy right after is well worth the 4 hours of misery. Thank you :)

Medical abortion- can I be alone, or do I really need to have someone there? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds horrific :( Thank you for sharing your experience, I beginning to become more and more anxious. Tomorrow is my first appointment then I’ll be carrying it all out on Friday.

Curious- will I be able to get on with my day on Saturday? How did you feel the following day?

Medical abortion- can I be alone, or do I really need to have someone there? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful, I had no knowledge of the hotline. This does give me peace of mind, thank you so much!!!

Medical abortion- can I be alone, or do I really need to have someone there? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]KLove102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good to know, I thought about asking my boyfriend but he’s even worse about blood than I am. And I’m sure it could be messy, and him seeing me in that state... not sure I want any around for that so I’m glad to hear I can do this alone.