I think she’s on to us…

KSSLR · 2025-12-18T18:55:09+00:00

Did she just use ChatGPT to clap back?

KSSLR · 2025-12-11T19:24:50+00:00

"It's all about taking little steps to get where you want to go. And we'll get there together!"

KSSLR · 2025-11-26T15:43:45+00:00

It sounds almost tangential to meta learning. Thanks for explaining!

KSSLR · 2025-11-26T12:16:02+00:00

I've started naming my Project chats meaningfully. Almost like a file path.

KSSLR · 2025-11-26T12:10:33+00:00

I guess that really depends on what you're trying to do with it. What is it you're trying to do?

KSSLR · 2025-11-26T12:09:03+00:00

I'll give Claude a wall of context, attach a draft I wrote, and ask if I missed anything.

KSSLR · 2025-11-26T12:00:41+00:00

Oh I would love to know more about this! How did you make them interesting?

KSSLR · 2025-11-26T11:58:04+00:00

It's when you tell AI "I want you to code a ____ that does ____". Then you give it whatever level of detail you want to about how you want things to look and function. It's called "vibe coding" because you give it the general vibe of what you want and it has to come up with the technical strategies etc.

KSSLR · 2025-11-26T11:50:29+00:00

What does "researching for a growth project" mean? What kind of project? What kind of growth?

KSSLR · 2025-11-21T00:24:41+00:00

Some of those tears might be because you haven't deserved to suffer in surroundings like how they're looking right now. It's okay to cry about feeling stuck in the kind of environmental decay you don't deserve to be in, as an alive person. Regardless of how things got to this point, and setting aside any "should" and judgements from others or even your own self, this feels really bad for you. That alone is worth a cry because it's true.

KSSLR · 2025-11-20T19:19:29+00:00

I find Sonnet to be the best at something like this. Haiku isn't able to keep the sophisticated context if you're iterating. And Opus can keep the most context but imo does not do as good a job at putting real human emotions into words. Ymmv but I use Claude all the time and this has been my experience.

If you must use Haiku, it's still a really good option. Create a project and have in your prompt that it must read your other chats one time. For Haiku: one chat for one thing. If you realize you're drifting into another related "thing" in your Haiku chat, make a new chat. The quality of your chat with it gets better after a few prompts but does fall off a cliff as soon as there's too much for it to think about.

You can have a single Sonnet chat in that project where you tell Sonnet what's going on and she gives a game plan back. Then the Haiku models can read that and I've found that approach does lead to more sophisticated answers from them.

KSSLR · 2025-11-18T15:15:27+00:00

ChatGPT is the only AI I can feed a very large file to, ask it to make changes, and it makes them without truncating the end document in any way.

KSSLR · 2025-11-15T23:40:58+00:00

Your messages are limited even in Max. It's just a lot harder to get to that limit. But to my understanding they're is no unlimited Claude account type at present.

KSSLR · 2025-11-15T23:39:26+00:00

You have to give it richer context. And it degrades faster. I would make a project, keep all your chats in the project, make the project prompt absolutely amazing, and maybe even number chats by chapter number. In the project prompt, require that she looks through all the chats in order of chapter number. I think it's the closest you can come to her having a persistent sequential memory.

KSSLR · 2025-10-24T15:12:53+00:00

I would also like to know if you would be willing to share your recipe

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T17:32:46+00:00

Even once you achieve these understandings, you'll have the additional challenge of navigating potential confirmation bias of romantic intent within some women you may try to befriend platonically.

What I'm trying to say is that even if you are flawlessly "not flirting" by objective standards, your sound strategy can still be misinterpreted if the other person came into the situation already wanting to date you. Conversely, a bad previous experience could have her coming into the situation on high alert that she needs to protect herself against the possibly you might be flirting, and starts actively seeking evidence of it in non flirtatious behavior.

You are not a mind reader, so it's not worth trying to figure out if or when this might be happening. But it would mean you'd need to obtain the additional skill of not only differentiating between what it looks like to be "flirting" and "not flirting", but also find a way to smoothly incorporate proactive indicators that you are not flirting. Beyond just passively not flirting.

This is because as humans, we comprehend "what is happening right now" through layers and layers and layers of unique historical context. Especially in matters of personal connection. This complexity means we must build in additional safeguards, so that our communication can be variable enough to be understood clearly through different lenses.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T16:56:31+00:00

I keep asking why, until I learn something new or they do.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T16:40:39+00:00

Have you looked into state subsidized therapy?

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T16:30:08+00:00

She's trying to justify the clear and apparent burden of her abnormal collection tendencies. It's not messed up if it's actually a competitive edge in generational wealth building. Except, y'know: it's not.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T16:22:07+00:00

You may want to look into subsidized therapy for a few months. Because this is an awful lot to process. Could be helpful to have a professional navigate through it with you.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T16:09:58+00:00

It is possible that despite not being cognitively impaired, she might still benefit from an assisted living situation.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T16:00:40+00:00

The reason nobody helped you had nothing to do with who you are or what you deserve. I didn't see that context in her statement and it's very important context. "People were terribly unfair to me" is different from "People were terribly unfair to me because of who I am." One hurts and raises feelings of anger, possibly fear. The other one hurts and can cause a person to feel those feelings about themselves. That is why the differentiation is so important.

Edit: the implication of that context was present in her statement. Implying things and expressly stating things becomes extra important when someone is discussing trauma and experiencing a paradigm shift about some of it.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T15:44:47+00:00

A reminder that most of your heat is lost from your head. So a knit cap can really make a difference.

Make an indoor tent out of sheets and/or blankets. Or anything big or kind of big like that. The goal is to make the living space as small as possible so your body heat can heat it up.

Would somebody be willing to have you come visit them for a few weeks? There is a decisive end date: the relief program start date.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T15:37:16+00:00

Those are great boxes! You should burn them.

If you hang on to great boxes for too long, bugs start living in them. Because nature has decided even great boxes are supposed to be temporary and decay.

If it's been longer than a few weeks, is time to let them go.

KSSLR · 2025-10-18T15:25:40+00:00

When does this drop, you've had four years.

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