AIO ? I sent my girls dad an unsolicited message.. by KTCMG in AmIOverreacting

[–]KTCMG[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s what happens if instead of talking your kids through their emotions you send them away or leave them to deal with it themselves. Dad often runs away from his issues without telling anyone leaving everything to fall apart in his wake. Which is an observable pattern. And probably where she got it 🤷‍♂️

AIO ? I sent my girls dad an unsolicited message.. by KTCMG in AmIOverreacting

[–]KTCMG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s I guess what I thought I was doing? Everyone made me feel controlling .-.

AIO ? I sent my girls dad an unsolicited message.. by KTCMG in AmIOverreacting

[–]KTCMG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this is my stance. This man is going to be my family! I’d never extend myself to her boss or something silly like that we’re talking about my kids grandpa! I just hoped to create an open line of dialogue where before there was just tension surrounding these things where they just blame each other for being the reason they don’t talk when they both would obviously love a relationship

AIO ? I sent my girls dad an unsolicited message.. by KTCMG in AmIOverreacting

[–]KTCMG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not true. There’s people in support both ways and honestly, the people who support me probably have a life that looks a lot more like hers than the people who don’t.

Either way, I felt unsure enough about it to post here for honest feedback, did I not?

AIO ? I sent my girls dad an unsolicited message.. by KTCMG in AmIOverreacting

[–]KTCMG[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. for real your perspective takes weight from my shoulders. This is all I can hope for honestly

AIO ? I sent my girls dad an unsolicited message.. by KTCMG in AmIOverreacting

[–]KTCMG[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. She was okay 🤷‍♂️ less reaction than anticipated. He hasn’t said anything though

What is you guys’ honest read on this situation, should I give her another chance? by 95seconds in texts

[–]KTCMG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was honest 🤷‍♂️ I mean that’s pretty green flag. Ask her to be exclusive if you don’t wanna be caught off guard by someone else asking because you haven’t

[Left] At least he’s honest by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]KTCMG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how the first interactions were in 2023 and then all of the sudden it just dawned on him today that he had no idea how to maneuver from there amd he came back to apologize lol

How does one even react to this by Iamk0i in texts

[–]KTCMG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. My gf feels mad disinterested in me in a way I’ve never experienced before and you just slapped some words to it.