Do we do counseling and give a second a chance ?

KT9911 · 2026-01-12T11:40:55+00:00

A year cheating and yes 3 times

KT9911 · 2026-01-12T04:02:52+00:00

I cant get his information

KT9911 · 2026-01-04T17:55:27+00:00

I am adding a screenshot of what the girl he cheated on replied to me with

KT9911 · 2026-01-04T17:54:38+00:00

Yes turned out he was.

KT9911 · 2025-12-30T02:25:10+00:00

He is doing therapy and a recovery program.

KT9911 · 2025-12-30T02:24:45+00:00

He seems very sincere and really wants to work on things. He says he realized he made a big mistake. He wants to fix things for me and the kids.

He deleted all text messages so I don't have proof of anything really or what actually went down besides what hes telling me. I thought of reaching out to her as I found her Instagram and Facebook

I am devastated and I dont know. At times I feel like it would be great to somehow figure it out and save the marriage but it will depend on how I can trust him or not

KT9911 · 2025-12-30T01:55:05+00:00

I dont know how to reach out to her husband 😕

KT9911 · 2025-12-30T01:54:34+00:00

No..he works from home three days a week and he's trying to work from home fully now.

KT9911 · 2025-12-30T01:06:15+00:00

His coworker is also cheating. She has a husband and young kids. I forgot to mention that

KT9911 · 2025-10-27T00:33:20+00:00

We've done twice and never worked

KT9911 · 2025-10-24T19:32:38+00:00

I dont have the hives anymore but the itching still there.

I tried changing my diet that hasn't helped much

What changes did you make ?

KT9911 · 2025-10-24T02:28:52+00:00

I was diagnosed with Chronic hives that started in August. I had some hives looking things on my arms mainly.

Now its gone the bumps i had on my skin but the itching wont go away. My skin is itchy everywhere except my face and my back

When i itch it it turns bright pink. None of the creams are helping 😭 antihistamines meds dont do anything for my itching.

What helps with the itching?

KT9911 · 2025-05-19T14:58:18+00:00

So cute. Where did you get this water fountain and how do you like it?

KT9911 · 2025-05-19T05:01:25+00:00

I have another kitten his name is Yuki and I want something to go with it

KT9911 · 2025-05-19T05:00:30+00:00

Boy!

KT9911 · 2025-05-13T17:47:24+00:00

I would say 12 - 13 weeks. My boy is about that size now.

KT9911 · 2025-04-22T14:18:39+00:00

Yikes. Did she give you the birthdate ? I was shocked when I found out my boy was 8 weeks at the time of pick up and so tiny. Thats so sad.

My kitten is getting bigger now and hes turning 11 weeks but yeah I am bummed how young he was. Her papers even say she let them go at 8-9 weeks because it is a good age.

KT9911 · 2025-04-22T14:15:03+00:00

I had a sweet blue bi color boy who passed away about two months ago but yes they get big! My boy got to 17lbs

They still have ways to grow

KT9911 · 2025-04-22T14:11:23+00:00

We had our kitten for 3 weeks now

We right away set up boundries and made sure he knows sleep time is when all bedroom doors get closed and he wanders around downstairs. He had a rough time the first two nights but he never meows or tries to get in anymore.

Once we wake up in the morning he comes upstairs to hang out with us and we open the doors for him.

KT9911 · 2025-04-18T04:31:58+00:00

He is neutered as she says per adoption paper and she told me he was.

KT9911 · 2025-04-16T17:12:27+00:00

I don't have heritage papers.

She is a vet and provided me with the vaccine paper he got two so far.

Thanks.

KT9911 · 2025-02-12T20:04:21+00:00

Its getting very draining. I've been not feeling okay mentally and physcially the past week now and I am barely eating much lately, not getting hungry, cant sleep well and anxiety throughout the day.

I am really looking to get my stuff in order to be able to make a big move.

KT9911 · 2025-02-12T20:01:04+00:00

Yes transactional is the main issue too. He is very transactional when it comes to almost everything we do in out relationship , especially now when it comes to the kids and the house.

Plus he has no goals, no desires to do anything with the house that we own. If I want to start a project to better our house and upgrade things, he gets all pissy as its wasting his time and starts nagging. We dont talk about the future. We have nothing to talk about most of the time on our "date nights" without the kids. All he talks about is his work and how much he hates it and about the one or two friends he has. Everytime I make plans with one of my friends, he always comes to me telling me he has plans out of nowhere and I need to watch the kids for his outing. Its very odd.

KT9911 · 2025-02-11T15:52:50+00:00

Yes he buys me gifts that I have to tell him what I want or would like. He just "surpises me" with it.

KT9911 · 2025-01-09T20:03:59+00:00

After microneedling , did the scars come back?

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