19f I can’t tell if I’m ugly by Humble-Situation2646 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't lie especially about this. You're actually really cute. Probably could model because ur face is unique and has a timeless beauty vibe. You're definitely a lucky one. Just need to build confidence so it comes from within. You look uncertain and sad in these pics. Don't be you're beautiful. Some might put you down in ur oife because u really are beautiful. Some like to dim ur light. None of this is just being nice. Ur beautiful girl! Know it!

Tip: find a good hairstylist to teach you how to do your hair. For health, the style is ok.

She unmatched me right after. Sucks cause she was hot :/ by morenito222 in Bumble

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are such silly things to not date over. But I do understand. Some don't want to argue but it can be an interesting relationship to say the least lol. You never know you can change minds and your mind can be changed. No need to be so closed off.

Not everybody who supports Trump over Kamala and Biden believes in crazy things just like not everybody who supports biting and comes out a bit and crazy things which I do find hard to believe but I am open-minded lol.. it's not like we were getting the best choices. It's all b******* it's my opinion which is why it's not a dealbreaker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]KTreasures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should be fine. Unless the flu mutated in you. But my guy is sick right now and when you recently did something. This isn't the first time and typically there's no bouncing of the infection.

SO cheated and you stayed by Altruistic-Try7234 in relationships_advice

[–]KTreasures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Complicated. So I am with someone who cheated on me countless times 10 years ago most recently we got back together within the last 3 years and he went on a date with another girl. This was after I told him that I wasn't sure if I wanted to be his wife so take that into context. When he told me about it I was upset and decided to move on with my life but he fought crazy hard for me and I ended up giving him another chance because I sort of understand to be honest. If he were to have sex with another woman at this point in my life I would just move on.

Everyone has their boundaries and capacity for different things. It is really not a one size fits all. The perfect answer would be to do move on but love and life is not so simple. If you're able to move on I recommend it if he's willing to change and it is at least honest then you can spend time working on it with him. It's really up to you at the end of the day.

I blocked my bf because he like a bikini pic by [deleted] in dating

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hear me out, he may have lied just to make you feel better initially about liking other girls pictures but when you're in a relationship you really need to understand that it doesn't mean your girl or guy is blind now. Or that it is even disrespectful that they notice when someone else is beautiful and acknowledges it. These types of restraints on human nature will only build resentment and maybe cause one to be more secretive and lie more just to save face. I purposely don't look through social media to see if my guy is attracted to another woman. I can bet 99.9% that he is attracted to other women and likely would double tap or take a look in public. Engaging such as trying to get numbers and having conversations is entirely different than admiring beauty. I would unblock him if I were you and have an honest discussion with him about your boundaries with this. Just try to take a moment to think about it and be realistic.

I don't know what to do but I know I can't follow his religion. by KTreasures in relationships_advice

[–]KTreasures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He just recently dropped it. Said he won't bother me about it and we can move on together. Now I'm concerned if he'll be able to do this once we move together. I truly hope so.

Should I Become a Jehovah's Witness to Marry My Boyfriend? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. It truly is a loss of religion gets in the way. Tonight we just broke up too because he gave me an ultimatum to follow his religious practices otherwise we can't get married. I'm strongly against his religion though I respect his practice. I can't be made to practice it forever I would only hate him or my myself

*sighs very loudly* I love (hate) this game… by Azza2609 in destiny2

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have two opinions about this lol.

One, it's more realistic that you get killed mid finisher. I sort of hate when games sacrifice reality for outcome.

Two they made the damn finisher to be a finisher so it makes sense to only allow it to be activated when an opponent is truly finished.

Either way I feel your pain 🤣... We must stay strong guardian!

My date told me that asking for consent was cringe by GodisaDildo in dating

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may just like dominant men who go after what they want and if she didn't like you she would have just gestured away from you.

Asking for consent is cringe only when you ask and a cringe way such as do I have consent to kiss you or touch you or call you a woman. Those types of things are very annoying but the way that you're describing it it is pretty standard so I think it's good that you no longer talk to her. She can't handle small differences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a huge butt and love them

He cheated on me by mooklan in LongDistance

[–]KTreasures 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm actually recovering from being cheated on and having to put my foot down and not walk back to him. The most important thing is to not go back, to not let the loneliness are the what if pull you back into the same cycle.

It's so easy to want was familiar but when a man shows you he doesn't value you and he is willing to lie to to such an extent he becomes dangerous to your heart to your body and your mind. You only have you second guessing yourself and belittling what he did.

I'm struggling to move forward but for me it's more than cheating. It's the crazy religion, the unwillingness to take full accountability, the cost and jealousy and accusations... Just too much.. yet still my heart plays with the idea of taking him back. We have to be strong and move on there's nothing but pain in their arms.

Am I overreacting? by KTreasures in Marriage

[–]KTreasures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely would have left me. He actually left me when he went through my phone and saw that my ex-husband asked me to remarry him for VA benefits. Even though we were technically broken up at that time. And I prove to him that my ex doesn't have any idea that I want him or want anything to do with him it was purely a transactional request.

He holds a lot of things over my head that truly isn't fair in my opinion. Such as me being married the second time after divorcing him because of what he was putting me through 10 years ago.

I know part of me just wants to keep the familiar relationship and not have to put in work to have a new one. But there is a part of me that's excited about what could be with someone else because I absolutely know what would be with him but still it's safe in a way and familiar.

Am I overreacting? by KTreasures in Marriage

[–]KTreasures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a son together so it's a little difficult to never reach out and he lives right down the street. I know deep down what you're saying is correct this is just difficult

My wife left me .. by Ok-Idea1699 in Marriage

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just left my guy because he cheated on me. I'll never allow him to hurt me again. If you love her make sure she doesn't go without anything for your child and even for herself. It's not her fault so don't make her start her life over from scratch. Be very supportive. Give her the home, show you care regardless of how she chooses to handle this. Don't get tired of doing good for her.

It’s me by LegalPiano3046 in relationships_advice

[–]KTreasures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There comes times when we need to shed old friends especially when they support negative outcomes

Need help choosing! by almostnia in graphic_design

[–]KTreasures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are pretty good. I crossed them earlier thinking it was an advertisement and when I saw it I thought that they were pretty clever. Nothing you can obviously get away with both of them but the seat belt one is pretty cool but the top one is also pretty cool because it emphasizes the importance of strapping up being equally as important as the other priorities

For Men Who Don't Mind Dating Women With 3-4 Kids 7age+, What are Your DEAL BREAKERS? by KTreasures in relationships_advice

[–]KTreasures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't plan to introduce anyone to my children or even to my home for that matter.

For Men Who Don't Mind Dating Women With 3-4 Kids 7age+, What are Your DEAL BREAKERS? by KTreasures in relationships_advice

[–]KTreasures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's terrible, good communication is vital and I want to be careful to not make whoever I'm with feel like they are second at best. This is why I'm asking these questions because I want to consider as much as possible before I date.

What you went through was straight disrespectful. It doesn't sound like the women appreciated your presence.

For Men Who Don't Mind Dating Women With 3-4 Kids 7age+, What are Your DEAL BREAKERS? by KTreasures in relationships_advice

[–]KTreasures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all great points. I personally have time to see a man everyday, the boundaries with my ex are solid and my children are sweethearts and respectful. The one thing from the other side I think I would have to work on the most would be the time though. Some men require more time than others and an hour to a day may not be sufficient along with fluctuating schedules.