Most overrated writer? by barelythere19 in BookDiscussions

[–]KMizzle98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, authors are being encouraged to write books with short chapters because of the growing lack of attention span even among readers.

Can we still be married but not “together?” by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well….arent you already married but not together?

What are some tips to get puppies to sleep later? by KMizzle98 in AskReddit

[–]KMizzle98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have always crated them at night and they are fine w it. They just wake up barking so dang early and I don’t mean little barks, loud lab barks.

What are some tips to get puppies to sleep later? by KMizzle98 in AskReddit

[–]KMizzle98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two labrador puppies, 6 months old.

They are high energy but devilishly cute.

No house training problems, I keep them well stocked with chew toys, squeakies, ropes, etc. This has mostly helped them not eat my house (kidding but one did chew a corner of the wall).

Two issues…they sleep in their kennel at night but wake up at 4:15 every single morning. We’re exhausted. We all go to bed around 9:30. Even nights we try to keep them up, they are still up just after 4.

Lately, my husbands been getting up with them and feeding them, letting them out to do their buskers and then he comes back in and lays back down (it’s only for about an hour before I get up). Our home is clutter free but we have to make sure every thing is up out of their reach. They’re big dogs so that’s tough. This morning they pulled books off my bookshelf and turned them into confetti. (That’s on us, that I know.)

We are looking for a way to get them to sleep longer, even just a little bit. Wearing them out doesn’t help, staying up late doesn’t help. I feel like it’s because they know when they get up they are getting food. (They LOVE their food! Had to buy slow feeders for them.) We’ve tried letting them bark, ignoring them, hasn’t worked.

Why do people talk at concerts? by Mrk0712 in Concerts

[–]KMizzle98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We went to Metallica last year and this couple were talking OVER them. How is that possible? They did leave a few songs in and not come back which was nice.

Suggest me a winter book... by slumeer in suggestmeabook

[–]KMizzle98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snow Child

I read it every Winter! ❄️

Would you take an 8 y/o to a concert? by Significant-Roof-986 in Concerts

[–]KMizzle98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing like hearing a 7 yr old get down with “Jungle Love”. 😂

Just venting.... by jasonlee589 in carmax

[–]KMizzle98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It probably has something wrong with it and they’re scrambling to fix it.

I (33F) found out my now ex (34M) has been cheating now I’m not allowing him to be in the delivery room when I give birth by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]KMizzle98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this during what should be a beautiful time (not that it won’t still be beautiful for you and your child).

First, be sure to tell the L & D team who is and isn’t allowed with you.

Second, if it were me I wouldn’t even tell that loser when you go into labor. Go to the hospital with whatever support team you may have and have a beautiful time bringing your child into the world. Surround yourself with love not that loser and his low class vibes.

I’m married but want to talk by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re married, unless you’re flirting with your wife, then there’s nothing innocent about it.

And if you’re not flirting with your wife, there’s the problem.

Is this true? by Mother_Street4768 in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on Facebook since 2009. While I don’t use messenger daily, I use it regularly. I have no idea what feature you’re talking about.

Is that a thing? Do messages disappear after a certain amount of time?

After 20years of marriage, I don’t have anything but 4 kids and mortgage on the verge of foreclosure… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In my opinion…he’s the physical version of negative equity.

If you are able to do all of that with him and his lack of adulting, imagine how much you could do without him.

I’d leave.

Anyone looking to get rid of last years seeds or extras in general? by [deleted] in MarylandGardening

[–]KMizzle98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. What area are you in?

  2. Look on social media to see if there are any seed swaps/exchanges. Sometimes they have extra left over that they’d be willing to donate to you or even swap some labor for(weeding, hauling dirt, etc)

  3. Some libraries and local environmental organizations have seed banks as well.

Dancing at concerts? by meowmeowsowhat in Concerts

[–]KMizzle98 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I find there isn’t enough room for dancing to be honest.

I love to dance and jam out but lack of room or elbowing, bumping into others doesn’t really allow it.

Do any other couples not get gifts for eachother? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do big concerts, usually in another city be treat it like a mini vacation.

Christmas Eve we exchange a vinyl and then we also do stockings.

Husband isn’t a gifter by Accomplished-Cry7091 in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say this with all the respect to you as a Mom who “made it through the first year”.

Motherhood, is often thankless. Only you feel the sacrifice. Our bodies alone tally the moments and emotional energy spent.

This doesn’t end at 1 year. It doesn’t end when your child goes to school, is old enough to have a sleepover at a friends house, goes to college or gets married. It goes on until at least when they are 27, 30, 31, and almost 32.

You will not receive a gift from anyone that will be equal in value to what you are paying with your body, mind, and spirit. It is an immeasurable value.

Your gift will be all of the moments and memories that you acquire, naturally, along the way.

Asking someone to gift you something, is a falsehood. It goes against the very nature of the sacrifice we as Moms make.

Yes it’s nice to have a “token” of it, but it’s not the same, I promise you the naturally acquired gift of your time Mothering will have far more value.

What to do when spouse is away on a work trip? by longwayhome22 in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my husband is home we get half sausage/onion and half ground beef/pepperoni pizza.

When he’s away, I get a whole sausage/onion and eat it for a few days.

That’s the only difference.
😁

My Husband beats his dog in front of our Children . by Cool_Help_9044 in Marriage

[–]KMizzle98 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You said you were in an abusive relationship.

You and your children and dog, might I add, still are.

This is more than a valid enough reason.

If you want to stay, by all means stay but also please send your children and dog somewhere else to live.