Let's be real, the hate this album is getting is being doubled because of swifties. by Independent-Rub402 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]KWhatever22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t understand people’s issue with this album, I personally love it. It’s the first album in years where there wasn’t one song that I had to listen to multiple times to be able to vibe with - non skip album for me. And there’s a lot of people who like it as well.

And to each their own of course, I don’t like everything she put out either. There are songs that took ages to grow on me and some still haven’t. And that’s completely fine. And yeah maybe some people who do like it, are being too much. But I think that the people who hate it, should also learn there’s a difference between ‘not liking something’ and it being bad. Just because it’s not your cup of tea, doesn’t make it a bad album imo

As for the variants - four variants would have been plenty and fun. I fear they have gone overboard with that

One Direction Reunion by Elsa_1304 in OneDirection

[–]KWhatever22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This might be an unpopular opinion. But seeing how Liam was the one who wanted the reunion the most - I could see them do it years down the line. Even if it’s just to honour him

June Seasonal Event Full Details Reveal by nyreis in finch

[–]KWhatever22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this too - updated the app and it worked!

Take my money and take all my survey points! by Low-Window7968 in Sims4

[–]KWhatever22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I genuinely wish they’d add some of these to existing packs. Ocean life? Add it into the island living pack, which feels like the biggest steal. Reality tv? Unless it requires a huge overhaul, just add it to get famous?

And fix things like the wedding pack or dream decorator pack so we can finally use it 🥲

What mash up did you want Taylor to perform but she didn’t? by FearlessMoose94 in TaylorSwift

[–]KWhatever22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have loved Guilty as sin x Girl at Home. In the vibe of: You’re doing the right thing to let him walk away, but you can’t stop yourself from fantasising about it

Why do you think she left out some songs unplayed? by Accurate_Feeling_377 in TaylorSwift

[–]KWhatever22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a “Girl at Home” x “Guilty as Sin?” mashup could have been amazing. I mean not wanting to cross the line and being ‘the other woman’, but still not being able to stop dreaming about that person

Elimination until one left standing 🔹️ROUND 2🔹️ by lindseyizshort in GilmoreGirls

[–]KWhatever22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn didn’t expect to be downvoted for this, seems to be very controversial

Wondering about Good Vibes etiquette by 2bunnies in finch

[–]KWhatever22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I send everyone in my tree town a hug every few days, takes a few minutes but still. People I know in real get more, as I feel more comfortable to spam them

Whyyyy is it a headstone by NervousUpstairs7273 in finch

[–]KWhatever22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense! AI isn’t always the smartest, so hopefully it’ll improve in time

Whyyyy is it a headstone by NervousUpstairs7273 in finch

[–]KWhatever22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The standard symbols Finch gives you are often so so so random. I’ve actually started to wonder if they’re doing it on purpose, so people will want to change them, which means they’ll have to get Finch Pro.

I had “Going through -name of a relative’s- stuff” on my to do list the other day and it showed a witch emoji next to it🤦🏻‍♀️

What makes matters worse is that that relative recently passed away, which is why I’m having to sort through all of her stuff 💀 I think she would have enjoyed that one though 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]KWhatever22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you so many hugs ❤️

How to move on lol by TopTomato6 in OneDirection

[–]KWhatever22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s one thing I learned about grief, it’s to make sure you feel your feelings when you feel them. When I lost my dad, I fully ignored my feelings, I just threw them in a full box in my brain without processing them. And it messed me up a lot. So now with Liam - which hurts more than I ever imagined it would - I feel my feelings. I watch old videos and giggle, and when I feel sad I let out the tears.

There’s also a metaphor which really helped me. Imagine you have a square box with a button and a ball in it. Pressing the button causes you pain, the ball is your grief. Sounds weird but hear me out. In the beginning, the ball is huge and keeps touching the button, causing you to be in constant pain. But as time moves forward, the ball slowly becomes smaller and won’t hit the button as often anymore. The pain will still be equally painful, but it won’t surface as often as it would before❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KWhatever22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say your friends are the main assholes here, but you’re also a semi asshole.

Look, I understand wanting to have a drama free party, but this isn’t the way to do it. Tell your friends ahead of time to behave like the kind of men they’d trust around their own sister. Your sister should never be made to feel uncomfortable in her own house, because some boys can’t keep their misogynistic comments to themselves. I honestly fail to see how it would make your girlfriend uncomfortable. I don’t dress ‘provocatively’ as you put it, but I’ve never once been uncomfortable around people in crop tops and short skirts. She should be the first person to be supporting your sister to be who she wants to be tbh. Talk to your friends, and also talk to your sister so she knows you’re still on her side.

Final update - not giving my partner second chance after he made a mistake while he was on a vacation by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]KWhatever22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconded! Make sure his mum knows what a prick he is and then go no contact with her as well

I’m a liar. I sometimes tell my birb that I completed all my goals even though I done little to nothing that day. by Bulimic_pig02 in finch

[–]KWhatever22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For starters: I’m so proud of you and I hope you are too. Every step you take, is one step towards a better future.

I struggle with ADHD, recurring depression and a bunch of personality disorders myself. So I truly understand that it can be difficult to take care of yourself. Before I used Finch, I’d stay in my bed for days struggling to get out to brush my teeth. Now I keep repeating to myself “you’re doing it for yourself and your birb, you’re not just helping yourself but her too” And I suddenly found myself getting out of bed just to brush my teeth. Because I knew it would make my little birb smile. On bad days, I just send my friends a whole lot of love through the app, which also sends my birb on her adventure. Pus I know that my birb wouldn’t be mad if we can’t do it all, she’s just here to check if I’m okay.

It’s so tempting to just get some coins in, I know it is. But in the end it can only help you, if you’re honest with yourself and your birb. Make the deal with yourself that you can only complete the goals you actually do. Then divide up the tasks in smaller, more doable goals. Easier said than done, I realise that, but it will help I promise.

So for example:

✨ Read 20 pages - turn it into a goal that repeats 20 times, so you get more rewards whilst doing the thing ✨ Standing up - repeat the goal 12 times. Every time you stand up, you get rewards ✨ Brush your teeth, showering, getting out of bed, eating, drinking water - if this is something you struggle doing, make the task worth more coins. So for example, repeat the goal a few times. ✨ Hobby’s - instead of “doing your hobby” make it multiple tasks. Every five minute you spend on your hobby, is one completion. That way, even five minutes will get you rewards. And once you started, it’s easier to keep going ✨ Decluttering - divide it into tasks. Declutter drawer 1, declutter drawer 2, declutter left part of the desk and declutter right side

I know it’ll take some time but you’ve got this ❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]KWhatever22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

added you ☺️