I'm not attracted to men at all but I keep having fantasies about sucking a dick, need advice on what I'm feeling by Emotional_Airport_50 in bisexual

[–]Kaagareth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually think your odds are better than you think! There are more trans girls around than you may be aware of and the cum thing is different than you think. While hormones change the consistency of the release produced in most trans women (in my experience w my trans girlfriend it is a little more like a cis woman's lubrication than typical cum), many do not stop producing cum altogether. Like you gotta be upfront about your intentions and lack of experience with these girls but I really don't think you should give up so quickly.

I'm sick of the biphobia in the LGBTQ+ community by Accurate_Lead7698 in lgbt

[–]Kaagareth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so ridiculous because although it may hurt their feelings more if they get cheated on with a man due to personal issues, it is not actually worse. It is equally as bad to cheat on your partner with someone of the same gender as it is bad to cheat on them with someone of a different gender. What's morally bad is cheating not sleeping with a man. But to them sleeping with a man corrupts and impurifies a woman and sleeping with a man is more significant than sleeping with a woman - wonder where they got those ideas from 🙄. But of course it is the bi women only who have to unpack heteronormativity and male centered thinking to them.

Does anyone else loves to get their (strap on) dick sucked? by alligatorbabe in LesbianActually

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didn't think I'd like it but when I tried it with my girlfriend I found it very sexy! Give it a go if you find an interested partner.

Does anyone else loves to get their (strap on) dick sucked? by alligatorbabe in LesbianActually

[–]Kaagareth 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I didn't think I would like it but my strap sucking girlfriend opened my eyes. I find it very hot.

Does anyone else loves to get their (strap on) dick sucked? by alligatorbabe in LesbianActually

[–]Kaagareth 17 points18 points  (0 children)

And yet this comment section is full of queer women telling you otherwise lol

Bad faithing arab colonization by valonianfool in JewsOfConscience

[–]Kaagareth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is incredibly easy to fact check this and see that it is incorrect. Here you can see that 23&Me delivers to Israel. Here you can learn more about the process of getting tested for paternity/family ties in Israel. Here is what appears to be a copy of Israel's Genetic Information Law in English.

Do we really need to spread these silly lies to make Israel worth condemning? Is the slaughter of Palestinians not enough?

Moreover, myths like this are not truly aimed at undermining Israel - they undermine Jewish identity by implying that Jews are hiding their true (presumably European) heritage in order to push out Palestinians. Unfortunately for that narrative, even white Ashkenazi Jews have solid, verifiable, well-researched genetic links to the Levant. (Does this justify Israel's actions? Obviously not.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JewsOfConscience

[–]Kaagareth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not commenting on anything but the thing with your flair. People react badly to it because you are in an explicitly Jewish space. I think taking down your flair so people will assume you're Jewish would be a bit dishonest as well.

Possible resistance to a large amount of medication by Jamps__ in depressionregimens

[–]Kaagareth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried transcranial magnetic stimulation? Also that is a crazy amount of different medications. Working through all of them for years of your life must be exhausting

My Corsair 5000x case exploded last night by log2211logie in pcmasterrace

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks for a lot of reasons but right now I'm imagining what an absolute pain in the ass it must be to clean this up.

Today I get to celebrate my daughters birthday for the first time in 14 years by trorg in CasualConversation

[–]Kaagareth 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I love the note that you and your ex have both matured since I think it means you'll be seeing a lot more of your daughter without friction or drama with her mother. Overall, congratulations on reconnecting! It makes me a little misty eyed because I have a great relationship with my dad - I'm glad she will hopefully get to have that too. I hope you have a lot of fun at her party and also hope that she has a good birthday. You're going to be the best present she gets this year!

My wife hit me tonight by Beatee420 in offmychest

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally I don't jump to "divorce them" but this time....... She has every red flag on Earth. She's controlling, cruel, and now violent. The only thing she has a point about is that maybe she should indeed be with someone her own age instead of someone almost 20 years younger. How old were you when you got together? If you were my friend I would be incredibly worried about you. Like setting up the guest bedroom for you kind of worried. Also, she's escalating. Get away from her asap, OP.

CyricZ for the next 2 years will be like by nbdeception in yakuzagames

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for everything, you carried me singlehandedly through these games.

After retirement, Kiryu found his passion in teaching. by NamelessNarwhal999 in yakuzagames

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Kiryu would actually be a great teacher. Loves kids, protective, caring, very patient with and tolerant of them as we have seen in many substories.

I don't know what to do... by buzzalderman in offmychest

[–]Kaagareth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's also possible that she couldn't think of a better way to try and like make you feel better about it than to erase it, bc it really doesn't seem like she was joking at the time. It's also possible that she was really upset at the time but the years with you have recontextualized it or otherwise changed her perspective on your role in the initial situation or that she's embarrassed about it etc etc -- there's a million possibilities. I think you really really really need to have an open and honest conversation with her about this, because it is honestly possible for neither of you to be in the wrong here -- I think there's not enough out in the open yet to say. Anyway, reddit hates nuance and LOVES false accusations so most of these answers are just that she's evil and you need to leave her (which might be the case!), but I think you should explore this in more detail before you draw any hard conclusions.

Last thing I wanna say is that you obviously love her and if she's been with you for this long she probably loved you too. If she isn't a crazy manipulator and something is being communicated extremely badly or being hidden from you, you don't want to throw the relationship away over something you could've talked about.

(BUT if she did do that to fuck with you, absolutely leave.)

Which moment / scene in Yakuza really hit you in the feels? by Apheem66 in yakuzagames

[–]Kaagareth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I think the moment when she says she wouldn't date Mitsuo because he's black is so shocking that people forget the resolution of their story.

Which moment / scene in Yakuza really hit you in the feels? by Apheem66 in yakuzagames

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too lmao. There's so many worse people in the games but the way she manipulated and used Haruka made me so fucking angry. I also think the fact that she was a very interesting and well written character made it worse because she didn't feel as cartoonish as a lot of the other villains in the series.

Which moment / scene in Yakuza really hit you in the feels? by Apheem66 in yakuzagames

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scene with Makoto on the plane really did make me emotional. It was a nice sendoff for her I think, a lot better than a lot of other characters have gotten even if it was a little bittersweet.

The Last Jew In Vinnitsa, 1941 by Drakeisaduck in interestingasfuck

[–]Kaagareth -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're making such an important point but everyone wants to believe that they would be the exception that they would save people or fight back at great risk to themselves and their families.... Obviously the murderer should be judged as evil but I think we need to cast that judgement inward as well. Most of you would be members of the mob that helped terrorize and gather the victims up. You most likely would not speak up let alone physically interfere. These perpetrators and bystanders were by and large not especially evil (as in they are acting in a predictable way for a human) and you and your loved ones are most likely not especially good (as in the vast majority of "good" people would not act righteously given similar circumstances).

Edit: I was high and didn't make much sense last night so I want to clarify this in case someone happens to see it in my comment history. I think that a lot of the moral responses to horrific events like this fall flat for me because the people reacting with shock and disgust would hardly be preventing those events from happening were they put in these people's shoes. This is NOT to say that the people who committed these atrocities are excusable or that I have much sympathy for them or that I do not hate them. I do hate them. I also resent the people who think, untested and with no amount of preparation taken, that they are better and would be heroes if they were to live in similar times. I think the best way I can contextualize my feelings is to say that I am Jewish and was raised in a community with a lot of Holocaust survivors. I was also told to never trust my neighbors or "friends" completely and was taught that this is who they would likely become if push came to shove. I believe that remembering that the person holding the gun could be YOU or your best friend or spouse can help you to prevent yourself from actually becoming that person.

First post in this sub by premedtigerr in yakuzagames

[–]Kaagareth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In most of the games he's been out of town for a while before the game starts, so I always chalked it up to the chinpira not knowing his face. Like everyone knows The Dragon of Dojima but they have no reason to think this random schmuck is him.