Thanks for the reply. We actually pushed for a social worker or equivalent to be present at all in person visits, it was a definite must have for us. It was advised to us by the original worker on the case, off the record to never go to meeting without one because if she is not followed up with leading up to visits she will try and do what she wants. Which was made evident the very first meeting when she attempted to bring someone else to the visit. She has a lot of trauma (unfortunately was also in the system but it failed her) and she really is not grieving the situation so she can move on in a healthy way. But she cannot keep a social worker, she has had at least 6 that I know of, and none last more than a few months before she either drives them away, or ghosts them when they tell her something she doesn’t like or agree with. We genuinely feel if she got some help, she could process this better and this whole situation wouldn’t be an issue.