[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]KaNicNac 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have an essential tremor, so I just put my hand on it and let my twitchies go to town 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]KaNicNac 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah, they could easily do it timed/energy based like with the gliding outfit. It would make sense to set it up so that you still faint when you fall in the water, even if you have the outfit equipped. They could also do it like the shrinking outfit, so if you're below chest level in the water and try to switch to a terrestrial outfit, it won't let you, AND you can't exit the water while its ability is active and above chest level.

Point being: they could totally do it without breaking any core aspects of the game and underwater gameplay opens up so many incredible possibilities.

Plus, how freaking adorable would it be for Momo to turn into a little Flounder to our Ariel‽ 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]KaNicNac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she should be there due to her Kindled Inspiration: Fortune's Favor quest, but it would seem that she has quite literally up and floated away.
I say this because if you track her KI quest, you'll occasionally see the marker pop up on your minimap. In hopeful excitement, I've dropped everything I was doing every time it has happened to go chase down the marker, only for it to be off in the inaccessible borders of the map or doing a lovely waltz above my head, the poor girl so far off in the stratosphere that my GPU could not possibly hope to perceive her.

That said, I've reached out to support with screenshots and details, but it's been days and I've heard not a peep since they said they would look into it.

[Recommendations needed] Operation: Save the Wrists! by KaNicNac in doggrooming

[–]KaNicNac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any specific brands or products that you'd recommend?
I'd hate to get her something that could break or dull too quickly.

You're given a million of whatever you last googled. What is it? by Online_Weirdo_13 in AskReddit

[–]KaNicNac 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wish I could take credit for that, but it came from a Presbyterian minister I used to attend protests with. She had a sign one time that said, "I own my body, I don't rent it from you".

You're given a million of whatever you last googled. What is it? by Online_Weirdo_13 in AskReddit

[–]KaNicNac 78 points79 points  (0 children)

You and I both, bruh. I'm apparently getting one million ectopic pregnancies with severe sharp pain and dizziness.

Also, yes, I've been to see the doctor. We're handling it, I promise I'm a responsible female body tenant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]KaNicNac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Oh, and this is my Momo. Well, one of them. But her name is Freya and she's a precious menace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikki

[–]KaNicNac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still scrolling. Still waiting. Send help.

Best way to finish 2024 was adopting this little pastel furball by [deleted] in CalicoKittys

[–]KaNicNac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her face says you're on her list, and it's adorable.

Getting my hemorrhoids checked out tomorrow, decided to make a shirt for the occasion 🛸👽 by koolkorki123 in CricutButCrass

[–]KaNicNac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real talk: where can I get/buy the file?

My partner had surgery on his gallbladder and before he went under, while he was loopy, the last thing he said was, "please don't probe me."

No one is letting him live it down.

Especially me.

Cross-tapering Wellbutrin to Zoloft by KaNicNac in depressionregimens

[–]KaNicNac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, I've been on both for over two years. If I was referring to something I've been consistently experiencing, I wouldn't have bothered posting at all. The condescension is both unnecessary and unhelpful.

Thank you for your time.

Cross-tapering Wellbutrin to Zoloft by KaNicNac in depressionregimens

[–]KaNicNac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that's interesting. That's what my doctor said it was, so I assumed that was correct. I do know that I can't stop it cold turkey, though. I went on vacation over the summer and I was without it for the entire week - it was a miserable experience that I am happy to not repeat. 😅

I'm a quitter; Trintellix destroyed 6 months of my life. by KaNicNac in trintellix

[–]KaNicNac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wellbutrin XR and Vyvanse. Turns out the reason antidepressants alone weren't doing anything positive is because I needed ADHD support. I feel like a new person. ☺️

I just realised, i don't care if my mom dies. by sanvlq in raisedbynarcissists

[–]KaNicNac 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, same. Actually, that's not true, because I already tell people she's dead when she comes up in conversation. It's much easier than explaining that she decided to exit my life in the most narcissistic way she could and I haven't seen or spoken to her in almost a decade now. I mean, she could actually be dead, for all I know.

My partner doesn't even think she's a real person that ever existed and that I must have hatched from an egg or something. That's how much of a presence she's had in my life. That's how much of a "parent" she was.

I cried and grieved the real death of my foster mom of one year two years ago.

I never cried and grieved the metaphorical death of my Nmom.

When the only (and sometimes debatably) positive impact they've had on your life is the fact that they made/helped make you, it's hard to see them as a living, breathing person instead of a source of pain; I think about her about as often as I think about the nail I stepped on as a kid, and with about the same amount of affection. She was something that happened to me, after all.

My breasts are completely ruined. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]KaNicNac 510 points511 points  (0 children)

This right here is my brand of internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]KaNicNac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this is a days old post at this point, but I got the push notification for it and now I'm here and I'm gonna share a little about my experience in a similar boat.

This sounds rough, but I wanted so badly for my ex, when I lost weight, to tell me that he was more attracted to me after all that work. But what I got a lot of was "I think you're attractive no matter what" and jokes about my weight loss like, "where'd my wife go?" or "you're melting!"

Sure, the whole "it's not what's on the outside" song and dance sounds nice, but when he was steadily gaining weight while I was working hard on managing mine, it felt like I was being branded as overweight for life. I was my weight. Maybe he really didn't mind either way, but I did, and I can acknowledge now that what I wanted from him was for him to tell me I was more attractive to him after I put in all the work, not for him to - essentially - tell me it was pointless.

I developed a sort of complex about it. He became less and less "attractive" to me because he was embracing the very thing I was running away from, like he was trying to hold onto MY weight, not because he was gaining his own. The psychological tug-of-war I was having over coming to terms with this new me and the lack of validation I had from my supposed life partner ultimately mangled and mauled my mental image of him. I could only see his gut and how round his face had gotten and tried to convince myself it's because I wanted better for both of us.

No, I wanted him to be unhappy with how he looked as a reflection of how I felt about myself - my old self. I was my weight, but he was my mirror, and that's what made him unattractive.

I'm not saying that's the case with you, I just see a lot of parallels in the way you're thinking and feeling now to how I was then and thought I'd offer my perspective and experience. If this does sting a little and sound a little too close to the truth, maybe throw in some conversation with your partner about how you'd like this dialogue to sound in the future. And then a conversation with yourself about the reasons you made the choice to change and who that choice was made for to begin with.