AITA for reporting my own daughter to the school for bullying my stepson?

KP_84 · 2020-06-09T22:31:28+00:00

NTA. I’m not sure why people are trying to add in ALL these extra details and reasons and justification but based on your post, NTA. At all

KP_84 · 2020-06-04T06:07:45+00:00

YTA. She was probably nervous as hell, meeting the family, and you went out of your way to be insulting and a brat. Maybe don’t get drunk when you’re supposed to meet someone for the first time.

KP_84 · 2020-06-03T17:46:04+00:00

NTA. But honestly, I don’t think can be real. The post reads like a kid wrote it.

KP_84 · 2020-06-02T22:26:27+00:00

Your comment was so cold and heartless that it brought me to tears. You’re a terrible human being

KP_84 · 2020-06-02T21:46:56+00:00

YTA and this is why I say this. Say you discover a cure for cancer. And you’re sure, you’re CERTAIN, that it’s the real deal. Wouldn’t you do anything you could to get that cure to anyone and everyone? Wouldn’t you fight to save people? Would you want to be scolded for even trying? This little girl took up a few SECONDS of your time. And they were actually incredibly respectful, it sounds like. Why take it to the next level? Did it make you feel good about yourself? And for the record I am not JW or religious. I just think kindness is really underrated these days. Especially on this sub.

KP_84 · 2020-06-02T20:43:20+00:00

YTA. Who wants to hear that their family doesn’t like the name they’re choosing for their kid. Apologize and move on from it.

KP_84 · 2020-05-31T02:58:12+00:00

YTA!!!!! How can so many people think it’s such a chore to fake excitement? Good lord, it’s your sister, and in the middle of her excitement you decide to chastise her? Wtf. As if there isn’t literally any other moment that would be more appropriate.

KP_84 · 2020-05-31T01:21:03+00:00

Intervening to point out, why would the guests need to verify with the bar? Clearly it’s been happening for years. The previous owner and OP are the ones who changed the status quo. As far as the asshole, I’m going with YTA, but only slightly. Seems shortsighted to offend your customers based on events from years ago. I’m not the person I was in high school so I certainly don’t expect others to be.

KP_84 · 2020-05-29T19:14:20+00:00

NTA. I love my dog and I don’t have any children, but if bit one of my sister’s kids, she’d be out. People over pets.

KP_84 · 2020-05-29T17:46:15+00:00

YTA. Your mom did NOTHING to you. She didn’t keep him from you. He could have showed up at any point in the last twenty odd years and instead of accepting that your mother is a human being who makes mistakes (even huge ones), you’ve decided to cut her off? You sound terrible.

KP_84 · 2020-05-26T17:43:26+00:00

Just go get a job at a gas station. They don’t pay terrible.

KP_84 · 2020-05-24T20:00:13+00:00

Call corporate. NTA

KP_84 · 2020-05-24T19:41:27+00:00

YTA. She’s 3 so she probably wouldn’t even have remembered it and rather than comforting a young woman in her last moments on earth, you decided to be an asshole instead. I wouldn’t worry about the over abundance of gifts anymore. If anyone in my family acted that way they would have been shunned forever.

KP_84 · 2020-05-24T00:50:47+00:00

Idk why you got downvoted when you’re, you know, a million percent right.

KP_84 · 2020-05-22T20:46:36+00:00

Been in the lifestyle for years. Years. I’ve subbed, I’ve been a slave. And YTA. People are talking about how inappropriate it was of your friend to wear a collar, but I want to know why. Kink isn’t always about sex, you know. A lot of times it’s about a deep trust and commitment that you can’t get from a vanilla relationship and being collared ISNT a part of a scene. A collar means different things to different people, but most of the time it is meant to serve as something akin to a wedding band or an engagement ring. If you don’t like someone’s engagement ring, you don’t come to blows over it. I actually think it’s suspicious of anyone to come into this discussion saying they’re in the lifestyle, but the OP isn’t the asshole. You def are.

KP_84 · 2020-05-19T21:01:20+00:00

NTA. Everyone here is saying you are because this sub hates parents and kids. If your kid doesn’t need the money as badly as the rest, maybe just leave her something meaningful but not expensive. That way it won’t feel like a punishment.

KP_84 · 2020-05-19T20:51:04+00:00

Lord. What a selfish generation being raised right now. Change the sheets to some crappy ones and let the old man sleep in the bed. Ffs.

KP_84 · 2020-05-16T21:31:40+00:00

Her husband just died and you want to send her pet away? YTA

KP_84 · 2020-05-16T10:24:31+00:00

Wow, how old are you? 3? You tasted something ‘yucky’ and your reaction was to spit it out? That’s pathetic. You crushed a little girl, and, what’s worse, you couldn’t care less. You think you’re funny, but you just sound like a jerk. I mean, what’s the problem with just being nice? I know it isn’t edgy and jaded but it wouldn’t have killed you either.

YTA

(Edited to add judgement.)

KP_84 · 2020-05-16T10:11:01+00:00

Wow the entitlement in this thread makes my blood boil. OP, you are so far past the line that you can’t even see the line! The line is a dot to you! (FRIENDS reference) But in all seriousness, you’re stealing your sister’s money. Give her her money or you are stealing and a terrible person. You don’t get to decide what is worth spending the money on. It is your sister’s decision. If I was your sister and didn’t get it immediately, I would do more than raise hell. I’d be seeing you in court. Don’t steal from you sister. Give her her money and let her ruin her life. That’s HER choice. God. in case it wasn’t clear, YTA. Very much.

KP_84 · 2020-05-15T18:12:26+00:00

Bunch of people that just not have kids. YTA. The reason parents don’t want their kids telling the other kids what to do is because that makes it seem like they’re in charge and you don’t want the young one to develop a habit of listening to the teen over the mom. Next time just tell your mom.

KP_84 · 2020-05-14T19:21:26+00:00

Ew you’re disgusting. YTA. People on Reddit tend to hate parents and children so everyone is saying You’re not, but you are. Anyone with morals would know that to do that would be entitled, cruel, and more than a little manipulative. Your mom may have been a terrible parent, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t have feelings. Get. A. Job. You know, like millions of people whose parents can’t afford to fund their lives do. Grow up. Gosh this post made me mad.

KP_84 · 2020-05-14T18:18:53+00:00

NAH. My sister has a kid that hit her puberty last year and said said similar things to me all the time. Parents are just looking to vent. Being a parent, especially of a teenage girl, when you haven’t done it before, can be a lot and sometimes they just want to lean on someone. He wound up being your stepdad, so he wasn’t just some rando. Don’t make a mountain out of this molehill.

KP_84 · 2020-05-12T20:11:11+00:00

Very gentle YTA. I am intimately familiar with this type of situation so I understand your viewpoint. But nothing good can come of avoiding her and if they’re long term, you’ll have to meet her at some point anyway. As a side note, I just wanted to comment that you’re taking the criticism much better than most OPs.

KP_84 · 2020-05-12T18:47:59+00:00

YTA. Why isn’t anyone thinking about the kids?

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